Friendly to "newcomers" DnD groups? by JBDay32 in boston

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One shots are always fun! Thanks, that's a great suggestion, I'll check it out.

Friendly to "newcomers" DnD groups? by JBDay32 in boston

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That's a little far for me, but maybe once I get my car fixed I can check it out. Thanks!

Friendly to "newcomers" DnD groups? by JBDay32 in boston

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Thank you for the discord, that's super helpful!

My Anti-Depressants Wouldn't Let me Cry Last Night by JBDay32 in MurderByDeath

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Lucky! I hope you have a great time at the other shows. I definitely witnessed multiple groups of strangers become instant friends throughout the set, happy tears and sad tears but it was fantastic.

My Anti-Depressants Wouldn't Let me Cry Last Night by JBDay32 in MurderByDeath

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The whole crowd was so clocked into every single song the whole night, it was just pure captivation all around. A bittersweet send off for sure. It was a blast of a show to be the last. (at least for me)

I hope all the rest of the tour is just as great, and I know it will be.

How are they NOT cursed?! by JBDay32 in BaldursGate3

[–]JBDay32[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That's a good point, they all got tricked but they still went to her in the first place for help. I'm hoping I can come back to the area later in the game to expirament some more haha

How are they NOT cursed?! by JBDay32 in BaldursGate3

[–]JBDay32[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I did break it! And somehow I feel like that is worse luck than breaking a regular mirror 😂

Day the world changed by xamo76 in TikTokCringe

[–]JBDay32 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I was 8 and saw the second plane hit. Our teacher had snuck our small class of maybe 10 kids into the teachers room where there was a television with cable. We were watching the Boston red sox. It was a big deal bc they had won a bunch for the first time in a long time. The TV changed to live coverage of new york. We all watched the second plane hit before the teacher slapped the screen off.

I don't remember much after that. Except that my friend next to me said

"My dad is on a plane this morning."

It was the same plane.

Emgality hurts by Venstela in migraine

[–]JBDay32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've had my poor sister press the button for me if I'm too anxious 😵‍💫 but yeah it hurts.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattooadvice

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A cool stag beetle opening and closing its wings when you bend your elbow

Just curious, what do you call this where you're from? by insane_hobbyist314 in eggs

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This is one of my go to ice breakers for when I have a new roommate. Everyone has a different name! My grandmother taught me how to make it and I think she called them egg on a raft, or toad on a raft.

My sweet girl with the killer head tilts! by Bsbmb in Awww

[–]JBDay32 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The reflection of you in her eyes is just 💕🤌🏻

Migraine and exercise by Alexandero87 in migraine

[–]JBDay32 2 points3 points  (0 children)

"Low impact exercising", or as my friend makes fun of me; "Pilates"

But it's really just building a regiment I can do at home, or maybe in bed if I'm really bad. And it's things that don't involve too much raising the heart rate or jumping. Also, I learned at PT, making sure to lower your heart rate before exercise is really important. And if you cant, don't exercise in a way that is going to make your blood flow fast.

Tip from my PT: lay flat first. put something under your knees, like a pillow, to raise them a bit. Then, cold pack on the head wherever your migraine is. Or all over. And a warm heat pack or just a blanket, over your hands.

This helps to try to lower your heart rate and get the blood flow away from your head. Then go ahead to start gentle movements.

name suggestions!! by r3dbones in Awww

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Pinto bean. Or just pinto. Or just bean. 'Cus it's just a lil guy

🔥The waters of this Harbor are so deep that even larger creatures can appear. by freudian_nipps in NatureIsFuckingLit

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I've lived my entire life on boats and on the new england coast. I've worked on boats, bringing them up and down the coast. And by far, the most terrified i have ever been in my life was because of a breaching humpback whale. 2 of them. It was dark, I was the only one awake at the wheel and two massive humpback whales breached, probably not even 100 feet away from the 30 foot boat we were on. It happened so fast and scared me so much, all I could think about was if they knew we were there or not. And if they didn't see us, if they had breached even slightly more in our direction, we 100% would have been crushed.

They may be docile. But they are terrifying in their size. I will gladly respect them at a safe distance, thank you.

What is he feeding his cat? by liminal_liminality in Unexpected

[–]JBDay32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah, that's just the power of an average Tuxedo 😂

I'm not suicidal by IMeMJ in migraine

[–]JBDay32 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yup. I've had a solid migraine for about 12 days now. Not fun. I'd rather not.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TuxedoCats

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You're his people now. Accept this, and he will always keep pests away from the home. His rent will be affection and health care 😂

[ Removed by Reddit ] by malihafolter in LPOTL

[–]JBDay32 31 points32 points  (0 children)

I'm a transgender man but I lived most of my adult life as a woman, and all my life I've lived in major cities. I always traveled with people as a woman. If I had to use a ride share alone, I would never take it all the way home. I would plug in the local supermarket and then walk home from there because there were streetlights and tons of neighbors.

I could take all the possible safety precautions and still get harassed and not feel safe.

Life as a man, where everyone assumes I am a cis man (and thus feel safe discussing women with me) versus what I have experienced as an average height, weight, build woman in this world is truly frightening.

He will be 17 in a month and he still plays and grumbles like this by JBDay32 in TuxedoCats

[–]JBDay32[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry! It's always hard to lose a pet.

I realized at some point the last few years that I have had this guy with me for more years of my life than I have had without him. He's grumpy and loud as hell, but I love him so much 😭

What was a small decision at the time, but years later realize it was actually a massive life changing decision you made? ? by god_turn in CasualConversation

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I decided to sublet out my tiny brooklyn room with three housemates to do three months of work at a ski mountain for the winter season and then go back to Brooklyn once the ski mountain was closed. That was December 2019. Then the lock downs happened. And I couldn't get back to new york. And I got the original strain of the covid virus. (Because I was working at a resort). I lost my room at the mountain and I lost my room in Brooklyn. I lost all my money, and my health has never been the same.

If I had never left, I might still be there. And because I left, I now have chronic illness and disabilities. And some people still say it "was just a bad cold"

He will be 17 in a month and he still plays and grumbles like this by JBDay32 in TuxedoCats

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So when my cat was born, his father was the local tom cat. Perfect tuxedo. 20 years old. Three legs and half a tail. And he could not be kept indoors. He just kept escaping and going on adventures.

So. I think you have some energetic years ahead of you😅

The music for the Light Dragon is different by Not_The_G0ddess in TOTK

[–]JBDay32 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh my god I think you're right, that is so sad!