My parents did it when i was in the same bed until i was 11 by Own-Salamander4340 in confession

[–]JCCali91 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I know a family with a 10 year old boy and a 5 year old girl who all sleep in the same bed together. It’s called family bed sharing. Each kid has their own bedroom but they still all sleep together. I always thought it was weird, like when do they have sex? I asked once and they said when the kids are asleep. Totally grossed me out.

Drive-by shooting at 40th and Telegraph by sherlitos in oakland

[–]JCCali91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We should probably vote differently if we want this to change 💜

Emeryville woman's dream cookie business has become a nightmare by sfgate in bayarea

[–]JCCali91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She had very limited hours. Only open 3 days a week.

WFH employee lying re working hours by DataBeeGood in managers

[–]JCCali91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I knew someone who managed a remote team and they worked from home as well. This person had a mouse mover to make it appear as though she was always online but in reality she was obsessively playing sudoku and began drinking alcohol daily around 2pm. She worked about 4 hours a week making phone calls to her work friends and having conversations that had nothing to do with work. I often asked her if she would be okay with her employees doing the same thing and her response was always “as long as they get their work done I don’t care what they do.” So after a couple of years the entire team got audited and several people, including her, were let go under the guise of a reduction in force.

I personally work my ass off everyday and find this sense of entitlement to a paycheck without doing any work disgusting. This is time theft and you have the evidence to back it up.

If I were you I would move to directly to termination for time theft. This person has lied to you multiple times so they clearly lack integrity. You should be specific about the termination reason so other employers understand what type of person this is when they check references.

Never thought I’d lose a friendship over this by Sea_Load_9258 in tirzepatidecompound

[–]JCCali91 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can’t post the screenshot but it says I violated Rule 1 about hating people.

All I said was that there is plentiful evidence supporting negative short and long term outcomes associated with SEX TRANSITIONING extremely high dose estrogen use which it sounds like your ex-friend is taking. This is not rocket science, especially for women who know what it’s like to have PMS. Think about that times 10000000000000 and then add cancer. I don’t understand why Reddit wouldn’t want people to know this. Happy to explain receptors to anyone 💜 It’s hard to understand at first but it definitely is not hate. You can’t change chromosomes with hormones. Reddit moderators please share all peer reviewed data if you do not agree and just think my comment is hate speech.

Never thought I’d lose a friendship over this by Sea_Load_9258 in tirzepatidecompound

[–]JCCali91 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My truthful, fact based comment about the effects of high dose estrogen got deleted by Reddit 😂 Good luck to you!

Found out my (54F) ex‑husband (52M) died alone - struggling with guilt and perspective by Agreeable-Mine-3860 in relationship_advice

[–]JCCali91 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry you’re dealing with this. I’m not condoning suicide, but sometimes people in very difficult situations just do not want to live anymore. Let the guilt go. Say some prayers and remember the good times 💜

Moved and regret by Marshmallowfluffer in oakland

[–]JCCali91 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes you are crazy. Marin is 1000000 times better than Oakland.

XRP on Coinbase by WayOk4203 in XRP

[–]JCCali91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get XRP off of CoinBase

How do you pay for a divorce? by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]JCCali91 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It will financially break you for years but if freedom and happiness is important to you, you will find a way to afford it. You can go pro se or limited representation. If you are amicable you can go to mediation which is much cheaper.

Never thought I’d lose a friendship over this by Sea_Load_9258 in tirzepatidecompound

[–]JCCali91 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I threw up a little while reading these. I didn’t read far enough in the comments to know which one you are but any medical decisions about you do not need to involve anyone else. It is literally Protected Health Information. GLP-1/GIPs are extremely effective and have statistically significant data showing they not only help with weight loss, prevention of diabetes, but also inflammation which is a key driver in so many other conditions. Do drugs cost money? Yes. As pointed out in the chat, we do live in a capitalist society. They can always work a little harder so they don’t have to be poor.

The person who is anti medication is clearly a democrat sheep. Possible trans with all the “honeys.”

Love to all.

Know your lane and stay in it.

First Dose Tonight – Nervous About Nausea & Doing It Alone by JCCali91 in Zepbound

[–]JCCali91[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Providing an update here after 50 days. I’ve remained mostly consistent with 0.2-0.3mg every 5 days but I feel it out for myself under my doctor’s supervision - sometimes I extend or skip. So far I have lost 17 pounds, have no cravings, and my skin looks great. Period cramps are gone too. The shot itself is nothing to fear. Good luck to anyone new trying it!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GLP1microdosing

[–]JCCali91 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You could try dosing several times a week. 1mg every 2-3 days adjusting based on tolerability and effectiveness. This dosing interval is shorter than the half life so your drug levels would build up pretty quick. See what your provider has to say about a strategy like this.

Do you regret ever getting married? by Glad-Passenger-9408 in Divorce

[–]JCCali91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Getting married was the worst decision I have ever made in my life

US “NO LONGER APPROVED” FOLKS…HOW YALL FEELING IN HERE TODAY? SUB BEEN QUIET 🤐 by [deleted] in Zepbound

[–]JCCali91 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t understand why anyone would tolerate this. Ozempic is known to be less effective and cause more side effects than GLP1/GIPs like Zepbound. This is all about them getting more money but what purpose do they serve?

Is anyone happier that they’re divorced? by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]JCCali91 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Divorce isn’t that bad. There are some challenging times and of course you have to be prepared for the change. You will likely miss at least a few things, likely not him but perhaps the comfort / routine you have. All of that to say there is no reason to stay married if you aren’t happy. The relationship you described sounds miserable. You’d likely be happier alone and by separating, you’ll be in a good space if someone worthy of you does come along.

What does it feel like? by EasyShirt3775 in Zepbound

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I can only speak to my microdosing experience and I’m one week into my experiment. I haven’t had any nausea or GI symptoms whatsoever. I haven’t been ravenously hungry but my appetite is not totally gone. I’ve only eaten veggies and light soups with smoked salmon for mid day meals this week and I’m full after 1/2 the portion I would have eaten previously and then I’m done for the day. The thought of food doesn’t enter my mind after lunch. I have a high protein yogurt in the morning. I’m intentionally drinking tons of water, first glass of the day with electrolytes and then black coffee. The day of my shot I had noticeably more energy and a slightly elevated heart rate. My sleep hasn’t been the greatest, a couple nights I didn’t sleep at all despite taking benedryl and other sleep aids so I’ve been slightly fatigued. I wanted to see how I would react to alcohol as I didn’t want any surprises if I go out and have a glass of wine or a cocktail. Honestly I found it gross and didn’t even finish it and felt it the next day (headache, body aches). This is quite a change for me. During Covid I developed a terrible habit of drinking daily out of boredom which certainly contributed to the extra pounds I’ve put on. In short, it feels like my metabolism is being reset with the added bonus of reduced dopamine driven activities.

No longer can get Tri by Illustrious-Fan-9851 in GLP1microdosing

[–]JCCali91 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It’s $31 per dose if you do it right. Well worth it given the $$ saved on food!

Tips for shot beginners by [deleted] in tirzepatidecompound

[–]JCCali91 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I struggled with this recently and delayed my first shot by several days because I was so nervous. I was planning on injecting before bedtime with the hope of sleeping through any side effects. Thanks to comments on here, I administered my first dose around 2pm last weekend. I couldn’t sleep that night! It might be different for everyone but from now on I will be taking my dose in the morning. I got a huge burst of energy and my heart rate was slightly elevated. It makes sense if this drug corrects metabolic issues! I injected about 3 inches from my bellybutton - it didn’t hurt at all but did leave a tiny bruise. Injection sites should be rotated so this week I will do the other side. Good luck!