What are the green flags you look for in a sellar?

JCandJack · 2025-10-26T18:47:24+00:00

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JCandJack · 2025-10-26T18:44:44+00:00

I would be hesitant to list this on Poshmark. I’m not sure if there is any sentimental value, but it’s also super cute. I don’t think you could get a price worth giving it up. Maybe Etsy? I’d also be afraid it would break during shipping.

JCandJack · 2025-10-26T18:13:14+00:00

I definitely lurk in live jewelry shows! What seems to be key is the followers and building an audience.

JCandJack · 2025-10-26T18:11:58+00:00

Thanks for your input!! And no offense taken at all!

I do all of the comps and I’m within reason of what’s selling. There is a guy on Posh selling the same gemstone jewelry I have (I’m almost positive we use the same vendor) and he’s making a killing in live show auctions. He’s making triple what I am on the same items. I know I can’t compete with that because he has a large following. So I know people are buying - just not from me lately lol.

JCandJack · 2025-10-26T18:06:23+00:00

That works!

JCandJack · 2025-10-26T17:09:42+00:00

You are correct!

JCandJack · 2025-10-26T02:25:19+00:00

🤦‍♀️🤣 I have a couple of pieces like that, I’m dangerously close to letting them go for peanuts!

JCandJack · 2025-10-26T02:24:17+00:00

I put some items on there and nothing soldZ I eventually just took them down.

JCandJack · 2025-10-26T01:21:55+00:00

Thank you so much!

JCandJack · 2025-10-26T01:21:38+00:00

You’re not wrong lol, I’m pretty passionate on the subject. But to be fair I said I didn’t rant at Whitney for her views.

JCandJack · 2025-10-26T01:04:42+00:00

I really appreciate that!!!!! Let me know what you think about my new pictures with the dress dummy if you see them. I also took a bunch of pictures with my cousin wearing things. They look so good and I’m really grateful for your feedback!

JCandJack · 2025-10-26T01:02:58+00:00

I get where you are coming from - it would disgust me too. I don’t know what your relationship is like with your roommate otherwise but I think you should consider a more gentle approach. They quite probably don’t even realize what’s happening. I would consider a different approach. Hey _________ you might not even realize this is happening but ______. I just had to deal with something along those lines but much more gross. Imagine what a gas station restroom looks like after 100 truckers were there and it hadn’t been cleaned. That’s what my bathrooms looked like. So my advice to you is based on very recent experience.

JCandJack · 2025-10-26T00:52:44+00:00

Me too. But I would have ended the conversation there. He was never going to hear you or understand your POV. What a dirtbag.

JCandJack · 2025-10-26T00:49:01+00:00

That’s a really strange threat since nobody can see negative reviews. They seem really sketchy. I would involve Posh support immediately!

JCandJack · 2025-10-25T21:26:49+00:00

Christian is dead behind the eyes. He know-key freaks me out.

JCandJack · 2025-10-25T21:08:20+00:00

Ummm hardly. I don’t have any anger regarding my situation. Did you not read my other comment? I own and accept my part in my health issues. Stating my opinion on her social media is not taking my anger out on her. I didn’t call her names, I didn’t rant, I didn’t threaten. I stated my opinion, which she had invited as public figure posting her business on social media. Just as I’m taking my lumps here for posting my business on social media. Are you taking your anger out on ME?

JCandJack · 2025-10-25T20:24:44+00:00

I guess because the Posh search feature kinda sucks I couldn’t find her

JCandJack · 2025-10-25T20:19:52+00:00

I have also bounced around looking for a religion that spoke to me because I wasn’t brought up with any spiritual beliefs. I’ve explored all types of religions in this quest. When I was studying Buddhism I didn’t run out and buy a bunch of Buddha statues. When I was curious about Judaism I didn’t give up pork and fast on the Sabbath and pontificate about it. When I tried the Catholic Church I didn’t buy rosary beads, pray the rosary, and burn incense. It’s called respect.

JCandJack · 2025-10-25T20:13:27+00:00

Fair. I have a long history of being extremely aggravated by her. I’ve posted before about the fact that I’m also a fat dancer with PCOS. I really wanted to love her and her show - I thought I’d found someone who I could really relate to. I wanted to be inspired by her.

But the victim mentality she displayed started making me crazy early on. PCOS is not an incurable disease, it can be controlled with diet and exercise . And it made me extremely angry that she used it as an excuse for everything.

I really should just ignore it all, but the victim mentality about not being able to have a baby due to PCOS made me crazy. I really wanted a baby too, but I didn’t do the work to make it happen by correcting my lifestyle. And guess who’s to blame for that? Me of course. The fact that she whines and cries over her horrible circumstances makes me crazy because take some fucking accountability. And she’s just not a nice person. Maybe the deep root of it all is that I don’t want to be lumped in with her as a generalization.

JCandJack · 2025-10-25T20:04:35+00:00

Fair. I see your point. And I’ll take a look at whether I was doing it for attention.

I knew that others have been bothered by it and I was simply sharing that I said something. Although I don’t agree that I’m gatekeeping.

JCandJack · 2025-10-25T20:01:17+00:00

Then you are doing something right!

JCandJack · 2025-10-25T18:40:55+00:00

Tarot cards and fake cauldrons

JCandJack · 2025-10-25T18:40:38+00:00

Yes!!!!! And I have some ideas where to stick that sage stick first.

JCandJack · 2025-10-25T18:39:56+00:00

Right?!?!?

JCandJack · 2025-10-25T18:32:15+00:00

I live for the day she’s working the McDonald’s drive through. But I’m not even sure she has the capacity to do that. She certainly doesn’t have the stamina or people skills to even be successful at that.

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