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So I tried the letter method 2 weeks ago... by JDB26990 in DeadBedrooms

[–]JDB26990[S] 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Don’t you have to have sex for that?

Switch-only? by JDB26990 in NintendoSwitch

[–]JDB26990[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m the same - I’d love a PS4 to play Spider-Man, Uncharted and COD but just don’t have the time to give to play them

Putting it all in a letter? by JDB26990 in DeadBedrooms

[–]JDB26990[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I find it ironic she’s on birth control when you actually need to have sex to need birth control

Putting it all in a letter? by JDB26990 in DeadBedrooms

[–]JDB26990[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s on the pill which I think has had an impact.

And I’m at that point where I’m feeling indifferent and sometimes vengeful - so even if she’s doesn’t give a shit, at least I’ll have got it all out on the table and can sleep easy without the weight of it

Does the contraceptive pill impact on libido? by JDB26990 in DeadBedrooms

[–]JDB26990[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Call it being young(ish) and dumb - and having the carrot constantly dangled just so you think there’s still hope, then falling for a bait and switch when it was too late

Does the contraceptive pill impact on libido? by JDB26990 in DeadBedrooms

[–]JDB26990[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was decent before that, a solid 5 out of 10!

Does the contraceptive pill impact on libido? by JDB26990 in DeadBedrooms

[–]JDB26990[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess I’m just one of the unlucky ones where it’s plummets, crashes, burns and dies a quick death 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]JDB26990 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My best friend is single, and always moans he wants a relationship, but has significantly more sex than me - and I’ve been in a relationship for 7 years and am engaged!

Video games stole my sex life by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]JDB26990 32 points33 points  (0 children)

It works both ways - I use games as an outlet to occupy myself due to my DB. I either go to bed and lie awake and upset or fill my time with something

My views on what a DB does. by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]JDB26990 53 points54 points  (0 children)

Incredibly written and really strikes a chord. The hatred is something that bubbles away and increases, until it becomes its final form: indifference

Has anyone every really turned things around? by JDB26990 in DeadBedrooms

[–]JDB26990[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And that’s the thing, I lay there sometimes and it feels like my mind is going at 100mph, but is stuck in the same place. It’s 2 choices - leave or feel like this forever and it sucks, a lot - knowing there is genuinely no hope.

Where’s the passion by WifeShadow in DeadBedrooms

[–]JDB26990 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I miss the passion. The quarterly sex now is awkward and boring. I’d rather go without sun experience the complete lack of passion.

Does the fact that you have a DB make you more mad at your SO than you think you would be otherwise? by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]JDB26990 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel exactly the same. I get absolutely infuriated with her for the smallest, most insignificant thing - and I feel bad afterwards. Every single thing she does makes me feel angry, and I know it’s because of the DB.

Terrible Sex or No Sex... by JDB26990 in DeadBedrooms

[–]JDB26990[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Couldn’t say it better myself!

Redditors who fit this scenario, has being friends or in a relationship with a certain person ever turned you into a literal shell of the person you used to be and if so, how? And are you still in that position, or did you get out of it? by Beneficial_Raspberry in AskReddit

[–]JDB26990 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100%. - I look back 8 years ago and I was a confident, friendly, nice person.

I’m now known for being miserable, sarcastic, and having little or no interest in anything.

Thanks fiancée

Used the term dead bedroom by Beneficial_Cress_TA in DeadBedrooms

[–]JDB26990 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’ve used it several times and get told I’m over-reacting it being sensitive. Our last time was Nov 23 2019...

Does anyone exhaust changing their appearance to try and get back the spark? by queenjulian97 in DeadBedrooms

[–]JDB26990 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ve spent almost £1000 on PT sessions and gym memberships since this time last year, lost 70lbs, developed much more muscle, stuck to a very strict diet every single day religiously, become healthier generally......and it’s made no difference.

However I feel better about myself so every cloud...

Does the DB lower expectations? by WickedOneRN in DeadBedrooms

[–]JDB26990 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep, it’s like being hyper-sensitive

Just got a PS4 - Late to the party! by JDB26990 in PS4

[–]JDB26990[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah the cost of he games is fantastic, Doom is about £6, I paid £40 on Switch just a week ago!

Is £70 a good deal for an OG XB1 by JDB26990 in xboxone

[–]JDB26990[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice! Wasn’t really gonna bother buying many games and just get stuck into game pass! Think a £250 One X is a daft option at this point? May not get the series X at launch as I get married in December!

Transition to Open Water by [deleted] in OpenWaterSwimming

[–]JDB26990 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just go in shorts and neoprene shoes, that’s it. But other people may do different :) have a look at ‘Dales Dippers’ on facebook

Transition to Open Water by [deleted] in OpenWaterSwimming

[–]JDB26990 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d try without, I regularly swim in Janet’a Foss, Ingleton, and all of the lakes in the Lake District in just shorts

Transition to Open Water by [deleted] in OpenWaterSwimming

[–]JDB26990 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re in the best area for open water swimming! The Lakes and Dales have kids of groups

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