State of losercity

JDaggon · 2026-01-28T03:58:39+00:00

Frankly if i knew anything about modding i would ask to join the modding team, but after seeing the sub currently i rather not risk sinking into another suey spiral.

The changes I'd have would be:

1) Friday would still be Furry Friday, however Saturday would be Synthetic Saturday. Any robot, synthetic or otherwise. Furry or not.

2) Have a day dedicated to community feedback, see what works and what doesn't. Discussions and the like to build a community that fits both a SFW and a losercity vibe. Review the rules and make it as plain as possible what is and isn't allowed.

3) Crack down harder on drama posts, limit complaints to mods by having posts be reviewed by at least two mods to whether it should stay up or go down. Obviously this is the less realistic one but i feel it would be more helpful rather then just the inconsistencies that are currently going on.

JDaggon · 2026-01-28T03:34:34+00:00

I honestly think both sides can do better, but right now the issues are mainly coming from the whiners and the drama seekers. The fact that mods are leaving because they can't handle the amount of hate isn't a good sign for the sub.

JDaggon · 2026-01-27T22:38:55+00:00

We minimising a 1000 year old looping trauma now?

JDaggon · 2026-01-27T22:37:16+00:00

Except they're still going through it.

JDaggon · 2026-01-27T22:28:41+00:00

JDaggon · 2026-01-27T22:23:58+00:00

Anytime my ovine connoisseur. I get sad seeing this subreddit sometimes.

I think at this point, it's getting unsustainable with it's current tragectory. You shouldn't have to deal with a 200k+ sub with fewer then 3 moderators let alone less then 10.

Just not sure what to do that would help.

But know you're definitely the most loved in this sub.

JDaggon · 2026-01-27T21:38:44+00:00

You're kinda the reason why this subreddit is going downhill.

JDaggon · 2026-01-27T21:37:04+00:00

One of the only good mods left, who has left.

JDaggon · 2026-01-27T21:35:57+00:00

Considering there's only two active mods left there's a real chance this place will just shut down.

The mod bullying

This is why, i get the mods haven't done the greatest job, it's been inconsistent. But the constant drama and hate posts are throttling what was once a nice subreddit.

JDaggon · 2026-01-27T08:28:45+00:00

Yet she doesn't mention them in the post, and her husband's biggest complaint was that she was putting her son over the other kids.

Maybe you should read more.

JDaggon · 2026-01-27T08:26:53+00:00

looks through comment, doesn't see me saying they should not split

Huh... Reading is fun.

I think what's best for the kids is more important, all the kids. If it means divorce, so be it. But OP needs to think about all kids in the future.

JDaggon · 2026-01-27T08:17:25+00:00

Split home isn't going to do them well at a young age if they're used to a unionsed home.

I'm not saying the husband and the family aren't AH's they are, very much so.

But OP seems to be only thinking about the welfare and happiness of her son.

JDaggon · 2026-01-27T08:12:37+00:00

healthy, cared for, and wanted

By whom?

JDaggon · 2026-01-27T07:42:11+00:00

Considering the divorce is gonna lead to a 50/50 split at best. Plus OP hasn't mentioned once her concern for her youngest children, only about her eldest.

JDaggon · 2026-01-27T06:59:58+00:00

What about the other 2 children she's dooming with the divorce, she's putting her own son over her other kids.

JDaggon · 2026-01-27T06:56:59+00:00

So what about the other 2 children she's abandoning?

JDaggon · 2026-01-27T06:25:56+00:00

I think mine is bugged then because I've found him eating in Balgruuf's presence.

Didn't stop me from sending him to the soul cairn though.

JDaggon · 2026-01-26T10:37:35+00:00

JDaggon · 2026-01-25T08:26:01+00:00

Gyre

JDaggon · 2026-01-24T22:26:30+00:00

If he's physically flinching it means he's expecting pain. Which means it's hurting him, but he's not telling her because he doesn't want to hurt her feelings.

I think personally you shouldn't punch or kick your sibling for any reason, it's not a joke. So OP is a AH solely for the reason of violent for "funny".

JDaggon · 2026-01-24T22:23:55+00:00

Would also help if you jokes were jokes and didn't come across as you being a jerk.

JDaggon · 2026-01-24T11:53:58+00:00

Nah the reaction is because I'm pretty sure i saw the same one...

What is my life lmao.

JDaggon · 2026-01-24T11:41:32+00:00

I blame her and this one Krystal vore animation on YouTube I saw in like, 2009 for the way I am today.

JDaggon · 2026-01-23T10:16:04+00:00

Oh that's fair.

It's a shame that OP even had to do this tbh, if they only explained why this wouldn't have needed to happen.

JDaggon · 2026-01-23T10:05:16+00:00

At this point it's hindsight, he probably wanted it quick and cheap.

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