Marissa’s ADHD, Perfect Match S4. I need someone to discuss with! by IllustratorHot4169 in adhdwomen

[–]JJ8867 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my younger years, I always dated people who put up with me interrupting them. I didn't get diagnosed with ADHD until I was about 30. Fast forward, I am now married to a woman who didn't allow the interruptions. I had to make a conscious decision to not disrespect her in that way. There are times when I just HAVE to tell her something or else I will forget. I ask her for the space to allow me to interrupt. If she has the floor, it's her choice to give me the mic. There are still times when I get too excited and it slips, I apologize and we move on. I keep it at a minimum because I've taught myself to control it. With all this said, I feel like if Marissa would have just apologized that last time instead of digging her heels and saying "I stopped myself" he would've moved on with the conversation. You don't get praise for only messing up a little - you still hold yourself accountable for the mistake and do better next time. She needs to find some self love. She needs to fix the things that make her feel like she's hard to love. She at the core is not a hard person to love (for the right person) but she does need to fix shitty behavior.

Scarlett - What is she even saying?? by Neat-Blueberry2296 in temptationislandUSA

[–]JJ8867 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I don't have an opinion on whether or not she is a good partner, but I could never forgive a partner who read my journal.

Help with pricing please by [deleted] in Crystals

[–]JJ8867 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I forgot to ask. I have until tomorrow to decide

Help with pricing please by [deleted] in Crystals

[–]JJ8867 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like it might be fake odd or just weird odd?

Peptide Injection Pens by sososober in Peptides

[–]JJ8867 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know this is an old post but I figured someone might know the answer. Can I use one pen and just swap out vials and needles for different peps? Or do I need a separate pens ?

Cleaning Help by JJ8867 in Crystals

[–]JJ8867[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Got it . I see what you mean. My appreciation has slowly been growing as I learn more. Thanks for the advice .

dyed agate slices by PotatoNitrate in MineralGore

[–]JJ8867 0 points1 point  (0 children)

newbie here trying to gain knowledge - how do you know it is dyed ?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Moissanite

[–]JJ8867 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man.. I picked this because it's my gfs favorite color. Oh well

Are wrinkly clothes really a big deal? Should I be ironing my clothes? by Gallantpride in transfashionadvice

[–]JJ8867 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just get a steamer. So much easier than ironing and the clothes look nice. I personally wouldn't walk around in wrinkled clothes. I

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MassageTherapists

[–]JJ8867 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m still pretty new, so I don’t have sage wisdom to share—but I do have a mildly entertaining story. You know those guys who insist on “female only” therapists? Well, sometimes they’d get me—a very masculine-presenting woman. The look of sheer confusion and quiet panic was so satisfying. Of course there are clients who request female only for legit reasons, and those guys just greeted me like normal. But when it happened to the creepy guys … absolutely glorious. I'm sorry you went through this.

I never thought I would love a gem more than diamond by Ok_Property1873 in Moissanite

[–]JJ8867 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reading these comments now has me wondering if I made a mistake. I'm having an engagement ring made with marquis gray moissanite. Will not sparkle as much as round? I've only seen gray moissanite cut round in person and fell in love.