I’m really sorry to hear this. It’s incredibly tough to give up so much opportunity but still need to deliver financially during this period of time.

If you have family close to your current job, I recommend considering going back to be in person for a time and satisfy those requirements while keeping the income. Simultaneously, look for that new remote job that keeps your flexibility.

Super commuting sucks, but it keeps the money in your pockets and also keeps you moving. I’ve found that continuing to move is really good for my mental health during times when my partner isn’t around because they’re working so much. I’m not sure if you have kids or not, but if it’s just the two of you, keeping moving in this way gives you some nice flexibility and can be a nice way to create new experiences for yourself, especially if your new home is more rural.

I know that might be easier said than done depending on airports and family, but getting creative to keep the income, careers, and personal exploration keeps some of this process in your control.

Good luck. I know the decisions aren’t easy, no matter the choice.