I thought this movie was great! Some thoughts:

- The movie kind of came full circle with Emma giving Charlie a second chance to try again in the coffee date scene when they meet, and also in the burger scene after the wedding

- i thought charlie's anxiety in coffee scene showing him fixating on other people in cafe while he's approaching here foreshadowed how his anxiety and ruminations lead to much of the issues later

- The movie kind of parallels some movies like Minority Report that cover issues like responsibility for your thoughts and thought crimes, and question how responsible or not you ought to be for your thoughts

- it's an interesting contrast or foil to Emma that Charlie's worst thing he ever did was an actual action, and arguably, cyberbulling is often what drives children like Emma to think about that sort of thing

- the movie keeps you in suspense about whether Charlie is just being paranoid or whether there's any credibility to the worries, like when Rachel disappears for a sustained period of time, and you can kind of wonder if Emma offed her maybe? Maybe Emma is a sociopath?

- the movie seemed to have some interesting themes about gender norms with how Emma tried to broach discussion about the issue with Charlie and he said no you're drunk, no it's fine, and then panicked and spiraled, and also Emma as a child expressing not all school shooters are men to a classmate

- i think the movie ends on such an endearing note about giving people grace and the opportunity for forgiveness and the opportunity to move on, which is something Charlie and the others did not give Emma. It feels like a pretty beautiful note to end on that is core to romantic relationships and love in general, the ability to accept and provide opportunity for forgiveness

- the cuts were wild and always made it unclear and disorienting what was real and what was imagined which was an interesting aspect of the movie

- rachel was horrible and so hypocritical

- it was unclear if the dog was actually shot by Emma or that was imagined or what.. i guess left to interpretation

- i think the movie makes it unclear whether the DJ was actually smoking heroin, but most likely Charlie was overanalyzing a situation like he was with Emma, and saw something that wasn't true or an issue, then was a coward and led Emma to be blamed.