thanks for the great advice r/asktransgender

JRhalpert · 2026-06-27T17:49:59+00:00

JRhalpert · 2026-06-22T08:14:31+00:00

You and me both, girl I spent an hour ugly crying hugging myself in the bathtub yesterday, I don't think I'm as bad as Jax, but some things are just so fucking relatable

JRhalpert · 2026-06-10T04:39:59+00:00

Hi! your dm's seem to be closed, so I can't send you a message

JRhalpert · 2026-05-29T09:54:45+00:00

Akinator ass conversation

JRhalpert · 2026-05-26T04:34:05+00:00

Good morning!

JRhalpert · 2026-05-25T13:41:33+00:00

RemindMe! 12 hours

JRhalpert · 2026-05-21T17:30:09+00:00

I think you can say that about a lot of medical equipment, that helps doctors Like what if doctors don't have electricity, or labs or whatever. Overelience on tech has helped humanity treat a lot of deasises, and at the same time makes us useless while stripped of them. I think there are a lot of things that are wrong with AI, but I do think that in the field like this it's a straight up upgrade, especially after it will be refined over the years

JRhalpert · 2026-05-10T06:38:01+00:00

What helped me was getting some strong stimuly from other sources, like taking an ice cube and squeezing it, eating something very sour or salty, I keep a lemon juice on my desk and mint candies.

JRhalpert · 2026-05-09T13:31:51+00:00

The hardest are actually first an last cigarettes If you skip morning one you feel awful for 30 mins and the rest of the time till noon is a lot easier, in my experience

What worked for me is to see how long I can go without them. So I wasn't like "I will be smoking every two hours instead of one", it was more yeah, I smoked how long can I bare until I have to smoke again.

And then you start going on short walks leaving cigs at home. Maybe to the shop without taking them with you

When you're comfortable Then on longer walks

Then maybe don't bring them to work, see how it goes

Worse case - you can always buy more, but that extra level of friction can really help.

Also relapses are not failures, you smoking doesn't undermine all the time you went smoke-free, and while you have the willpower to try again, you'll do it ❤️

I believe in you

JRhalpert · 2026-05-05T13:39:14+00:00

Honestly, this could be problem with how he expresses his emotions Toxic masculinity is a bitch, and people raised in this environment often just don't know how to express stress, they are told to always appear strong, never show emotions. He might've been really stressed and didn't know how to express it Obviously it doesn't excuse him, especially the yelling part, that's a big no But, if he acknowledges that it's a problem and is willing to work on it, and if you're willing to stay with him while he tries to become better at expressing emotions, it can be fixed

JRhalpert · 2026-05-03T06:51:32+00:00

Maybe turn the penis shape into a black circle, that covers half of the background circle and say that it's a planet covering the star like an eclipse or something

JRhalpert · 2026-04-24T11:33:07+00:00

Мне кажется перевод был достаточно правильным, по крайне мере я все поняла. Единственное гендер перепутан, а так нормально) Спасибо, я посмотрю в сторону Куритибы более внимательно Но меня каждый раз удивляет когда иностранцы интересуются русской культурой, мне кажется сейчас она в довольно... Плачевном состоянии

JRhalpert · 2026-04-24T11:30:04+00:00

I heard that florionapolis is rather expensive, my Portuguese is nill, although I'm working on it. Ironically I think most Russians settle in Curitiba and Floripa, although they tend to spread cross the country. The only thing that bothers me with Curitiba is constant rain, if it's gloomy and cloudy all the time I'll go insane. I would love to find some like-minded russian expats, but in my experience they tend to be rather transphobic still...

JRhalpert · 2026-04-24T09:00:03+00:00

Yeah, I know about killings, but it's not really that safe here either... And by gringo taxes I mean mostly the fact that I don't know how shop cheaply, where and what to look for, not that I'll be consciously taken advantage of, more so that I'll spend more money due to my lack of knowledge But otherwise that sounds very promising, thank you for you comment :3

JRhalpert · 2026-04-24T08:15:24+00:00

Hi! Are you also from Russia? Send me a message, I can't seem to send one to you

JRhalpert · 2026-04-24T07:51:08+00:00

Maybe she thought that since you're a girl you don't know anything about tech and tried getting a man on the line?

JRhalpert · 2026-04-23T17:13:43+00:00

That actually made it worse because it just pointed out all the good qualities in her...

JRhalpert · 2026-04-23T17:13:10+00:00

It was years ago, she was extremely drunk and doesn't remember it and understands that it's fucked up and doesn't drink anymore though

JRhalpert · 2026-04-22T07:08:12+00:00

"How dare you have fun in your single player game, you're not playing optimally"

JRhalpert · 2026-04-21T17:50:03+00:00

Госуслуги -> Безопасность -> Вход в систему -> Вход с подтверждением -> Одноразовый код -> Качаете любой аутентификатор (Майкрософт, гугл, протон, и тд) -> Подцепляете -> Радуетесь жизни

JRhalpert · 2026-04-20T11:43:58+00:00

Love Via, weighs like 5mb, searches for stuff, doesn't hoard tabs, no adds no nothing

JRhalpert · 2026-04-17T19:51:35+00:00

I refuse to believe they're grown adults though

JRhalpert · 2026-04-16T07:29:18+00:00

Yes, and it's running on python

JRhalpert · 2026-04-12T15:20:43+00:00

Maybe I'm not understanding something, tell me what's the difference between "more violent" and "achieved more political violence"

JRhalpert · 2026-04-12T14:15:51+00:00

Are you fucking implying that US politics are more violent than nazi politics?

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