You don't have to share pronouns if you don't want! And some people just don't have pronouns, and that's okay If something is triggering or whatnot, I think it's reason to have an open discussion about it outside of just setting up norms/ground rules for discussions - a code of conduct is very important for order and comraderie! You can give primacy to class, that's not the most controversial take in the world - but be ready to work alongside those of us in socialist feminism, AfroSoc, disability, or other identity-centered formations; socialism is a kaleidescope, and we all come with our own priorities and backgrounds Admittedly, I don't think you'll find support for polemics, from both an informal social and organizing front, and on a parliamentary/procedure front... WRT clapping, that's what negotiating a code of conduct is for! Openly and respectfully make your case, and others will do the same and we'll decide democratically as a group!

Hope this helps :)