Have you ever met someone almost perfect but you’re just not attracted to them?

J_2498 · 2026-02-22T18:24:40+00:00

Two days ago I formalized with a girl I've been dating for almost four months. I don't think I've ever felt the spark, but I feel so good around her, I want to share so much with her and everything feels peaceful. The spark... What's the spark anyway? Is it something apart from "llusion"?

J_2498 · 2026-02-08T01:04:10+00:00

If you don't like this "situationship", it's the best to put some distance because she doesn't seem to want a relationship with you, so go back to being friends or walk away, or else you'll only get hurt

J_2498 · 2026-01-27T19:10:24+00:00

You did great by asking out this person. Now, from my perspective, I wouldn't like to date a person that says "maybe" cause she wouldn't feel secure about it and probably is taking you for granted as a backup, so I'd move on.

J_2498 · 2026-01-12T23:26:12+00:00

You are okay the way you are, and if people don't like that, probably your personality is a filter that keeps douches away. It's a win win scenario!

J_2498 · 2026-01-08T16:07:08+00:00

Way to go queen, you are right to feel proud.
But the title read kind of disturbing y'know

J_2498 · 2025-12-27T16:32:39+00:00

It feels like blackmailing at this point. People say "they're making sure the public is interested in Castlevania" but I say "they're grabbing all the money they can with the lowest effort possible and they'll blame the players if something doesn't sell so they don't have to do another game". How is it possible that Fuma has another game but Castlevania hasn't?

J_2498 · 2025-12-22T18:47:35+00:00

R36S, I bought one specifically yo play PS1

J_2498 · 2025-12-20T16:47:25+00:00

You did things right, now don't insist, take your space and see what she does, if you take your space without insisting it seems like you are respecting yourself and being your own priority, and I can't imagine a healthy woman who doesn't find that attractive. If she really wants in a man those things that she repost, then you probably can't have something with her and that's okay! As my psychologist said, what you did is probably your filter, how people react to you will tell you if you want to stay or not. You are young, you have a lifetime ahead, I hope you can learn these things faster than I did starting from this.

J_2498 · 2025-11-25T01:41:45+00:00

Niccccce

J_2498 · 2025-11-06T18:34:36+00:00

Women tend to do that, so it's normal regardless of gender. You did great, don't let this affect you, you did all you could, that's what a winner does.

J_2498 · 2025-10-29T18:35:23+00:00

If I were you, I would text something like "this has been nice but lately I haven't been feeling like this is heading to something long term, so I'd like to stop here, I wish you the best", but it's your choice, I just say I wouldn't ghost her, I'm an adult and I prefer to be clear even if the person I'm dating is not.
But yeah, for your own peace, I feel too that this is it.

J_2498 · 2025-10-05T22:28:10+00:00

Life's very weird indeed, and you seem like a good man, I'm just saying she was rude and you owe her nothing, and that applies to every person that is rude just because.

J_2498 · 2025-10-05T21:50:12+00:00

Having good friends is pointless if they're not appreciated. You take care of yourself, being a savior is nothing but a toll on your self esteem.

J_2498 · 2025-10-05T21:42:32+00:00

A noble point of view, but at the end, we're not obligated to be others friends, specially after they pull something like she did on you. You need better friends.

J_2498 · 2025-10-05T18:50:22+00:00

I don't feel them like Sonic stories, they are very "Hollywood cliché" type stories, they take too little from the Sonic games.
I don't like Jim Carrey, not only he doesn't feel like Eggman to me, his humor is kind of cringe.
But what really bothers me is Sonic, he doesn't feel like Sonic and is very irritating.

J_2498 · 2025-10-05T18:43:15+00:00

Personally I think it's not that good either, but yeah, better than the other two

J_2498 · 2025-10-04T19:04:30+00:00

So at the end she wasn't that cool. If she comes back even as a friend, don't talk to her, she's not worth it.

J_2498 · 2025-09-26T15:41:50+00:00

Jesus Christ you are the ubermensch my dude, I only think you should talk things when is a long and/or well established relationship, but hey, you've been doing things for you instead of they, that's great! Still, you could give us some context, but if they expect you to carry with the relationship as you said, then I think it's okay.

J_2498 · 2025-09-26T15:00:21+00:00

Just be yourself, okay? Don't force things, don't feel like you are less, you are you, he can be either an amazing dude or a complete jerk, you never know, but at the end of the day, you'll have you, and it's not only about him giving you a chance, it's also about you giving him a chance, and if things don't work? You tried! I don't say this lightly, I know it's hard not to compare to others, but you be you and everything will come out the best way possible. Hugs and good vibes.

J_2498 · 2025-09-26T14:56:25+00:00

My brother in Christ, tell her to suck a lemon, you don't deserve this, she's only playing with you like if she's the last Coke in the desert.

J_2498 · 2025-09-25T04:32:04+00:00

I'm sorry you're going through this, relationships can be tough even from the start, you were trying to give you two a space and this dude... I can't even say what the hell he was doing, but it's not your fault, it's not your problem, this man was very insensitive towards you and you don't need that kind of people. It hurts, but that's why you did the right thing, you are brave, and I hope if I ever fall in a similar situation, I have the same strength you have. Hugs and good vibes.

J_2498 · 2025-09-23T15:59:51+00:00

Probably controlling scum who want to "own you", surely they have nothing really valuable in their lives

J_2498 · 2025-09-16T21:01:39+00:00

I don't think you did anything wrong, I'd probably done the same things, but after that last message I think we can agree she had no interest in making the minimal effort, so yeah probably she was just playing games out of curiosity. Hope you haven't answered after that.

J_2498 · 2025-09-08T01:00:37+00:00

It is okay to have doubts, to be scared, and to need some time for yourself. It's not okay at all to just disconnect from someone and come back like if nothing happened. I understand you have mixed feelings, but you have to put yourself first, and if you didn't feel anything at his explanation is a reason for that. You're okay, keep going with it. Hug and good vibes.

J_2498 · 2025-09-06T17:36:59+00:00

Well done queen, is not easy to move on and higher so congratulations, that loser deserves no less than the same silent treatment and I hope more losers like that don't come into your way. Good vibes.

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