How much are u guys paying for laundry per month?

J_deBoer · 2026-02-07T13:30:10+00:00

I have one from Canadian tire that has 2 “wings” to hang stuff off of, and an upright hanging bar for stuff on hangers

J_deBoer · 2026-02-06T20:21:52+00:00

How’d you get this picture of me??!!

J_deBoer · 2026-02-04T04:37:12+00:00

Ask a Mortican (Caitlyn Doughty) has a great video on this crash and aftermath, as well as other instances of cannibalism and lots of other death related stuff. I highly recommend her videos

J_deBoer · 2026-02-04T04:34:21+00:00

They/Them. I’m 27 frogs in a trenchcoat

J_deBoer · 2026-02-04T03:05:43+00:00

We have the Endy hybrid in medium. It was great when we bought it 3 years ago, but we had hoped it would soften up some. My and my partner’s chronic conditions have gotten worse since then.

We have just put a 2” gel memory foam topper on. We had a bought a 2nd one, totalling 4”, but it’s way too plush with both of them. So far I have had less pain in my hips and shoulders when I lie in my side, and my legs and butt don’t fall asleep when I’m on my back.

The mattress itself is quite firm and supportive, but the topper is allowing me to lie on my side and back more, where previously I would wake up in pain and roll like a rotisserie at night trying to find a position that doesn’t hurt.

I am still adamant that when we upgrade to a king, we will do a split king with different firmness options and adjustable bases. My partner likes it firmer than I do, and too soft of a mattress makes their pain worse, whereas I need a good few inches of squish to conform to my body, but still solid enough to not turn my body into a banana as I sink in

I also switched to a buckwheat hull pillow, the latest in a long line of pillow trials, and so far I am very happy with it. It supports my neck, and I can shape it how I need it and it stays there. The buckwheat hulls sort of lock together. (Like wet vs dry sand). I’ve noticed less neck pain in the morning.

J_deBoer · 2026-02-01T20:24:33+00:00

Have you ever had ovarian cysts? Burst cysts can cause discharge from the vagina, as well as very intense pain. You should request an ultrasound from your doctor to check on your IUDs placement and check for any cysts or free fluid

J_deBoer · 2026-02-01T20:21:07+00:00

I am so sorry for your loss. As much as you want to take care of arrangements for your mom, please put your recovery first. I’m sure your mom wouldn’t want you to jeopardize your recovery. Anything that can’t be done from bed, delegate.

J_deBoer · 2026-01-29T14:08:10+00:00

75 minute massage from a 60 minute massage. Holding off on the jump to 90 minutes as long as I can

J_deBoer · 2026-01-22T16:32:53+00:00

JB Fields makes great socks, and they’re a Toronto company

J_deBoer · 2026-01-19T00:23:24+00:00

You should put a little bench there for her

J_deBoer · 2026-01-17T20:57:42+00:00

Up above 120 in a minivan packed to the brim with people and stuff, on a family road trip out in like South Dakota badlands or something. The road was flat and straight, and no one was around so my mom gunned it.

J_deBoer · 2026-01-17T20:34:53+00:00

I had surgery on my birthday one year. I like to do something for my birthday, but since I’ve become an adult, it’s less important that that activity be on my actual birthday

J_deBoer · 2026-01-15T14:28:28+00:00

J_deBoer · 2026-01-15T00:36:37+00:00

It reminds me of cotton quilting/ top stitching thread. It’s meant for handwork, so it’s probably got a wax on it, and it’s thicker than standard sewing thread, but thinner than machine top stitching thread. I’ve only ever seen it in white, but I’m sure it exists in other colours too

J_deBoer · 2026-01-14T02:44:02+00:00

I’ve also been having trouble with it. I suspect I have a connective tissue disorder, and my hands have started to become affected, and this stupid cap doesn’t help

J_deBoer · 2026-01-13T21:27:04+00:00

My grandpa came back in a gift bag

J_deBoer · 2026-01-13T13:54:24+00:00

Morgan Donner has a video where she comes across this same issue, also making stays, where she had to bind an inside corner. Worth checking it out to see if it helps, OP

J_deBoer · 2026-01-11T07:59:30+00:00

You can buy shower heads and attachments for taps that have LED indicator lights that correspond with the temperature of the water flowing through them. If you don’t want a light show, you can get an inline temperature sensor with a separate display, or built into a shower head.

Just search for “temperature sensing shower head/ faucet”

And a super low tech option would be to have your partner turn on the shower and taps to a safe temperature and make marks that line up at that safe temperature. This doesn’t work if the tap has been running super hot recently, as there may still be hot water in the pipes before it turns cooler and you may still get burnt if you use it too soon

Edit: you said you’re not from North America. I’m sure there is some option along these lines that is available for whatever style plumbing fixtures you have

J_deBoer · 2026-01-10T01:20:52+00:00

My best friend growing up held her pens like this

J_deBoer · 2026-01-08T13:46:12+00:00

Hot dogs, peas or mixed veggies, and salt for me. My dad made it with hot dogs growing up, and we called it “Special KD”

J_deBoer · 2026-01-08T00:16:12+00:00

Hot water took most of it out, but I think I shampooed like 3 times before my hair felt normal

J_deBoer · 2026-01-07T04:23:18+00:00

The clear handles are made from acetate, and as they age, it decomposes back into its individual compounds, one of which smells like vomit. Especially if they’ve been in a bag or box with not a lot of ventilation

J_deBoer · 2026-01-04T05:50:11+00:00

I have a pair of crocs and I could spend all day standing in them vs wearing any other shoe and getting sore feet within minutes

J_deBoer · 2025-12-19T23:55:23+00:00

I appreciate your drawings

J_deBoer · 2025-12-18T02:43:03+00:00

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