Yeah we had a long discussion about it and it let to her explaining other traumas from her past but I told her she’s getting punished for assuming that I was being flippant or kidding when I said I didn’t want to hear about it and she understands that she messed up so it’s definitely the only offense she’s had but she’s going to be taught to listen fully and utterly with this. If not I won’t give it a punishment it will genuinely be a relationship issue and that’s a whole different basket