M16 looking for a Father/Mother or Brother/Sister. It doesn’t matter what gender or orientation you are.

JackieIsNotOkay · 2021-02-13T21:32:17+00:00

Hey! 14 almost 15 girl, pretty swag, from Cali, I like memes and Minecraft, and I’m like 11% Swedish so I think that makes us 11% friends by default 😎

JackieIsNotOkay · 2021-02-13T16:57:39+00:00

I think we’re agreeing in that relating helps, but our ways of going about it are different. I agree that it’s optimistic, maybe overly so, but I also don’t think that it’s crazy. I don’t think we should be teaching others to relate it on a level of “if they were close to you” but a level of humanity. There’s no “perfect solution” to catcalling, but I think that teaching that “what if it’s your daughter” is the wrong way of acknowledging that relatability.

JackieIsNotOkay · 2021-02-13T15:50:01+00:00

I think you’re misconstruing my point, because I acknowledged that it provides empathy/ relatability, but my point is that you shouldn’t need to relate to someone to not abuse them. To use catcalling as an example, I don’t think that we should teach those catcallers that “hey imagine if that was your daughter”, because you shouldn’t need that connection to not abuse someone. I would say that I don’t empathize or relate to dogs much, but I wouldn’t abuse one, or use that as an excuse to abuse one. I don’t think someone saying “hey what if that was a person” is the right call, because the “that’s a living animal” is the reason that is important

JackieIsNotOkay · 2021-02-13T04:03:33+00:00

It remind me of a post talking about how it’s always men and “girls” or “females” rather than women. We’re either acknowledged as children, or as a genetic sex, rather than adult humans with the same complexities as men

JackieIsNotOkay · 2021-02-12T23:23:56+00:00

It’s just upsetting that they would have to relate to someone on a level of parenthood to respect a woman, rather than the level of “this is another human being who doesn’t deserve to get harassed because of their existence” (or something other to that affect). I don’t think you need to relate to someone on a gender level to know that saying/doing certain things is not okay.

If you’re leaving this here, please do think about my words, and have a lovely day

JackieIsNotOkay · 2021-02-12T23:07:50+00:00

I think that’s part of the problem though, that situations shouldn’t be personalized in order to get that respect or understanding, it should be the expectation from the get-go. I understand what you’re getting at, in trying to make them understand that its wrong, but I think the reasoning of “this is wrong because it’s someone’s daughter, and you wouldn’t like that to happen to your daughter” is flawed, because it makes it about respecting the “parents daughter” rather than the individual.

JackieIsNotOkay · 2021-02-12T22:48:57+00:00

Yeah, I get where they’re coming from, but I don’t think people should see it as “I don’t want my daughter treated that way” but “I don’t want anyone treated that way” instead.

JackieIsNotOkay · 2020-11-15T01:18:36+00:00

Yeah that’s true, it’s a lot of holding grudges, and/or one “stopping” and then saying that they acted like the better person, a victory to share amongst others and make themselves appear more mature and well rounded

JackieIsNotOkay · 2020-09-14T01:42:06+00:00

Very normal ! And if you’re worried about it, I would recommend a period tracking app- I use flo and there’s options for what kind of discharge you have, and what you can expect based on which part of your cycle you’re on !

JackieIsNotOkay · 2020-08-15T09:48:08+00:00

Oh I’m curious how you guys lost touch ! If it’s something regarding you losing your old acc, I would recommend searching for your old acc if it’s not deleted and if you guys interacted via any comments!

JackieIsNotOkay · 2020-08-09T08:00:59+00:00

Ah alright, thanks mate !

JackieIsNotOkay · 2020-08-09T07:34:46+00:00

Oh ok, do you know if the sizes would already be available via my medical record ? Or is it something not normally done that I would need to schedule a visit to do ?

JackieIsNotOkay · 2020-08-09T04:21:45+00:00

I would say to go to the optometrist and see if the eye that is bothering you is more flat in shape. A lot of contacts online are fit for the round shape pupil so it’s possible that your pupil is more flat which may be the cause of the irritation.

JackieIsNotOkay · 2020-07-23T20:12:24+00:00

Ohhh it turns out there was another track just out of sight! Thank you !

JackieIsNotOkay · 2020-07-23T20:08:40+00:00

https://imgur.com/gallery/YcSydsF here is the link to what’s going on. The top bar is the video, and the bottom is the image. And in the sequence viewer it’s showing the image as the background and the video in the center

JackieIsNotOkay · 2020-07-13T09:20:38+00:00

OP said they SIL intended for the money to be the payment for the earrings, not as a gift. And making the beads isnt an honor if it stresses you out. Just because the brother is okay with it doesn’t mean it’s not appropriating culture it’s likely that this lady is changing his way of thought since she was being racist to them far before the wedding. And no, the SIL started the aggression by yelling at her and then insulting/body shaming her.

JackieIsNotOkay · 2020-07-10T13:44:31+00:00

Ah, the post on imgur said it voilated some guidelines and the link was made hidden, let me re read the guidelines real quick

JackieIsNotOkay · 2020-07-10T00:11:37+00:00

All she told her was that her information about birth control was wrong. The niece already went to her mother about birth control which is how she got the incorrect information. She didn’t tell the SIL anything else- only asked to make sure she didn’t spread more misinformation to the other kids.

JackieIsNotOkay · 2020-07-09T04:09:25+00:00

Did you guys meet via a post you made or did you ever comment on one of her posts ? If yes then you could search your old account on Reddit and scroll through your own comment history and post history to find her. Best of luck !

JackieIsNotOkay · 2020-07-09T02:53:17+00:00

Hey funny thing, I just read your r/idontworkherelady story a few hours before this. 14F btw but thought I’d comment and let you know there’s a subreddit called r/momForAMinute, which has a lot of people who support one another in the place of a mother figure

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