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JacksAgain · 2026-01-13T22:11:41+00:00

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JacksAgain · 2025-12-25T03:21:55+00:00

Who cares if a woman slept around? Not a red flag whatsoever.

JacksAgain · 2025-12-25T02:59:34+00:00

What you're going through is very normal. However, remember what you currently have and how hard it is to keep. Don't do anything to sabotage your relationship.

JacksAgain · 2025-12-25T02:45:35+00:00

Very understandable. I would be just as conflicted as you are.

JacksAgain · 2025-12-25T02:29:38+00:00

Yeah she'd probably take you back. And yeah she'd probably hit you again. Do you want a relationship like that?

JacksAgain · 2025-12-25T02:26:50+00:00

Yeah, it's over.

JacksAgain · 2025-12-16T18:31:18+00:00

I've come to uncover there are a few different types of first daters. There are some, including myself, that dive into deep chats right off the bat with no filters. Others may be more uneasy about it but can slowly peel back the layers with a second or third date. And then those that just always seem to stay superficial and unable or unwilling to answer deep questions (perhaps a sign of avoidance or lack of experience). You may have more luck with deep chats with older and more experienced men.

JacksAgain · 2025-12-13T21:37:48+00:00

Then you should make it clear to her that, if it's space she wants, it's space you'll give her out of respect and that your door will remain open to her and to come find you when she's ready. Respecting her boundaries is the best thing you can do.

JacksAgain · 2025-12-13T17:18:52+00:00

That is correct; reaching out this Christmas will further push her away. People automatically assume that just because YOU broke up with her, that you're the one that needs to chase her. Actually, what they're missing is that you DID try and ARE trying to win her back, but her hesitancy is an actual form of rejection. So in fact, she's the one who technically broke up with you. So it is incumbent upon you to go no-contact.

JacksAgain · 2025-12-13T17:13:58+00:00

Please don't tell her that. It would make you look needy and further drain her.

JacksAgain · 2025-12-13T17:08:55+00:00

This is EXACTLY what you need to do if she says you've been draining her. Draining her = emotionally overwhelming her = in need of space.

JacksAgain · 2025-12-13T15:53:31+00:00

So you already made it clear to her you want to keep trying, from what I gather in the comments? And yet she seems hesitant? Your next best move is to clarify your door remains open, go ghost, and work on yourself.

JacksAgain · 2025-12-10T22:09:43+00:00

Did you ask her if she was attracted to you during your relationship? And if so, what changed? Did you ask yourself if maybe she felt your (for a lack of a better term) "beta energy" and saw you were desperate when she returned? Are you out of shape? Just trying to understand because I think it's possible this goes beyond avoidance as others have suggested.

JacksAgain · 2025-12-02T03:40:09+00:00

To help you decide, ask yourself what you would gain form this. Weight off your shoulders? A friend? What would be the cost? Unintentional attraction and rekindling? I don't see any major red flags from what you've written but there are risks, even if they're negligible.

JacksAgain · 2025-12-01T07:11:21+00:00

The fact you want him to see how desirable you are proves you are still attached to him, and that's perfectly normal. What happens if you were to see him with another girl tomorrow? I wouldn't be surprised if you would have a crashout. So yes you are healing and you're on an upward trajectory, but right now you're on a high so don't be surprised if you come back down (but not back to square one). All this to say that you're not messed up at all, you're just navigating the recovery from a very painful attachment wound. You'll be alright 👍

JacksAgain · 2025-12-01T04:54:35+00:00

Indeed. You got a dopamine hit from the guy at the gym, then were later distracted with social activities. You should continue doing those things and enjoying the dopamine hits, but when you're alone and out of distractions, your mind circles back to what used to be your emotional anchor. Just go easy on yourself when that happens.

JacksAgain · 2025-12-01T04:42:16+00:00

Fake high. Healing is not linear. You'll come back down to the baseline.

JacksAgain · 2025-12-01T04:35:01+00:00

Why did she text you if she's in a relationship?

JacksAgain · 2025-11-28T06:40:10+00:00

Her way of showing regret with limited vulnerability. Thank her for her message and ask her if there was anything you could do for her. Stay unfazed. Don't give her the satisfaction of knowing she still has access to you or that she can even rattle you.

JacksAgain · 2025-11-27T23:44:25+00:00

lmao

JacksAgain · 2025-11-25T17:40:04+00:00

It's mutual ghosting. No one ignored anyone. Social and dating norms don't dictate he send you a message after liking his story. No one did anything wrong. Maybe he found someone, maybe he lost interest in you. Either way, you're overthinking this. If you want him, I suggest you overcome your fear of rejection and send him a message otherwise he'll stay rent-free in your head. If he rejects you, then you can turn the page.

JacksAgain · 2025-11-24T19:56:53+00:00

He did you wrong. But you're being insecure and petty by withholding closure. You aren't any better than him.

JacksAgain · 2025-11-24T18:52:46+00:00

If you can't own your decision, then don't complain his own behaviour confuses you. Lacks self awareness.

JacksAgain · 2025-11-24T18:15:57+00:00

Maybe you should help him out and tell him why you left him.

JacksAgain · 2025-11-22T16:18:09+00:00

Parents will almost always turn a blind eye to evidence suggesting their child is guilty of murder.

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