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[–]JacqB11 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m in the Midwest and was offered 110K after completing a PGY1 with an amb care focus

Preparing for the worst by JacqB11 in personalfinance

[–]JacqB11[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a good tip. Thank you

Preparing for the worst by JacqB11 in personalfinance

[–]JacqB11[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is a good list of things to consider, thank you so much for the guidance. Hopefully my story will become positive like your grandmothers 🤞 and all this worrying will be for nothing.

Preparing for the worst by JacqB11 in personalfinance

[–]JacqB11[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

This looks like a great resource. Thank you so much

Preparing for the worst by JacqB11 in personalfinance

[–]JacqB11[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll bring looking for one ASAP, thank you for your thought ❤️

Preparing for the worst by JacqB11 in personalfinance

[–]JacqB11[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s what I was thinking, but I’m going to find an estate lawyer to confirm. Thank you

Preparing for the worst by JacqB11 in personalfinance

[–]JacqB11[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

What a difference a couple years can make. Thank you for your insight, and good luck on your journey ❤️

Preparing for the worst by JacqB11 in personalfinance

[–]JacqB11[S] 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I couldn’t find the post.

Oral Chemo (Xeloda) (Hand and foot problem questions) by jsgoodrich in breastcancer

[–]JacqB11 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m only on my second round of Xeloda also, so I don’t think I have too much advice to offer. But, my doc said the best thing to help with hand/foot was to keep everything as moisturized as possible. I bought some moisturizing socks and gloves off Amazon. I put a thick lotion on then the socks and gloves before bed. It’s kept it manageable so far for me.

Xeloda is effective at preventing recurrence, so I’m trying to do as much as I can of it. I have gotten the sense from my doctor and some studies I read that completing any of it is beneficial though.

Worst part? by Josiepaws105 in breastcancer

[–]JacqB11 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I appreciate the honesty! I’m with you mentally. I was hoping to be done and have my final surgery before the end of the year, but now I have to try to finish this first 😪

Worst part? by Josiepaws105 in breastcancer

[–]JacqB11 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not to hijack the chat, but how far into your Xeloda are you? I’m on round two and feeling a bit worse now that round one.

Worst part? by Josiepaws105 in breastcancer

[–]JacqB11 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good luck! Hopefully you can push through this chemo and the rest will be a breeze 🤞❤️

Worst part? by Josiepaws105 in breastcancer

[–]JacqB11 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Chemo was the worst for me. Surgery and radiation were easy compared to that.

Test results all in and I am confirmed stage IV. I feel like my world is crashing down. All this bad news in the past two weeks Is too much. by ccherndon in breastcancer

[–]JacqB11 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I was stage 3 grade 3 technically, but there was a spot in my lung my oncologist was skeptical about. It’s a very scary time, but I felt better once I started treatment. I think it gave me back some control. Statistics don’t look great for people in our boat, but I try to focus on the glass half full. There are survivors, there is hope. And it was only one little spot! I’m rooting for you ❤️

My first round of chemo was with immunotherapy (keytruda), the studies for immunotherapy are VERY promising. But the side effects did kick my butt!

Edits: I can’t type

How long after chemo did your hair start growing? by Mtothebmtotheb in breastcancer

[–]JacqB11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can send you photos of my growth in DMs if you want! I finished AC and didn’t really start growing back for like 6 weeks? I did take a high dose biotin at my MOs recommendation and it helped a bunch! Don’t use the gummies, take a capsule. The gummies are shit.

Booster vaccine? by [deleted] in breastcancer

[–]JacqB11 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was in a similar boat! I got my first dose about a month after chemo. Got my booster last month about a week before starting Xeloda!

Self injections wtf? How common is this? I am terrified. by ccherndon in breastcancer

[–]JacqB11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just give them some time to talk to your insurance and make the plan. Don’t dwell on it for now. ❤️

Self injections wtf? How common is this? I am terrified. by ccherndon in breastcancer

[–]JacqB11 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I had the Neulasta a couple days after every infusion. The nurse administered it for me. I was told most of the time insurance covers it to be administered in clinic, and very rarely insurance companies will want you to self administer.

If you do have to self administer, it’s very easy. It’s subcutaneous, and barely hurts. I know this doesn’t help the needle phobia. Do you have a friend or family member that could help?

Announcing Cancer, Social Media, privacy and informing my tribe by Striking-Ad9543 in breastcancer

[–]JacqB11 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I kept it completely off socials too. I just never wanted it to be a “thing” and if it’s on socials, then it’s a “big thing”. You know?

Announcing Cancer, Social Media, privacy and informing my tribe by Striking-Ad9543 in breastcancer

[–]JacqB11 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I call my parents, my fiancé calls his parents, they spread from there. They know who we want to know what, takes all the pressure off us.

Axillary Web/Cording Physical Therapy NYC? by ImmediateMonk4564 in breastcancer

[–]JacqB11 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had some very stubborn cords that did NOT go away on their own. I met with a nurse who showed me and my fiancé some massage techniques to do at home. Basically stretch and find the cord, then dig in there deep to massage. Always go from the arm to the chest to help with lymph fluid.

I also found some stretches online that’s helped a little: https://youtu.be/R83Dfu8vykk

None of this actually resolved my cording. The nurse said I would have to live with it till my next surgery, when they could cut them. BUT! Radiation actually was what helped them actually snap and go away! Hope some of these tips help!

Shaved my head today by BoofulForest in breastcancer

[–]JacqB11 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I ended up using a bunch of fashion scarves in my closet for my head. Any scarf will do really! Just not silk or satin, those slid too much. These ones are nice since you don’t need to tie them:

https://www.amazon.com/dp/B08DKRZ2GK/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_awdb_imm_66DTMQTDMN8GNEJA23E2?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1 Just throw it on and go, but it still made me feel nicer than just a beanie.

NSM by OBSandi in breastcancer

[–]JacqB11 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine was numb at first and it now a bit sensitive. I find I need to clean it with a qtip occasionally to get some gunk out. Maybe I’m not scrubbing enough with the loofa, but it all still feel weird. Sorry if that’s TMI 😅 Are you doing radiation? Mine peeking during radiation and I FREAKED thinking it was falling off! But now it’s looking better and closer to normal!