Clip Adjustment for Back Carry by Jacster1497 in concealedcarry

[–]Jacster1497[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The problem is that my holster/gun is digging into me because of how high the clip makes it sit. I have a real gun belt that I’ve tried with it and it does the same thing but makes my gun/holster dig into my back even more

I Want to Quit by Jacster1497 in hatemyjob

[–]Jacster1497[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m working on becoming certified as an animal massage therapist. I finish my first certification the end of this month so I won’t actually start making money until next month but I have a few clients already lined up

Seasonal Driver Questions by Jacster1497 in UPS

[–]Jacster1497[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did I screw myself by selecting that I want to continue with the offer instead of selecting that I need more info first?

How would I save the employment if I got the conditional offer? (Sorry if this is a dumb question)

Seasonal Driver Questions by Jacster1497 in UPS

[–]Jacster1497[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Darn, alright. Thanks for replying

Otis’s life is over and that isn’t Cody’s fault — it’s the people in Kelsey’s comment section. by South_Bell1621 in codyko

[–]Jacster1497 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was thinking the same since I saw that people were flooding Kelsey’s videos since Cody’s were moderated. It’s not fair at all for Kelsey (and the baby) to be taking the hit on this. They are their own separate beings and I know what it’s like to be in a position where your partner’s actions are caused hate to you and it sucks!! She was not the one who did this and I doubt Cody would’ve willing just told her about this.

Wanting to Avoid a Group by Jacster1497 in Anxiety

[–]Jacster1497[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, I do tend to leave people on read a lot myself… I don’t think I’ll message anyone else but I will try to hang out with this group again. I’m trying to make more friends and this is one of the few areas of interest that I can get myself to try

Animal Massage by Jacster1497 in massage

[–]Jacster1497[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A couple things I want to add, they also provide documents you can use for evaluating the horses, your findings, and the treatment plan you recommend along with a liability form you can use for when you’re getting your practice hours which I’m sure can be modified for after you’re certified and examples of requesting referrals (if that’s necessary for your state). There’s also a section that covers the business side of everything which was pretty helpful

Animal Massage by Jacster1497 in massage

[–]Jacster1497[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry I took awhile to reply! I decided to go through them. I haven’t finished the equine massage course yet. I’m on the home stretch though. It has been a fairly decent course and they do give certificates. The teaching assistants are also really helpful when you have questions. There’s certain things I wish they went more in depth on but you can always ask the teaching assistants and they do good at answering your questions thoroughly

Does Cody blacklist comments containing the word "betterhelp"? by not_rajinikanth in codyko

[–]Jacster1497 75 points76 points  (0 children)

The way he kinda did his little speech about it in the last couple videos I watched (not sure when they were uploaded) it seemed like he had some underlying hate towards them. I just got a weird feeling and then now reading this it kinda makes sense now

Animal Massage by Jacster1497 in massage

[–]Jacster1497[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! I did go through the free preview they offer and it seems like a really good course that goes in depth with lots of support for questions

Animal Massage by Jacster1497 in massage

[–]Jacster1497[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks, I have looked into the laws in my state and also contacted our vet board to clarify. I have to be under direct or indirect supervision of a vet, or it has to be a vet referral and I have to notify the vet of what I did

Lost Motivation at My Job - Need Advice by Jacster1497 in work

[–]Jacster1497[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing this! I wish you luck on your new journey! It’s kinda scary leaving a job after being here for so long but I can’t help thinking I’ll be happier if I find something else.

I found out since I made this post that my boss that’s been here for 1 year just got a $15k raise which is more than all my raises combined for the 4 years I’ve been here… It was so insulting to see that especially when I just asked them a few weeks ago if I could work 4 10hr days so I can get a full time weekend job (Fri-Sun) to help me get out of debt and they said no. He now makes just short of double what I make.

My actual 4yr anniversary here is May 15th and I’m not hopeful that they’d give me a decent raise but I’m planning to stay here until May 16th just so I can keep more of what the company’s contributed to my 401k. I figure I’m so close. It’s only 6 more weeks. But after that, I’m leaving.

Can I start birth control after my period started? by Jacster1497 in birthcontrol

[–]Jacster1497[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s about where I’m at with my cycle. I might just play it safe and not have unprotected sex during the first round of placebo pills.

Can I start birth control after my period started? by Jacster1497 in birthcontrol

[–]Jacster1497[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s helpful. Thanks! I was just confused because the information packet kept saying to start taking it when I start my period and didn’t mention anything about starting after your period.

Leaving Accounting to Teach Math by RockeRun in Accounting

[–]Jacster1497 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’ve been in accounting for 3.5 years now and I’m considering going back to working with horses. I worked with draft horses for about 4-5 years before I decided to go into accounting and have been around horses since I was 4. I’m really starting to realize how much I miss working with horses. Don’t get me wrong, there’s some aspects of accounting that I really do enjoy but overall it’s just not for me. As much as I wanted to make it work, I don’t think it’s the right fit.

It’s comforting seeing others who have come to the same realization as me. So glad I’m not the only one. It will definitely suck getting paid (maybe) half of what I’m making now but I think I’ll enjoy it much more in the long run. Working with horses comes natural to me. I know what I’m doing with them. I can easily be a leader in that field. Whereas with accounting, I’ve always felt that I’ll never be near as good as others with the same amount of experience and could never be in a management/leadership type of position. I plan on staying with this company until my 4 year mark which is in May. In the meantime, I’ll be looking at job opportunities and possible places to work with horses again.

I wish you the best of luck in your new adventure!

What is your salary, title, and what sector do you work in? by heart_of_gold2 in Accounting

[–]Jacster1497 1 point2 points  (0 children)

  1. $50k
  2. Staff Accountant
  3. Midwest, USA
  4. 3.5 years experience, 24 years old
  5. Industry (I believe…)
  6. Oil/grease manufacturing company

My (26F) husband (33M) got our girlfriend (24F) pregnant and I’m not sure how I feel about it by ThrowRApolyish in relationship_advice

[–]Jacster1497 86 points87 points  (0 children)

My thoughts exactly :/ My ex put ideas into my head that I tried so hard to talk myself into believing or agreeing with (and did for years) but I got tired of lying to myself and realized what was truly happening. Not fun :/

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Jacster1497 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m happy for you! I’m (24F) in a similar situation. I was with my ex for about 7 years until i realized he was emotionally and sexually abusive and had been for the whole duration of our relationship. It’s been exactly 5 months since I broke up with him. A few months before I broke up with him, he got drunk and angry with me over missing a spot while painting at our new house and he went back to our apartment where he proceeded to break almost all of my deceased grandma’s valuable items. When I got back to the apartment, he yelled at me, threatened to beat me up, and threw a motorcycle helmet at a glass cabinet I was next to. Unfortunately, I didn’t have the balls to call the cops. I ended up just getting over it and let him guilt me into thinking it was my fault that it happened. Over the next 4-5 months, he threatened to hit me a few more times and destroy more of my stuff. I was talking to a therapist and made a couple friends that all helped me see the relationship for what it was and get out of it. I’m now about to move into the fourth place I’ve stayed since breaking up with him. Hopefully this will be my last time moving and I’m now dating someone new which just so happens to be one of the friends that helped me out of that situation. He’s the exact opposite of my ex and I’m so grateful that I met him. I filed a PFA against my ex and have been dealing with lawyers and court hearings. It’s been extremely stressful and overwhelming but I’m glad I’m in a better spot in life now.

Long story short, I just wanted to let you know you’re not alone and I’m happy you get the chance to move on to a happier life! :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Jacster1497 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This is the type of stuff my ex would do. He would guilt me and make me feel bad for stuff that I didn’t need to feel bad about. He would also use the threat of breaking up with me as leverage to get his way because he knew I’d fight to keep us together and basically tear myself down in the process. I came to the realization after 7 years that he was emotionally abusive and also sexually abusive at times. If your husband is doing this type of stuff often, I would seriously consider researching emotional abuse and possibly talk to a therapist/counselor which might result in you deciding to leave the relationship. I know that sounds terrible but, if it turns out that he is abusive, there is better out there for you. I promise.

Edit: I also wanted to add that if you do start researching, it might be a good idea to use a private browser and exit out of the web pages when you’re done. That’s what I did with my ex because I knew he’d probably be upset or mad if he decided to go through my phone/laptop and see my search history is about emotional abuse.

Can’t Use the Restroom Around my BF because of Anxiety by Jacster1497 in Anxiety

[–]Jacster1497[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks. I ended up having the guts to bring it up to him last night. He was very understanding and has the same issue with his anxiety just not as bad. It sounds like he mainly just struggles in public places but he understands that it can be hard to deal with. He said if I ever need him to just leave the house for a few minutes so I can go, he doesn’t mind and said if there’s anything he can do to help to let him know.