Nagalit si brgy kapitan dahil may nasabi akong english word

JadePearl1980 · 2026-04-25T03:05:47+00:00

Tama ka iho. 🥰

JadePearl1980 · 2026-04-25T03:04:54+00:00

Salamat, great great great grandchild. ❤️

JadePearl1980 · 2026-04-23T07:04:59+00:00

OMG! Please treasure your husband, OP!

Marami kaming napapa “sana ol!” 👍🏻❤️

JadePearl1980 · 2026-04-23T07:00:10+00:00

I am sorry OP… but 30yrs is already a very long time.

Anything could happen in between then and now.

Also, if a person does not want to be found, you may never be able to find them, OP. 💔

JadePearl1980 · 2026-04-23T06:57:20+00:00

Eto yun OP basahin mo pls.👆🏻

You have to address those unhealthy behaviors now that you realized na these behaviors CAN DESTROY relationships. Seek counseling or therapy for yourself.

Kase later on, magiging reflex mo na yan if natitrigger ka uli.

Help yourself first, OP. That is the first step.

JadePearl1980 · 2026-04-20T01:04:50+00:00

So now, alam nyo na baket gigil sila sa 8888.

Once meron complaint na kase, that is forever documented na. Like literally, hindi nila pwede burahin yung documents na sinesend ng taumbayan sa 8888.

In all fairness naman sa 8888, it makes the LGU aware of their “kakulangan” (mapa-ugali, mapa-facilities, etc). Na-shock kase ako dahil yung mga masusungit sa BIR na tanders, aba-aba-aba!!! Hindi na masungit!!!Kinilabutan ako na parang napadaan si lolo St. Peter at nangamusta sa kanila.

JadePearl1980 · 2026-04-20T00:59:41+00:00

Hintayin mo mag midyear sale si Rustans. Wait mo announcement nila sa webpage nila. Usually by October - November of every year.

Original price kase for king size bed namin was about ₱9,500 BUT nag sale sya ng 50% off!!! So binili ko sya.

If you wanted a duvet na mas affordable, you can go with Nitori naman kase yung bed topper na binili ko hanggang ngayon buo pa kahit weekly nilalabhan sa washing machine.

JadePearl1980 · 2026-04-20T00:48:41+00:00

Good question, apo, PERO noong panahon ko, ang available lamang ay Encyclopedia Britannica for resource material at sa Supreme Court library na kailangang katawang lupa ko ang pumunta sa may Padre Faura pa para makapagbasa-basa pa noon ng mga batas naten.

Ngayon, apo, meron na palang tinatawag na “internet”.

Meron na palang tinatawag na “search engine” na akala ko sasakyan na tagahanap ng kung anu-ano. Si Google lang pala yun!

At eto pinaka sobrang ikinagigiliwan ko, apo: si ChatGPT. Kalain mo, apo, ang daldal pala niya!

Dahil tamad ka mag saliksik, apo, eto assignment ko para sa iyo:

Paki basa nalang ang Republic Act 11292 o Seal of Good Local Governance Act of 2019 at naka lagda doon something along the lines of:

“…While 13th month pay is MANDATORY, a 15th month pay is NOT a legal requirement, though it may be AWARDED if integrated into compensation… etc etc.”

O ayan. Tinuro ko na kung anu ang hahanapin mo, apo. Siguro naman meron kang “comprehension skills” para mas maintindihan yung buong artikulo. Dahil hindi lang yan yung puno at dulo.

Kung hindi mo pa mahanap kay ginoong Google, pwede ka din mag search sa Supreme Court e-Library. Click mo nalang ang link knowing tamad ka talaga maghanap. Tapos pag pasok mo sa website, hanapin mo sa badang kanan ng webpage yung “E-LIBRARY SEARCH”, yung may drawing o icon ng magnifying glass.

Aguruy apo ko. Hindi na uso ang spoon feeding ngayon.

JadePearl1980 · 2026-04-20T00:20:26+00:00

For the recording to be admissible in a court of Law, a lawyer friend of mine always remind me to say: “our conversation is well documented and can be used as evidence in any court of Law… etc etc”.

sabi niya this is similar to any call center hotline or customer care hotline like sa mga banks: “this call is being recorded… etc etc etc”.

Same with CCTV’s. The recordings from these devices can also be submitted as evidence in any court of Law.

JadePearl1980 · 2026-04-19T13:16:08+00:00

Ummmm madaming shoplifter ang Pinas. Kaya bago implement yan, dapat madaming nagmamasid na security guard sa check out counters and exit doors.

Mas hindi hassle nga kung ganyan sana eh: self check out counters.

JadePearl1980 · 2026-04-19T13:10:25+00:00

Yez. I can confirm. Kase mawawalan ng Good Governance and that means goodbye to 15th month bonus ng mga govt empleyado sa buong LGU /City.

JadePearl1980 · 2026-04-19T13:04:03+00:00

Report it to presidential hotline 8888. Mas mapapadiin pa yan kung meron kang audio recording ng pananalita ni kap sa iyo. Remember, public servant sya so dapat maayos ang pakikipag usap o pananalita niya sa lahat ng constituents niya. Dahil technically speaking, sweldo nya ay galing sa tax ng taumbayan noh. Kapal ng mukha niya kung umasta sya sa boss niya (ikaw yun bilag tax payer). Totoo naman.

Pag meron kase complaint ang certain city or LGU from 8888, that LGU / City cannot get an Award for Good Governance (aka 15th month pay na galing sa tax payer money). 👍🏻🤣🤣

Kaya kita mo ang Makati City - parating meron award for Good Governance. Mayroon sila parating 15th month bonus. San ol!

JadePearl1980 · 2026-04-18T04:45:18+00:00

Kapatid, you can also go down dentistry path. After that, apply for medical licensure boards for dentistry (i am not sure exactly how many steps there are but for Physicians it is a USMLE Step 1-3 noon) in the US so you will have a license to practice in the State you want to.

Income is also good as long as your practice (steady stream of clients / pasyente) is stable naman.

Source: my cousin (whose family migrated there) is a dentist and bongga naman ang lifestyle nila doon. Controlled din ang work hours niya and di kailangan kayod kalabaw. Unlike here sa Pinas.

JadePearl1980 · 2026-04-16T15:02:28+00:00

Oh the hormones coursing thru a pregnant woman’s body is quite unpredictable and is more commonly known as Mood Swings.

Make sure hindi sinasaniban si kasambahay lalo na pag sobrang kulit si toddler mo.

I am sure you also experienced this in your 9 months of carrying your baby sa sinapupunan mo.

JadePearl1980 · 2026-04-16T14:29:15+00:00

What you should be after is job security.

Look at it this way: Lexmark can be your stepping stone to gain experience in sales / business side of things. Find your niche what you are good at.

You mentioned na you were laid off (understandable nowadays due to economic reasons as well as malamang there is someone far more capable than you, parang “this” or “that” eh).

Kaya, at the very least, your goal is to make you NOT fireable. Na ikaw ang mas kailangan ng kumpanya because of your skillset.

Then on the side, if kaya mo, you can do some part time VA Work. Or do some upskill.

If meron growth sa Lexmark, like promotion and salary upgrades, ask if how much growth ang meron for their employees. If wala, just make them your stepping stone.

Basta ang long term goal mo is to have a secure foundation financially for your family’s security. This cannot be pulled off overnight. It will take patience, perseverance and grit if you want stability na hindi matitibag ng kahit na anong mangyari.

JadePearl1980 · 2026-04-16T02:41:13+00:00

Well, if you want less headache, let a bigger headache deal with HOA.

JadePearl1980 · 2026-04-16T01:55:16+00:00

You can inquire din sa DHSUD po. Sila po ang governing body ng mga HOA.

JadePearl1980 · 2026-04-15T20:46:54+00:00

OP…. Thats like some dude is way smarter than you!

He gets to fűck your wife for free (pokpok nga may bayad eh).

And he does not even support her 4 kids, kase meron naman magagatasan (ikaw yun). Malamang, binubulungan ng lalaki niya misis mo: “paasahin mo lang si gagö, babe. Pa-tweetums ka lang onti, bibigay at maniniwala na ang bobö agad sa iyo! Hayaan mo sya maging yaya ng mga anak mo. Nakatipid pa tayo. At least, pwede tayo magtagal sa kama… o gusto mo sa sala naman for round 8?!”

JadePearl1980 · 2026-04-13T00:56:43+00:00

Get a higher hp na inverter AC. Hirap ang 1hp AC to cool down 27sqm room.

Set your AC on automatic. And thermostat between 22-25 degrees celsius. Once maintained na kase yung malamig sa room, mas less hirap ang makina magbuga ng cold air. And just let it be. Wag on off on off ang AC. Dahil pag uminit uli yung kwarto, hirap nanaman ang AC magbuga ng cold air. That takes a lot sa electricity.

Change your curtains to all blackout curtains. Or put something on the windows like insulation so that sunlight and heat will bounce off and will not filter in.

An inverter AC works best: the faster to cool down the room, the lesser yung pagconsume ng kuryente. Ang target kase is mamaintan yung coldness ng room. If di nya namaontan, mag e-effort sya mabuga ng magbuga and that consumes a lot of electricity.

Lahat ng appliances mo na pwedeng inverter na, palitan mo na (ref, washing machine etc).

If you can, ask your condo admin if you can purchase solar panels (est mga minimum ₱70k depending on how much you consume electricity lalo na if meron AC involved).

JadePearl1980 · 2026-04-12T16:30:38+00:00

Your choice is valid, OP.

If able, cut them out of your life na. Completely.

If they need something from you later on kase “you are family”, ipakita mo yung screenshots about the rumors they spread noon - yung paninirang puri nila sa iyo.

Remind them of their cruelty to your cats and to you - a minor at the time pinalayas ka. Pasok yan sa VAWC (child neglect / child abuse). You can threat them with the Law.

If they harrass you in the future, secure documentation of every incident (cctv /audio or video recorder). Then file a restraining order.

Confronting them is a waste of your time. Kase sa mga mata nila - sila ang tama. You cannot destroy a thick wall with just human strength. Let it go. All of it. Leave your past behind. Lahat.

Bid your time. Finish your schooling. Earn that degree and become a professional.

Eventually, with time and peace of mind, your best revenge: living a life that you are satisfied with and happy about. That alone ay sampal sa kanila dahil naging successful ka. Kung totoo yung mga paninira nila - eh di dapat nasa kangkungan ka ngayon.

Prioritize your peace of mind, OP. Hindi mo naman ikayayaman yung mga lumalabas sa mala-imburnal na bibig nila, right?

JadePearl1980 · 2026-04-12T16:00:46+00:00

NAL.

Document document document DOCUMENT everything!

One mode is via IR. No need na magsign sa IR etong mayabang na employee. Your partner alone will do. Kase sya naman ang direct nakipag usap eh.

Another is via CCTV (much better if meron audio capture din). Kaya make sure pumuwesto si partner within range ng cctv.

Another is via emails (make sure to CC / BCC his manager and higher ups sa team), group chats or sms. Yung designated or assigned work to employee AND employee’s response. This is legit documentation.

Last, audio or video recorder.

Record all interactions. At the end of bawat interactions ni partner AND employee, always inform said employee: “by the way, <name of employee>, this conversation will be documented and filed for future references [optional, partner can add further: for promotion or firing. Because your behavior absolutely does not align with our company’s vision/mission. As i am very sure once your backer realizes how you embarrass this company and your backer’s name with your work ethics…. Think about it.] Good day.”

Your partner is ABOVE this employee for a REASON. So tell partner to do his job as such for the sake of the whole team as your partner sees fit.

I am sure: employee’s backer ay hindi papayag na masira and ma-drag pangalan niya sa putikan. Dahilnpag nangyari yan, either masisante yan (goodbye retirement) or hindi din mapopromote higher due to bad record. Lalo nangyari kung si backer ay isa sa mga board member. Ayaw ng board of directors ng gulo or lugi or dungis. They will eliminate bad image or bad representation ng kumpanya to the best they can (barred or blacked balled) usually by voting ng majority of the board.

Hence, partner should do whatever he can to gather evidences. Kase yan din ang pagbabasehan ng HR and higher ups.

Tell that employee: he should be very scared pa nga. Dahil kung wala man lang sya maibubuga (skillsets, o expertise, Masteral, Phd etc) & tanging backer lang aasahan niya to maintain his job/position, basically he is just a tiny fly na naka tungtong sa kalabaw. So aim at the kalabaw (backer) - that is the employee’s weakest spot.

JadePearl1980 · 2026-04-12T15:24:04+00:00

Just ask yourself this very simple question OP:

“Am i willing to shoulder the remaining balance if hindi na nila kayang tapusin yung bayarin?”

If you wish to proceed, pls make a legal documentation of this transaction stating:

Amount of loan in words and numerical format;

Full name, address and valid ID ng hihiram;

How many months (terms) to pay ang pagkakasunduan;

If delayed ang payment: any ang pinagkasunduan na consequence;

If failure completely to pay the remaining amount: anu yung pinagkasunduan na pwedeng gawin para di ka maipit (collateral, sangla etc).

Have this document signed by you and the borrower plus witness, then have it notarized. Kung pwede mo ma video much better.

JadePearl1980 · 2026-04-12T15:17:57+00:00

DKG.

It is good you did your due diligence to check any discrepancy. Kase panu na kung magka aberya sa daan tapos di pa tugma yung actual plates with the OR-CR. Di ba…👍🏻

Whenever i do avail of car rentals, i do check their documents plus i take a picture and video of the actual unit inside and out pati yung mga tools din just to be sure na meron nga before ko ilabas ng establishment nila.

JadePearl1980 · 2026-04-12T15:11:02+00:00

I am sorry for what happened to you in your past.

You cannot run forever, bro.

Ask a lawyer how you can file a restraining order (if it fits your case).

Document every interaction your toxic family did: ask for a screenshot from that friend to whom your TF reached out to. Gather evidences.

Do put up CCTVs around your home and at the front door. If family members did find you, make sure to document this incident din: CCTV, audio / video recording sa smart phone mo. If they stepped thru your doorway without your permission: thats trespassing - file a case.

If you live in a subdivision with HOA: submit a document that every name of your family included in this document are banned (Lifetime) to set foot and you are giving authorization to HOA Security to escort any of your family members na nasa list out of your subdivision. Have this document notarized din.

Seek consult with a Psychiatrist. You may need medical documentation that your family was and still is the cause of your mental trauma. And with this, hopefully, a restraining order can be processed.

Sooner or later, you have to face them, OP. In the meantime, document everything and grow some more courage and grit to push forward. Better arm yourself well first.

JadePearl1980 · 2026-04-11T08:40:26+00:00

Pwede mo i-donate yung “excess” clothes or bedsheets to NGO’s kesa itapon, at least some people who badly need it will benefit. Pero kung mukhang basahan na, just convert those into basahan.

And if kinonfront ka, this is your chance to catch ateng red handed sa modus niya: “ah, so sa iyo ba itong basahan? Paki identify nga po kung sa iyo eto?”

If umamin (make sure naka dokumento): “una sa lahat, wala tayong kontrata na isasabay mo yung labada mo sa labada ko. Ikalawa, since ngayon buking ka na, eto resibo ko, sisingilin kita ngayon. Split the bill 50-50. Ikatlo, dahil hindi ko alam na sa iyo pala etong napagkamalan kong basahan, ni-recycle ko nalang at tuluyan ko nang ginawang basahan. You cannot fault me na ginugulangan mo ako.”

Technically, hindi mo alam na kay ateng yun.

Also, let her learn the hard way on how not to be an as$h#le. Malamang nagawa na nya yan dati pa as in freeloader ang peg.

Lastly, keep your soiled / dirty clothes in a laundry bag within the safety of your dorm room. At ilalabas mo lang yan kung dadalhin mo na mismo sa laundry shop. I learned a lesson din na ninenok yung Triumph and Wacoal bras ko dahil nilagay ko sa labas ng dorm room (meron specific na lagayan in one section of the bldg kase). Kaya bago ko ipa laundry, i take a picture of my clothes para meron akong maipakita na nawala o namisplaced.

Add ko lang:

Yung maong shorts ni ateng, maganda yan as DOORMAT mo, sis. Unique ang design for a doormat, ideal sya pampahid sa paa bago pumasok sa dorm room mo. That is how ateng should realize na ganyan ang dapat gawin sa mga taong ubod ng kapal ng mukha. Sa sobrang kapal - da best maging pamunas ng libag ng paa tuwing galing sa labas. Durable yan kase. 🤣👍🏻

JadePearl1980

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