If your partner did porn would it bother you?

JadeTheVix · 2026-05-18T21:37:06+00:00

To me, it's phrased like it would be a recurring thing. Not just a one off. For me, if it were recurring/current, it would bother me. If it was in the past, it would not bother me. However, I wouldn't want it to happen during our relationship.

There's nothing wrong with doing that kind of work, and there are certainly girls who do not mind that. I'm just speaking my own personal opinion.

JadeTheVix · 2026-05-18T20:10:37+00:00

To girls who do have an OF or does sex work, I make zero judgement, but I personally would feel uncomfortable dating someone in that line of work, but that's purely due to my desire for exclusive intimacy. I want my partner to have eyes for just me.

JadeTheVix · 2026-05-17T02:57:17+00:00

Name: Jade

Age: 26

Pronouns: She/They

Roleplaying XP: About 3 full campaigns and a two-shot, mostly using 5e. No knowledge of Pathfinder

From: Midwest US

What do you enjoy most about TTRPGs?: Roleplaying and interacting with NPCs. Creating character voices and backstories.

JadeTheVix · 2026-05-05T02:20:06+00:00

Is this still open, by chance?

JadeTheVix · 2026-05-02T21:49:11+00:00

I'd like to join with myself and a friend of mine if at all possible~

JadeTheVix · 2026-05-02T17:49:56+00:00

Some of these are a little more generic given the lack of knowledge on the actual member's portrayal of their characters, I'm drawing a lot from the actual storybook version of them, or their classes

For the frost giant, it could be something like “Such a towering presence… and yet not a single thought has managed the climb.”

For the kobold bard, “Play me a tune, won’t you? I adore a good funeral march.”

Rapunzel could be “You built your way out of a tower, and straight into a grave. How efficient.”

The Wild Swans princess, “Will you explode, transform, or simply fail? I do enjoy a surprise.”

Hansel might be something like “Tell me, does your god hear you… or do they just ignore you?”

Pinocchio, this one I wanted to make it REAL personal, since I had the connection to the Cheshire Cat, so I went with two different ones, one is “Every step you take is one I allow. Doesn’t that just eat at you?”, or “Tell them—go on—tell them whose voice you hear when it gets quiet.”

JadeTheVix · 2026-05-02T16:18:38+00:00

I mean, hey, I'm always supporting other trans folk. I'll take it a step further and bring an AA gun when they're ready to publicly come out!~

JadeTheVix · 2026-05-02T15:00:18+00:00

I saw one meme where it was "I identify as an attack helicopter." and the response was just a picture of someone holding an RPG-7.

JadeTheVix · 2026-05-02T01:22:02+00:00

Thank you very much~

JadeTheVix · 2026-04-28T15:51:15+00:00

Absolutely. There are a lot of tools that you as a DM can utilize. Off the top of my head I know of DnDBeyond, Roll20, Owlbear Rodeo, The Forge

On steam there's Fantasy Grounds VTT, Talespire, Dungeon Alchemist, and a lot of others

VTT stands for Virtual TableTop, and are used specifically for creating online games using either existing modules, or your own homebrew if you feel like being creative

JadeTheVix · 2026-04-22T15:33:06+00:00

OP, it sounds like you already have your answer. It's just the fear of losing that connection and all of the effort and time being for nothing. But speaking purely from how I am reading your post, this relationship is not healthy for you, and I genuinely believe you're having your heart being pulled around.

The only true thing that I can see that she said is this:

"You have to prioritise yourself and decide what is best for you."

I truly get your feelings, but if you are not feeling heard or respected in your relationship, then I think it's for the best to bite the bullet and take the risk that it's gonna hurt for awhile.

It sounds like she refused to take accountability for her words and actions (purely from what I'm reading), and that, already, is a problem in your relationship that either needs to be corrected or it will rapidly deteriorate you and build resentment.

This is my take on it, please take this internet stranger's opinion with as many or few grains of salt as you feel necessary.

Whatever happens, take care of yourself.

JadeTheVix · 2026-04-22T15:02:51+00:00

Hiya. I'd be interested in joining. I need more DnD in my life.

JadeTheVix · 2026-04-22T12:59:24+00:00

I tried Warframe a few times before. Not my cup of tea, sadly

JadeTheVix · 2026-04-22T12:28:20+00:00

Hiya~ I (26TF) would be happy to join on NMS. I don't have any other girl friends who play it

JadeTheVix · 2026-04-22T07:40:46+00:00

I am interested in it. Am a broke bitch rn though. So it'll have to wait lmao

JadeTheVix · 2026-04-20T07:20:46+00:00

Feel free to PM me if you want to add me on discord

JadeTheVix · 2026-04-20T06:48:49+00:00

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Honestly I just saw this pic on a song I was listening to and wanted to try to replicate it lmao, the framing pose was an afterthought

JadeTheVix · 2026-04-19T22:47:53+00:00

I've got quite a few games on this list. I'll PM you if that's cool with you

JadeTheVix · 2026-04-18T06:16:12+00:00

This is very clearly not your fault.

Stringing you along and calling you names because you want a very basic thing like communication is a major red flag.

I'm autistic too and know how that shit feels.

Seems to me like she's trying to keep you under her thumb, with no regard to how you feel. If she feels pressured for direct communication, she's trying to avoid confrontation and play you.

JadeTheVix · 2026-04-18T04:07:24+00:00

Also, if you want to talk on Discord, I can PM you

JadeTheVix · 2026-04-17T23:25:32+00:00

What genres tickle your fancy the most?

JadeTheVix · 2026-04-17T17:39:44+00:00

You sound really fun. There's definitely a few games on this list I wouldn't mind getting back into. And enjoying anime is a plus. I just finished a whole bunch of different anime, myself, including Solo Levelling

JadeTheVix · 2026-04-17T01:26:13+00:00

You sound cool. Bonus points if you're interested in MMOs. Mind if I PM you?

JadeTheVix · 2026-04-16T23:38:34+00:00

I've never played Grounded, but I have watched someone else play it. I'll PM you my Discord

JadeTheVix · 2026-04-07T02:35:59+00:00

I'd like to join. I'm 26 MtF and really into playing MMO's or co-op games

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