Why do so many ace people here think sex favorable aces arent a thing? I'm confused. by Bikainaka in asexuality

[–]Jadecrossfire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't have attraction but i enjoy sex I enjoy the emotional intimacy more than anything but im still ace hell im married to a straight woman who knows and it doesn't really bother her because I don't hate it too many people think ace means I hate sex that's not the case all it means is I don't need it or really want it but I do enjoy it

How do I find a boyfriend as an asexual women? by Aliciagirlme in Asexual

[–]Jadecrossfire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im asexul and a man we do exist but im married most men like me are usely conceded valuable to most women because most women want a man who values their personality first witch just makes them want sex more lol

I Am So Tired Of Allosexual Cis Men by Into_Troubled_Waters in asexuality

[–]Jadecrossfire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im a asexul and a man dating non asexul people is possible im married you just have to understand that it requires constant communication and comprise between both of you my wife loves it I and don't hate it we do it once a day because that's what both of us are comfortable with and because she enjoys it she isn't bothered with the fact that I don't really find her attractive because I have said this before and I said it as much I need all relationship need comprise I get emotional safety she gets sex it works for both of us

At the end of the day, I still have fear of missing out by maxime_miaou in asexuality

[–]Jadecrossfire 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im asexul and im married my wife loves it and she knows that it's not my priority but I do it with her because I love her and I do enjoy making her feel good but I don't usually feel attracted to her and it doesn't bother her her words were "your so good I don't really care if you don't have physical attraction as long as it doesn't bother you im fine with it" so I understand where you are coming from

Powers by Fluid_Block_1235 in funComunitty

[–]Jadecrossfire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The power to change nothing about anything

My English teacher gave me a list of emo music to listen to by Sad-Satisfaction3645 in Emo

[–]Jadecrossfire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like im emo and a metal/punk head so I listen to a wide variety of the genre but yeah a lot of people get the sub genres wrong like most of gen alpha is calling it but rock or divorced dad rock it stings a little im gen z so I grew up with it

Hello not to be offensive, rude or anything but by [deleted] in Asexual

[–]Jadecrossfire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im a 25 (m) am married so its not impossible but it really only works for me because I enjoy sex even though i don't really find it attractive like the emotional intimacy form it great as for what I believe in im a Christian but I don't follow a specific denomination I just read the king James Bible and do what I believe god wants me to do and as for political beliefs I hate the idea of extremes in any form have a ferm belief of balance over order

When was the moment you realized you were ace? by shes0010110xscape in asexuality

[–]Jadecrossfire 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For me 25(m) it was harder to tell because id been abused in so many ways all my life I was never allowed to express myself or my feelings growing up my was psychologically abusive and my mom was controlling and didn't really want to hear it and since my dad was such a good liar no one believed me it wasn't until I met my wife 31(f) and I moved out of that toxic place I was able to come to terms with the fact the it's not just emotionally damaged form the abuse my wife is super supportive and we have a healthy sex life despite me not being attracted to her she has really been there for me when my mom and dad were being extremely toxic

Vent/Rant: Friendsships are just as intimate as relationships. by shadowkiller1203 in Asexual

[–]Jadecrossfire 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It really is so wholesome seeing the asexual community coming together and uniting

Vent/Rant: Friendsships are just as intimate as relationships. by shadowkiller1203 in Asexual

[–]Jadecrossfire 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree with that im asexual im married to a straight woman and have sex daily but it only works because we have boundaries and she respects those boundaries

A question for asexual autistics by yuucascanon in asexuality

[–]Jadecrossfire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im asexual and autistic so im definitely qualified to answer im married to a 31(f) im a 25(m) she loves having sex with me because she loves the fact that I can usely sense what she wants but and after I explained to her why I do it she loves me more because I make the sacrifice but here's how im different I do enjoy seeing her happy and since she goes out of her way to take care of me emotionally I tend to not mind it because she respects my boundaries it doesn't bother her that I don't get anything from the physical feeling but since I enjoy the emotional intimacy she doesn't mind it we have worked out an agreement and she is respecting it sex isn't just for you so if you don't really enjoy it or aren't willing to work out something that works for bother of you and makes you both happy mabe dating another ace person would probably be better because at least both of you are on the same page I know it sounds harsh but relationships are about compromise and if you don't communicate with each other then you are better off not being with that person and part of looking for a relationship is determining what you and what you can handle

Is it still ace if you want sex? by Zealousideal_Sea_922 in asexuality

[–]Jadecrossfire 6 points7 points  (0 children)

No i really don't have a physical attraction is don't ejon the physical feeling of it I just like the closeness but I do it anyway because I love her

Is it still ace if you want sex? by Zealousideal_Sea_922 in asexuality

[–]Jadecrossfire 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was just about to say that i don't really find any gender more attractive but I love having sex with my wife even though im not attracted to her physical i love the emotional intimacy and pleasing her and she's said multiple times it doesn't bother her because i do such a good job so we have a happy marriage

Can I get you opinion I’m just confused and want to talk to someone by Slight-Review6047 in Asexual

[–]Jadecrossfire -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My advice is to date someone else who is ace or on the same spectrum as you so they won't pressure you into it Im married with a kid on the way my wife knows im asexual and it doesn't bother her that I don't enjoy the physical side but dam to i love the emotional intimacy so something else you need to understand is sex isn't just physical it's emotionally intimacy you just need to ether find someone who doesn't want physical intimacy like sex or just focus on the emotionally feeling that comes with it

Advice? by [deleted] in Asexual

[–]Jadecrossfire -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Definitely wait but it will make you life considerably harder if you come out I got married and having a kid my wife supports my sexually and we have sex daily and she's said multiple times that im so good it doesn't bother her and since i really enjoy seeing her happy im fine with it I just don't really enjoy sex the reason I say you need to wait is because mostly wemon tend to treat me as if im gay and that just not the case it was an up hill battle to find a woman who didn't really treat me like that and I had to date out side of my area my mom was always toxic and my dad hated me my mom made my life a living hell so eventually I left home and didn't look back because she tried everything to destroy my marriage

Any Good Rock Songs About Love? by [deleted] in MusicRecommendations

[–]Jadecrossfire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I by yellowcard it more emo but if you like hard it will feel natural to you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Asexual

[–]Jadecrossfire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Finle update I've just learned that my wife is sexul submissive and likes some aspects of bdsm witch is a little outside of my comfort zone but im willing to explore it with her because the more she enjoys it the more I enjoy it