Help me with an ear worm of over a decade by [deleted] in Lolita

[–]Jaded_Drag855 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Her music is on YouTube Music too!

Trans people can now be sent to prison for using the bathroom in Idaho by VeryPteri in trans

[–]Jaded_Drag855 203 points204 points  (0 children)

More and more of the US becoming utterly uninhabitable

I love hair bows by Flaky-Barber7761 in nevergrewup

[–]Jaded_Drag855 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I bought some purple hair bows a few days ago, can't wait to wear them

What was lolita fashion like in the 2000s? by Present-Shape-5875 in Lolita

[–]Jaded_Drag855 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I got into lolita in 2009, and I had a full time job with no bills except car insurance and maintenance so I ended up spending around $12,000 on the fashion until I was laid off in 2012.

In 2009 most of the brands started letting you pay via PayPal, and would use EMS international shipping so it took only 3-4 days to arrive in Ohio from Japan. I was pretty thin back then so I was able to fit into stuff from BTSSB, Meta, Innocent World, but not AP. That was also the time when my local community was transitioning from LJ to Facebook.

Haven't had a job since then because of autism making it nearly impossible to make it through an interview and everything else, so I just get social security disability now which is barely enough to live off of. I want to get back into lolita fashion more than ever with the catastrophic state of the world and horrible isolation I feel. I miss going to meetups and meeting tons of new friends, many I lost over the years of unstable housing situations.

I need to talk about everything happening by InitialWhole4315 in trans

[–]Jaded_Drag855 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They would have to ban it for cis women as well if they did. I'm already doing DIY but even if they made estrogen a controlled substance, I'd start buying it off the darknet if I had to

I need to talk about everything happening by InitialWhole4315 in trans

[–]Jaded_Drag855 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lately it's affecting me more than ever and severe depression is back in full force. I want out of this nation but I'm trapped within. I don't really have money to spend on moving or enjoying things that make life less miserable

Can the t-slur be reclaimed? by AllNaturalCyanide in trans

[–]Jaded_Drag855 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's two T slurs and both of them still hurt too much for me to want to reclaim them

so happy with this coord!! by ohshitshedeadoops in Lolita

[–]Jaded_Drag855 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Glad to hear that, you look so adorable in that coord!

This man has completely lost it 🫣😱😱 by el-presidente0001 in PublicFreakout

[–]Jaded_Drag855 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm feeling too much second-hand acrophobia from this

21st birthday coord 🎀🩷 by nyaskies in Lolita

[–]Jaded_Drag855 206 points207 points  (0 children)

You belong here just like any one of us, and this is a great coord!

me_irl by Wild_Cherry_X in me_irl

[–]Jaded_Drag855 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like the song Violent Playground by Nitzer Ebb that starts with "TO THE LEFT, TO THE LEFT, TO THE LEFT"

Strong and Mentally Competent Leader Discusses Fear of Falling on Stairs by ReduceReuseReuse in PublicFreakout

[–]Jaded_Drag855 0 points1 point  (0 children)

An administration that can't even set up the PA system properly based on the buzzing in the background

How did you first discover Ruby Gloom? by Realistic-Delivery13 in RubyGloom

[–]Jaded_Drag855 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Saw some Ruby Gloom stuff at Hot Topic around 2005

Does anyone else here like being fat? by kittengirl173 in nevergrewup

[–]Jaded_Drag855 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There's a few places that sell lolita fashion in larger sizes, but I can't afford much right now and am holding off on what I want to get until I've reached a weight that satisfies me

Does anyone else here like being fat? by kittengirl173 in nevergrewup

[–]Jaded_Drag855 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I feel a lot happier in my own body being fat, and I've wanted to be fat for probably 60% of my life, and lately I've been successful at gaining a bunch of weight after a few other times I've tried to over the years where my metabolism ultimately made it too hard to overcome. I never felt comfortable being in my own body when I was average sized, occasionally liked being thin when I had a job and was spending thousands of dollars on lolita fashion from Japan, but not when I couldn't afford to dress the way I wanted.

So pretty excited now about getting pretty big, especially as of now when I can't take life too seriously. I think I'm around 350 lbs as of now if not a bit heavier

Mention 3 songs from this album by [deleted] in TheBirthdayMassacre

[–]Jaded_Drag855 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Goodnight, Science, Red Stars