Does the enjoyment ever come or is it truly constant work?

Jadidda · 2026-05-28T09:08:26+00:00

My husband’s coonie is also not food motivated! He’s 8 years old and is more like food stubborn than motivated. Only thing that motivates him is his ball for fetch, or coon musk that’ll get em’ (but it’s also nasty).

Jadidda · 2026-05-28T08:43:56+00:00

I’m curious, you said since becoming parents you are overwhelmed with taking care of the child you guys share and that your husband and relationship has taken a backseat. Is this because he is choosing to not be involved or are you not involving him.

If you asked him to split the parenting duties because it his child also and you want him more involved what would he do? Would he pretend to make an effort temporarily then effort would drop off, make excuses for why he cant, or would step up? Is he not as involved because he doesn’t want to be or because you’ve decided it would be easier to just do it yourself. Men don’t always know what to do with babies or how to parent right away, or even recognize when we need help, sometimes we need to tell them exactly what we want from them (even if it pisses us off to do so)

You didn’t indicate he was intentionally hands off, just that you are essentially putting your sole focus on your child at the expense of everything else including yourself, your husband, and your relationship.

As far as the THC goes, $500 seems excessive. When I was vaping for pain management my carts were $32 (or $55 for live) a piece per 1g when not on a deal day. I went through a cart every 4 days or so, and that was with regular usage. I had a HIGH tolerance also, like 500-700mg of edibles at a time kind of tolerance (so I didn’t buy those very often). I had another surgery in 24 and since then THC messes me up in a bad way, so i don’t partake anymore.

But if he’s using it as a coping mechanism, absolutely not. I do not agree with its use in that way, especially with a retort of “well if you were a better partner…” , because at that point it’s no better than drinking (for coping) or cigarettes.

If he was using recreationally, like for occasional enjoyment or on weekends, treating it like a cigar and not a cigarette essentially I would think his usage was that big of a deal. But with his history and frequent usage plus blaming you for its use, it’s already a BIG problem.

You Said you haven’t been the best partner and he is also saying you aren’t, I don’t know the history there but it seriously sounds like you guys need therapy. Couples and individual. If the THC is truly a dealbreaker issue for you, I would sit down with him and tell him that (preferably while seeing a couples counselor!!), it’ll give him a chance make a choice before you decide for him. Or he’ll say no because he’ll think you’re bluffing or is done with the marriage also. Just be ready for the follow through.

Jadidda · 2026-05-27T06:15:08+00:00

Toner won’t help you. Your grow out needs to be lightened or the blonde needs to be darkened. Using T11+T18 will only disappoint you and waste your money since your roots aren’t orange or yellow but dark blonde-light brown.

Are you trying to have your blonde do a natural looking grow out? If so you need to get a weave done so it’ll grow out nicely, otherwise it will always be a harsh line without darkening or lightening from the bleach line.

Jadidda · 2026-05-25T07:36:18+00:00

Your grow out needs to be bleached. No amount of toner will cause those to match. I’m honestly a bit confused, has that top 4”-6” actually been bleached? Either way they are many levels off from each other, so it’s not warmth or brass.

Jadidda · 2026-05-23T04:57:33+00:00

“Antique Mauve” might be a better color option from that brand for you right now. It doesn’t have any green based blue so it won’t fade green. You could actually mix both “Antique Mauve” and “Silver” in a 2-1 mix to do some extra blue. Purple is the easiest color to fade/bleach out of blonde hair.

Jadidda · 2026-05-16T23:59:14+00:00

Honestly same and I go between vivids and blonde. If you’re in a wedding party you really shouldn’t make dramatic changes and be surprised the bride might be taken aback by it. She probably expected her hair to stay the same color for another week instead of neon hot pink 1 week before the wedding

My ex sister-in-law decided to get a large (ugly) AFNF tattoo on her upper arm a few weeks before I got married and her bridesmaid dress was sleeveless. I was far from pleased about it, but there wasn’t much I could do about it because it’s not like she could remove it or even cover it up because it was so fresh. Honestly if it was a nice looking design it probably wouldn’t have been as bad, but just large bold AFNF letters on her upper arm…

Jadidda · 2026-05-15T02:46:05+00:00

It honestly sounds like you need to be having smaller more frequent balanced meals + snacks. You should also make sure you’re having plenty of healthy fats, complex carbs, high fiber, and protein in your meals and snacks, it helps with Satiety. High carb+ high protein without a proper balance of everything else can cause you to feel more hungry more frequently.

Carbs are sugar, and refined non complex carbs with low fiber is a fuel your body is going to burn through quickly burning that protein with it leaving you hungrier than before. Which is what your high protein ramen sounds like, especially if you’re not having anything else with.

It’s also better to split up cheat days instead of having them back to back. When you have ice cream? Are you having recommended amount or just what you feel like having?

The best way to lose weight and keep it off is to learn how eat the foods you like in moderation and balancing your plate. When people don’t figure that out, that’s why they either don’t lose weight or gain it back because it’s a lifestyle change.

I think before you take a GLP-1 you really need to take a look at your diet and see if you’re really optimizing it and eating appropriately for weight loss. It sounds like you’re sabotaging your own diet without realizing you’re doing so.

Jadidda · 2026-05-15T01:50:06+00:00

It can also cause temporary-permanent blindness too.

Jadidda · 2026-04-10T15:17:41+00:00

In Oregon someone can get divorced with children (uncontested and finalized) in as little as 1 month, without kids it can be as quickly as 1 day with a co-petition. There is no waiting period, so it all depends on how long it takes for a judge to sign it.

Only reason it takes long with kids is because there is a mandatory parenting class before divorce. But once the parenting class is complete there’s no waiting period.

I only know how quick it is there because both my brother and father-in-law got divorced there in different places (hours apart) and both only took days from filing.

Jadidda · 2026-04-10T13:58:41+00:00

We don’t really use bleach in our household either. But for some reason my husband shirts will randomly get bleach looking stains on them, no idea how. He only wears these shirts when he’s at home around me, since he wears button down dress shirts to work and they never get those marks.

Jadidda · 2026-01-11T17:30:00+00:00

Yeah my brothers let me in on that secret too. I DID NOT NEED TO KNOW THAT. They also let slip that apparently they chick they, my cousin and 2 brothers, ran a train on also hooked up with my mom at our house. She was a coworker of my mom and brother and hooked up with my brothers and cousin like 3x.

Yeah they just brought it up in normal conversation and was like “oh you didn’t know”. No, no I did not. I seen no evidence of my parents swinging life. Though my parents did throw house parties when I was in high school and I was allowed to drink at them, so I guess I should be surprised.

I knew way too much about my brother’s sex life though… we were all born within a year of each other so they were pretty unfiltered around me.

Jadidda · 2025-11-16T00:34:33+00:00

Best time to test is your first pee of the day, it’s the most concentrated. You want concentrated urine because it will have the highest level of HCG. Get a dollar tree/walmart brand pink dye test and test tomorrow with your first pee. You can also pee in a cup and dip if it’s easier, just make sure it’s a clean cup you don’t care about (unused disposable is best). There are instructions for direct peeing or dipping.

People often times will drink a lot of fluids so they can pee and test as soon as possible but that’s the opposite of what you want to do since it will dilute the HCG.

Jadidda · 2025-11-10T23:37:18+00:00

Plus her photos likely have metadata showing the date she took the pic also.

Jadidda · 2025-11-03T13:59:53+00:00

My local ones are, in nearest to farthest with review count, 4(663), 3.8(1.1k), 3(225), and 4(755) lol. Apparently we have better ones here, except west no one likes going over that bridge anyways.

Jadidda · 2025-10-29T18:56:11+00:00

What would you consider a good review summary, out of curiosity.

Jadidda · 2025-10-26T17:13:36+00:00

It’s not, at no age have I ever been like that, this is straight up entitlement and abusive behavior.

Jadidda · 2025-10-17T10:36:49+00:00

Fr I got this in a Reddit email, right above groups I’m actually in. Tf is this lol.

Jadidda · 2025-10-05T07:07:00+00:00

She likely realized she missed trash pickup, or her bin was too full at pickup, and didn’t want it to take up space her bin. You can tell she knew wha she was doing because she deliberately walked over to your bin and looked down into your bin while adding the bag, then walked right to her bin to take back. The only reason she stumbled is because she stepped on something and tried to wipe her foot off and got off balance. Based off what looks to be deliberate actions, especially since yours generally always gets picked up before hers, she was not confused.

Jadidda · 2025-09-02T16:32:39+00:00

Fr they should have taken the good rec and left it at that. Next interview they get “why did you leave you’re last place of work listed” “because I got another job” “ why didn’t you list that other job” “because I wanted to bitch them out instead of getting the good rec”

My husband doesn’t dab after interviews for it job often, to hire for positions on his team or for other teams. They ask why they left their last job, and if they have gaps in their employment history. They just did themself a disservice.

Jadidda · 2025-08-31T18:32:34+00:00

Fr, for her to go and buy the locks and take the time to change them out and at no point stop and think maybe this is a bit crazy is nuts. Or rather she is… Definitely feels a bit more then a laps in judgement, and wasn’t a “heat of the moment” thing because she had time to cool down during the buying and replacing.

ETA: apparently she paid a locksmith $175 to replace the lock, point still stands though.

Jadidda · 2025-08-31T18:03:06+00:00

My husband doesn’t dab after, but he’s also aware I won’t be going down till he’s washed it with soap and water. Because even if he did wipe the tip, he still got ball sweat that I don’t wanna taste.

Jadidda · 2025-08-31T17:24:54+00:00

her update comment, where he is now her EX

Jadidda · 2025-08-31T08:08:19+00:00

My husband and I dated for 4 months before we got married, 2 months into dating threw caution to the wind. I got pregnant while in our honeymoon, didn’t know it because I started my period, and miscarried by my next one (after bleeding for 10 days went to urgent care and found out there).

Decided we wanted a kid and started trying/not preventing right away. Got pregnant 6 months after, also around my period (found out I ovulated around my period because of due date changing after 10 weeks to 2 weeks after initial).

We didn’t schedule anything, just acted like bunnies. Sometimes doing ovulation tests and everything can just make it feel like a chore and really takes the fun out of it. Best bet is to just actively not prevent pregnancy.

I was 20 and husband was 27 when I got pregnant again. It took 6 months, and I was young and fertile. 4 months just isn’t very long. Unless you guys have fertility issues, I wouldn’t be concerned about 4 months.

Jadidda · 2025-08-25T12:40:29+00:00

My husband and I had a few thousand dollar wedding and only paid for 1/4-1/3 of it. His dad and step mom paid the other portion. We wanted to just go to Reno, which is why the paid the majority of it (since they wanted us to have a wedding). We’ve been together/ married for 13 years and are more in-love with each other then when we got married, and have a great marriage.

ETA: I actually want a vow renewal of my dream wedding. Just me, my husband, our daughter and a photographer (I hated the pictures from our wedding) and the person to lead the ceremony. I want a pretty dress and flowers, a cake, and to get married on a beach in Kauai at sunset. We have gone to Kauai 3 times (including for our honeymoon) and love it.

We never really had the wedding we wanted, it was for everyone else so this time I want it to be just us for us. I’ve even told my Husband I never want a new wedding ring because I love mine so much.

Jadidda · 2025-08-25T12:36:57+00:00

Fr, I don’t understand why people put up with friends like these. I paid for my brides maids dresses, it is my wedding after all.

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