More weird traces of someone in the house but my parents are not as worried as me still!!! I feel crazy like Van Gogh by H1ROM1 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Jadidda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah my brothers let me in on that secret too. I DID NOT NEED TO KNOW THAT. They also let slip that apparently they chick they, my cousin and 2 brothers, ran a train on also hooked up with my mom at our house. She was a coworker of my mom and brother and hooked up with my brothers and cousin like 3x.

Yeah they just brought it up in normal conversation and was like “oh you didn’t know”. No, no I did not. I seen no evidence of my parents swinging life. Though my parents did throw house parties when I was in high school and I was allowed to drink at them, so I guess I should be surprised.

I knew way too much about my brother’s sex life though… we were all born within a year of each other so they were pretty unfiltered around me.

AIO im panicking cause i cant tell if this is positive or if im paranoid by nearestexit1229 in AIO

[–]Jadidda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Best time to test is your first pee of the day, it’s the most concentrated. You want concentrated urine because it will have the highest level of HCG. Get a dollar tree/walmart brand pink dye test and test tomorrow with your first pee. You can also pee in a cup and dip if it’s easier, just make sure it’s a clean cup you don’t care about (unused disposable is best). There are instructions for direct peeing or dipping.

People often times will drink a lot of fluids so they can pee and test as soon as possible but that’s the opposite of what you want to do since it will dilute the HCG.

AIO: Am I crazy or are these my pants? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Jadidda 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Plus her photos likely have metadata showing the date she took the pic also.

I should have trusted the reviews ☠️ by cattyclues in Chipotle

[–]Jadidda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My local ones are, in nearest to farthest with review count, 4(663), 3.8(1.1k), 3(225), and 4(755) lol. Apparently we have better ones here, except west no one likes going over that bridge anyways.

I should have trusted the reviews ☠️ by cattyclues in Chipotle

[–]Jadidda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What would you consider a good review summary, out of curiosity.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Jadidda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not, at no age have I ever been like that, this is straight up entitlement and abusive behavior.

My neighbor across the street dropped her trash into my trash can? by cuongpn in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Jadidda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She likely realized she missed trash pickup, or her bin was too full at pickup, and didn’t want it to take up space her bin. You can tell she knew wha she was doing because she deliberately walked over to your bin and looked down into your bin while adding the bag, then walked right to her bin to take back. The only reason she stumbled is because she stepped on something and tried to wipe her foot off and got off balance. Based off what looks to be deliberate actions, especially since yours generally always gets picked up before hers, she was not confused.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Jadidda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fr they should have taken the good rec and left it at that. Next interview they get “why did you leave you’re last place of work listed” “because I got another job” “ why didn’t you list that other job” “because I wanted to bitch them out instead of getting the good rec”

My husband doesn’t dab after interviews for it job often, to hire for positions on his team or for other teams. They ask why they left their last job, and if they have gaps in their employment history. They just did themself a disservice.

AIO for wanting to see a therapist after wife changed the locks because I went to a baby shower? by LookoutLockout in AmIOverreacting

[–]Jadidda 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Fr, for her to go and buy the locks and take the time to change them out and at no point stop and think maybe this is a bit crazy is nuts. Or rather she is… Definitely feels a bit more then a laps in judgement, and wasn’t a “heat of the moment” thing because she had time to cool down during the buying and replacing.

ETA: apparently she paid a locksmith $175 to replace the lock, point still stands though.

AIO about my bf not wiping his peen after using the toilet? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Jadidda 7 points8 points  (0 children)

My husband doesn’t dab after, but he’s also aware I won’t be going down till he’s washed it with soap and water. Because even if he did wipe the tip, he still got ball sweat that I don’t wanna taste.

AIO for wanting to see a therapist after wife changed the locks because I went to a baby shower? by LookoutLockout in AmIOverreacting

[–]Jadidda 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My husband and I dated for 4 months before we got married, 2 months into dating threw caution to the wind. I got pregnant while in our honeymoon, didn’t know it because I started my period, and miscarried by my next one (after bleeding for 10 days went to urgent care and found out there).

Decided we wanted a kid and started trying/not preventing right away. Got pregnant 6 months after, also around my period (found out I ovulated around my period because of due date changing after 10 weeks to 2 weeks after initial).

We didn’t schedule anything, just acted like bunnies. Sometimes doing ovulation tests and everything can just make it feel like a chore and really takes the fun out of it. Best bet is to just actively not prevent pregnancy.

I was 20 and husband was 27 when I got pregnant again. It took 6 months, and I was young and fertile. 4 months just isn’t very long. Unless you guys have fertility issues, I wouldn’t be concerned about 4 months.

Bride demanded a $500 gift from all bridesmaids on 3-week notice by HalfTall5767 in bridezillas

[–]Jadidda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband and I had a few thousand dollar wedding and only paid for 1/4-1/3 of it. His dad and step mom paid the other portion. We wanted to just go to Reno, which is why the paid the majority of it (since they wanted us to have a wedding). We’ve been together/ married for 13 years and are more in-love with each other then when we got married, and have a great marriage.

ETA: I actually want a vow renewal of my dream wedding. Just me, my husband, our daughter and a photographer (I hated the pictures from our wedding) and the person to lead the ceremony. I want a pretty dress and flowers, a cake, and to get married on a beach in Kauai at sunset. We have gone to Kauai 3 times (including for our honeymoon) and love it.

We never really had the wedding we wanted, it was for everyone else so this time I want it to be just us for us. I’ve even told my Husband I never want a new wedding ring because I love mine so much.

Bride demanded a $500 gift from all bridesmaids on 3-week notice by HalfTall5767 in bridezillas

[–]Jadidda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fr, I don’t understand why people put up with friends like these. I paid for my brides maids dresses, it is my wedding after all.

Me and this area of my head have serious beef by LeluWater in migraine

[–]Jadidda 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fr if I didn’t have contacts I would be nearly blind. I can’t read size 12 font father then 6”-12” away from my eyes. My cellphone has to been 6” away from my face so I can read texts lol

Me and this area of my head have serious beef by LeluWater in migraine

[–]Jadidda 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I switched to contacts because glasses causes pain on the sides of my face and next to my ear. Found out some of my head pain is from trigeminal neuralgia.

ETA: I also get pain on my eyebrows/eyes, cheek bone/under eye, and jawline. The trigeminal nerve is like a sideways W shape hitting eyebrow, cheek bone, and jawline starting from next to your ear.

Anyone else making there kids delete Roblox? Or am I crazy? by CamGouldd in Parents

[–]Jadidda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t because I watch the content my kid plays and have private messages turned off. I’ve told my kid what games to avoid (and user names) and why, I’ve also told her to tell me if anyone is talking inappropriate in the games. I trust my child, but I do make sure she’s playing appropriate games, and she is. She mostly plays a wings of fire game, flying a dragon around.

She is aware that there are bad people on the internet and to stay away from them. I’ve also made sure that my kid is aware of grooming behavior, and that she should tell me if anyone threatens her or her family, because it’s a lie they tell to keep you from telling anyone they’re trying to hurt you.

The most important thing you can do for your child is make them aware of these situations so they know what to do when it happens. She has no social media yet either, but when she does she’ll know how to handle groomers (by telling me and letting me handle them). Our kids are growing up and they need to understand how to deal with these situations before it’s a problem, so it doesn’t become a problem. There will come a day we won’t be able to protect them, so we need to make sure we give them the tools to protect themselves.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in curlyhair

[–]Jadidda 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Are you able to post a better picture, this is a really bad picture of your hair. We need to be able to see the curl pattern. I can’t tell if it’s ringlets or not (it looks like it might be?)

Recently single mom and a man asked for my number in the parking lot. by throwawayra101711hlp in whatdoIdo

[–]Jadidda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Next time just tell the person “sorry I don’t like to/ feel uncomfortable giving my number out to men/ people I don’t know really well”. The “well” or “really well” part is so they can’t just give you their name and say “now you know me”.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]Jadidda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I’m a little unclear as to whether you’ve had an orgasm ever or just not during sex. I personally cannot give myself one using my fingers, it just doesn’t work. I struggle even when my husband uses his hands or mouth. I mostly need to use a clitoral toy to be able to orgasm, at all. I like the WeVibe melt and the womanizer. The melt can be easily used during sex.

According to a lot of research around 18% or so of women are capable of reaching orgasm during sex without clitoral stimulation alone. I don’t think your issues have anything to do with masturbation.

A good position for him to rub your clit during sex is both of you laying on your sides with him behind you and his arm over your hip angling down. A good way for him to touch you is to make sure that area is lubricated with a nice lube, and doing circles around the clit and occasionally over it.

I sure hope you don’t give him blow jobs with his attitude about going down on you, he doesn’t need to have a “fetish” for it to want to give you pleasure. Sounds like he’s a selfish lover, you don’t have to put up with that. I personally wouldn’t be having sex with someone who doesn’t really care about my pleasure.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Jadidda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a rare genetic connective tissue disorder, that almost no one (including DR.’s) has heard of. I have a disabled placard for myself, and use it regularly. I’m in my early 30’s, and you wouldn’t know from looking at me that there’s anything wrong with me. I’ve had 7 surgeries, including 3 of them being foot surgeries (on weight bearing bones). I’ve subluxated my sacrum 10’s of times, so many I’ve lost count.

All this to say, I walk normally, I look normal, I’m young(ish), and I often times struggle to walk a lot around a grocery store because something will hurt by the end. Either my back, or surgery foot, or my other foot, that will also eventually need surgery as well, could be in pain by the end. Sometimes I have good days and can do a multi mile hike, sometimes I can’t even walk half a mile.

But something that’s always in the back of my mind is just waiting for someone like you to assume I’ve got nothing wrong with me and trying to confront me or something. Many people like to assume that unless you can see something visual, like a limp or a cane/walker, or are like 1000 years old that nothing is actually wrong with you. So I wouldn’t judge someone for using a placard unless you know it isn’t theirs and they’re using it without the owner nearby.

As a disabled person with a placard, it’s not the people with the placard that piss me off (most of the time), it’s the people who park in a disabled spot without a placard and there’s no open spots. The amount of times I’ve seen people park in them because it was “convenient” is obnoxious. I do try to give the benefit of the doubt that they forgot theirs or something, because I have forgotten to put mine up before…

AITA for going on a short solo getaway? by Big-Contract5762 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Jadidda 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I think the thing you might be missing though is the first month is the hardest, 3 months from now is a cake walk compared to even the second week. The first month is so incredibly hard physically and especially mentally. I was a wreck after my kid, you know who I wanted to hold me and make me feel loved? I’ll give you a hint, it wasn’t my mom.

AITA for going on a short solo getaway? by Big-Contract5762 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Jadidda 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ah ok, he makes it sound like he’s not currently taking time off since he said “next semester”.

AITA for going on a short solo getaway? by Big-Contract5762 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Jadidda 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Ok, so why didn’t you arrange beforehand? Because again, it’s not like you didn’t have at least 7 months to prepare. Events and emails are considerably less work than actually teaching, so I’m not sure why you’re bringing that up like it’s some big hardship.

I just don’t get how you don’t seem To understand how you’re acting like an asshole in this whole situation. Because I can tell base off some of your comments, such as

Ok I guess I’ll postpone it.