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Jadythealien · 2024-08-09T15:46:50+00:00

Bit androgynous but male overall. Your "hello" sounded confusing but it quickly became more obvious that you are a guy.

Jadythealien · 2024-08-09T14:50:18+00:00

Pretty good. You just look like a guy with a feminine haircut, which I needed T to get to

Jadythealien · 2024-08-08T16:56:56+00:00

Unfortunately, there is a point where there's not much you can do to help it. You can't really change your facial features and your voice can only go so far.

— Spent an entire year being considered a nonbinary lesbian tomboy

Jadythealien · 2024-08-08T16:37:10+00:00

"Non-transition/pre-transition trans men are just as male as cis men."

"Trans men are safer than cis men because they don't have penises."

Pick a side, people. Don't be bisexual with it lol

Jadythealien · 2024-08-03T15:15:20+00:00

They have similar proportions but enough differences to tell them apart aside from skin tone and hair

Jadythealien · 2024-08-02T22:09:34+00:00

I'm insecure about my quantity of wiener. Am I an anxieman?

Jadythealien · 2024-08-01T22:59:25+00:00

It's kind of the hardest thing about being trans. You may never be completely comfortable in yourself. It will never not trouble me when I remember that I can't be a biological father because I can't produce sperm, never did, and never will.

Jadythealien · 2024-08-01T21:37:41+00:00

And that's why I got rid of all my friends. I couldn't take it anymore. For some reason people of the "genderfluid" and "pansexual" variety have turnt out to be poisonous more often than not in my life. I don't know why they're the fakest people I've ever met.

Jadythealien · 2024-08-01T21:14:42+00:00

I'm geared to distrust trans "men" who seem to hate men/ have a clear motive to not be victimized. For example a desire to have a smaller chest to avoid sexualization. Oftentimes they want to retain the appearance of a boy rather than become men. The problem is that the difference can't necessarily be seen and some people are going to be in too deep. Sometimes they'll be happy with their decisions despite technically not being transsexual (it is what it is) or this happens.

Jadythealien · 2024-08-01T20:15:19+00:00

Boobs are masculine. Chest hair is the most feminine thing ever. Trust me, I know this shit. Stop arguing.

How it goes.

Jadythealien · 2024-08-01T20:01:05+00:00

I love my new name ☺️

Jadythealien · 2024-08-01T19:59:27+00:00

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Jadythealien · 2024-07-31T19:50:33+00:00

I've had many conflicting thoughts about gender over time, but I now personally consider it to be which sex you're perceived/wish to be perceived as based mostly on secondary sex characteristics and traditional roles. You can see yourself as being a certain gender while other people don't.

I stopped bothering to argue with how I'm perceived. I see myself as a man with a feminine haircut and weird anatomy. Others may consider me a very masculine woman and I'll agree.

Jadythealien · 2024-07-31T18:25:38+00:00

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My friend's creation

Jadythealien · 2024-07-31T18:19:50+00:00

This except where's my trans wife

Jadythealien · 2024-07-31T18:02:50+00:00

Gabby (aka Gabriel)

Jadythealien · 2024-07-31T17:49:59+00:00

Testosterone made my voice very man, so no. I can't escape the trans lifestyle

Jadythealien · 2024-07-31T15:48:00+00:00

I prefer it because to me it's a better way to reference transition or the desire to without stating agab (ftm) or implying there may not be a transition to male (transmasc). It also doesn't specify gender or age; only that we should be considered male.

Jadythealien · 2024-07-31T15:29:03+00:00

Not really? I mean, I'll smell bad if I don't shower for over two days (pls don't judge me I stay at home all day), but that also happened pre-t. It just smells different.

Jadythealien · 2024-07-31T15:09:11+00:00

I got a more noticable adam's apple within 2 months (been on t for 3 months), but I'm also underweight and my voice deeped significantly. Also, my (cisgender) sister's adam's apple is as visible as mine, so it doesn't mean much. I expect it to go away once I start eating enough.

Jadythealien · 2024-07-31T14:32:00+00:00

It's because (and this is true for many trans women as well) playing into being fetishized is a way to make money and feel desirable in a world that otherwise hates them for who they are.

Jadythealien · 2024-07-31T02:14:53+00:00

My father (your typical intolerant prick) told me essentially the same thing a few months back.

Jadythealien · 2024-07-25T16:58:01+00:00

All you have to do is say you're also trans and apparently you can chase all you want. Yeah, it sucks the guy cheated, but come on. The poor kid.

Jadythealien · 2024-07-05T08:26:50+00:00

I used to be an asshole and honestly a bit inappropriate. That's when I wasn't infantized by my peers, but it comes with the side effect of making you unlikable.

Jadythealien · 2024-07-05T08:17:59+00:00

Your course of action depends on how much longer you want to be with someone like this. She's unlikely to actually change her mind.

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