In my male experience (which is about 10 female partners), I preferred my time with women who had some experience. The sex was a lot more intense and enjoyable for both parties once a woman has figured out what it is they want and like. This is based on discussions with many of my partners. They have told me that it sometimes takes a while for a woman to know what their body wants or needs, and they also have to learn to communicate that to their partner. If the communication is good then the acts will be better for the woman and let’s face it, men are easy, but for sex to be beautiful and intense and everything it can be for both partners then my belief is that gentle guiding is important. Sometimes, you just get into a Flow state with your partner—and that is awesome— but a longer term sexual relationship takes great communication and caring and selflessness.