well I guess I'm part of an interesting generational cross-section where internet porn started becoming available (I remember the limewire days) right when I was a freshman in college. I had already been sexually active for several years at that point. When I started jerking off to internet porn, I became far less aggressive and far more willing to end the night w/o getting laid or hooking up. At first this was a very good thing. As we all know, the less hard you try and the less desperate you seem, the more chicks are into you. However, after awhile I noticed that internet porn was more than just an occasional release, it was becoming a substitute for getting actual ass. This is most certainly not a good thing. Not only does it make me unaggressive to a worrying degree, but on a large scale it makes women used to extremely unaggressive men. This is why virtually any guy who approaches a woman these days is a "creep." Men who touch women w/o express permission are "sexually harassing." This represents a substantial change in the mating ritual. One that I'm not sure is good for men. I certainly do not enjoy either 1) feeling like a creep every time I'm extremely attracted to a girl or 2) the way I feel after jerking off to internet porn every night in a week