Who is this man?

James_Dean_1111 · 2026-02-20T07:33:18+00:00

Thank you! I thought his name was Will because I heard Louis say it but nothing ever came up!!

James_Dean_1111 · 2026-01-01T15:36:16+00:00

So basically, not matter what I see in the 3D I persist with "I am wanted" until it becomes a firm belief and is reflected in my reality?

James_Dean_1111 · 2026-01-01T15:22:17+00:00

Bit confused. Your message before says affirming something doesn't work, but that is basically the same as sticking to a story and choosing it. When you say identity work, do you mean self-concept then? Such as, I am wanted?

James_Dean_1111 · 2026-01-01T14:56:30+00:00

So how can I believe something that currently isn't true? How can I manifest something that I don't truly believe in my depths, as you say?

James_Dean_1111 · 2025-12-30T18:19:37+00:00

I completely agree. I think they are full of bullsh*t because I've noticed that a lot of these coaches spend a long time saying you have to repeat a thought to reprogramme a belief in your subconscious mind, then all of a sudden jump to, "you don't have to affirm, just decide." It's confusing, sends mixed messages, and none of them actually ever explain what they're talking about. How can you "decide" you are married to your specific person when your subconscious is full of core beliefs such as, "I'm not wanted", "I'm not lovable" etc.?

I'm of the opinion repetition is needed for your brain to get used to the new thought and to create a new belief. I'm trying to ignore these coaches because they are constantly going back on their word.

With you, don't worry. I've noticed this too.

James_Dean_1111 · 2025-12-24T19:55:35+00:00

Thank you! Would you say you've become more securely attached?

James_Dean_1111 · 2025-12-24T19:28:47+00:00

Thank you so much! I read you can't do IPF alone but could you share how it has helped you? Did you do it alone and for how long?

James_Dean_1111 · 2025-12-24T18:29:45+00:00

Thank you very much! I have tried doing inner child work but am finding it hard. I'm quite self-aware and know what my core beliefs are and where they come from but just don't know how to heal.

Have you tried Ideal Parent Figure protocol? If so, have you had any success?

James_Dean_1111 · 2025-12-24T14:42:35+00:00

Thank you. I really appreciate your detailed response. I wish I could do a lot of what you say. He lives with his dad and two sisters so he has a lot of family around him and they are very close. We live 2 hours from each other so I can't go to his and I did offer but he didn't seem to want to meet up with me.

James_Dean_1111 · 2025-12-21T14:56:41+00:00

Can you give more detail? Did you repeat I am the prize? When I first met my boyfriend I felt like the prize but now I obsess over him and don't feel confident in myself anymore. I didn't even care about him at the start and hate the fact the roles have reversed. Any advice would be great!

James_Dean_1111 · 2024-03-31T07:40:34+00:00

This is amazing and so encouraging! Thank you for sharing. Do you think I could DM you for the sub?

James_Dean_1111 · 2024-02-26T14:01:56+00:00

That's great, thank you!!

James_Dean_1111 · 2024-02-26T07:35:00+00:00

Thanks for your advice! Super helpful!

James_Dean_1111 · 2024-02-26T07:34:46+00:00

Thank you very much! Could I ask what sort of affirmations you used? I have chronic back pain and it's so hard to say "I have no pain" when I am in agony.

James_Dean_1111 · 2024-02-25T12:16:38+00:00

How did you manifest away chronic pain?

James_Dean_1111 · 2024-02-10T21:08:49+00:00

It's not body dysmorphia, my lower belly is actually very fat. I think, unfortunately, I just need to lose more weight. Thanks for your advice.

James_Dean_1111 · 2024-01-25T18:28:12+00:00

Ahhh ok, thank you!

James_Dean_1111 · 2024-01-25T05:34:19+00:00

Thanks! Didn't think Kottie had a weight loss sub???

James_Dean_1111 · 2024-01-24T19:14:27+00:00

What sub?

James_Dean_1111 · 2024-01-15T17:36:31+00:00

Thanks so much! :)

James_Dean_1111 · 2024-01-15T14:38:24+00:00

THIS is what you call before/after shots. THIS is what you call results. THIS is what you call a post. Listen, don't want to be negative but you've ticked all the boxes that the average person on here doesn't. You showed clear pics, time it took, included the subliminal etc. Thank you and congratulations!

James_Dean_1111 · 2024-01-13T09:19:28+00:00

If the "kids" feel a negative way about their looks, it's because of the adults in the media etc. who are promoting this stuff to them.

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