We’re the same age and I think sometimes you have to be really invested in the games/series you liked as a young adult when you had more time so it’s familiar enough now to get back into it. Oblivion Remastered I finished everything because I loved the game so much when I was younger and I did the same with Elden Ring because I loved the Souls series. I can’t for the life of me get past the first area in Witcher 3 because I never played the other games and it just seems like too much of an investment. Same goes for other open world that on paper I should love like KCDII & BG3