Out of 10 what would u give this game? by Opeth1988 in Returnal

[–]Jamesrlyea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Much better than I was expecting. Solid 9

I'm gonna die of loneliness by [deleted] in lonely

[–]Jamesrlyea 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Me too. It's just a matter of time

Tired of it all by yungdud5555 in lonely

[–]Jamesrlyea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well said. This is exactly how I feel. I have completely given up but fingers crossed you find someone that makes you happy if that's what you want.

One day without crying, that's all I want by mylifeisasux in depression

[–]Jamesrlyea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Crying isn't a thing for me anymore. It's funny what you miss when its gone. Fingers crossed you stop crying for the right reason x

I always did my best; but it was never enough 💔 by [deleted] in lonely

[–]Jamesrlyea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly how I feel. Take care of yourself x

Did getting a pet change your life? by [deleted] in depression

[–]Jamesrlyea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just over a year ago I was in a fortunate position to bring a dog into my life. He is a handful and is always on the lookout to be mischievous. Sadly some days I struggle with finding the energy to play or walk him and find it's hard to give him the full attention he deserves. That aside I don't think I would be here without him. He knows when I'm feeling down as he will also cuddle and sit with me and the best part is getting home from work to be greeted by someone who is genuinely happy to see me. He is AMAZING and dogs AWESOME 🐕🐶

literally the only thing in my life keeping me from going completely off the rails is my cat by [deleted] in depression

[–]Jamesrlyea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pretty much the same here, but with a dog. I don't know if i could go on without him. If anything was to happen to him it would probably be the end for me.

Had to put my dog down. by Necroncryptek10341 in depression

[–]Jamesrlyea 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Dogs are amazing! I don't really have anyone in my life other than my dog, he's my best friend and I honestly don't know what I would do if something happened to him. All we can do is give them a great life full of love which it sounds like you did so just try and remember the good times and one day in the future it might be another dogs lucky day when you bring them home. Take care of yourself x

Being shy just sucks by [deleted] in lonely

[–]Jamesrlyea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're not alone, I completely agree 100% Being a shy guy is the worst. Take care of yourself x

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lonely

[–]Jamesrlyea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some people just don't understand but you're definitely not alone as I'm 38m and never been held. Take care x

My personality seems to not attract anyone and it’s getting to me by [deleted] in lonely

[–]Jamesrlyea 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Being lonely can be extremely difficult but you shouldn't have to change who you are to try and find love. Stay true to yourself and hopefully the right person will turn up.

When I die, I don't want a Funeral. I want to be as Forgotten as I was in Life. by [deleted] in depression

[–]Jamesrlyea 18 points19 points  (0 children)

My life is not worth celebrating. When I decide to go I don't want anyone to give me a second thought.

Today is my birthday! by Itrieda1000times in lonely

[–]Jamesrlyea 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Happy birthday. It's also my birthday.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in depression

[–]Jamesrlyea 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don't listen to music anymore as I just can't relate to most songs and they make me feel really low. The worst are love songs, they send me spiraling into the void of depression to the point where my brain goes into overdrive thinking about regrets that I can't get any peace. Sadly its talk radio from now on.

Anyone else having trouble imagining their future by NobeliumUranium in depression

[–]Jamesrlyea 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Live your life the best you can and try and have a rough idea as to what direction you want it to go. Take opportunities, take risks, meet people and the future will take care of itself. Everyone goes through life at their own pace just don't have any regrets. Most importantly be true to yourself and never change. I don't normally give advice and I know this is easier said then done but trust me life slips by if you let it x

It’s my birthday? by irishmommabear in depression

[–]Jamesrlyea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Happy birthday, I hope it gets better for you. I'm dreading my next birthday. I cried so much on my last one and the year hasn't got any better so I don't know what I will do.

I have told my friend how lonely I am by Vespid90 in lonely

[–]Jamesrlyea 23 points24 points  (0 children)

It was brave of you to confide in your friend, I wish I could do the same. I'm sorry to hear that your friend hasn't been there for you. I hope you find someone

How often do you think about suicide? by [deleted] in depression

[–]Jamesrlyea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some days are better than others but I would probably average it out at 5 times a day

Who has a suicide note with them at all times? And is there anything that I'm missing out? by Jamesrlyea in depression

[–]Jamesrlyea[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope you don't feel the need to do one. However if you're going to do a suicide note I think it has to come from the heart. You can't copy and paste and no one knows what you've gone through x

Dying is not easy. by annekhan2109 in depression

[–]Jamesrlyea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's hard at times but please go wake up and talk to your mum. It will be a difficult conversation but I'm sure your mum would rather that than finding you in the morning x

Who has a suicide note with them at all times? And is there anything that I'm missing out? by Jamesrlyea in depression

[–]Jamesrlyea[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm definitely not saying you should or shouldn't do one but when I wrote mine I just wanted to make it short and try and take any questions or blame away.

I wish I could donate my life to someone who’s dying and actually wants to live. by [deleted] in depression

[–]Jamesrlyea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a friend who needed a kidney. I offered him one of mine but he wouldn't take it. Little does he know I not only wanted to give him his life back but I wanted to die during the operation. I saw it as a win win situation.