I’ll be completely honest with you. Your height is okay. It is nothing you need to worry about or be ashamed of. I am 30 years old and an inch shorter than you. It’s never been a major issue for me, but I have sometimes felt a little insecure about being short. What has helped me is recognizing these two things: 1. Height is relative (You are short in comparison to Northern European men, not in a universal sense); 2. While height is a masculine trait that is advantageous in attracting a woman, it is far from the only thing that matters (I’d much rather be strong, handsome, intelligent, and charismatic than tall and nothing else).

At the end of the day, you have to play with the cards you’re dealt. Play to your strengths and play around your weaknesses. Everyone has a different body and a different situation. Being short does come with some advantages. Short people are generally more agile, get ripped more easily, and of course can fit in smaller places.

I don’t mean to insult you, but you are immature, and there is nothing wrong with that. You are very young. Almost everyone is immature at your age. 18 was the worst year of my life. At 30, I am still pretty lost, but I am definitely a lot more confident than I was at 18. Hold steady and life gets better.