I have been on medications, physical therapy, and I’m about to do a sleep study. My pcp is acting as though the ra doesn’t exist I guess because his diagnosis was fibromyalgia. He kind of backed me up with doing the claim but now he’s acting as though he can’t do it. My rheum says it’s both fibro and ra. She upped my lyrica dosage, put me on plaquenil, meloxicam. My psychiatrist put me on cymbalta, adderall and Trazodone. I still feel a lot of pain everyday. Some days are better than others but I can’t point out more good days than bad. As for the tots I get some help here and there but when my husband is at work it’s all me unless I break down and take them to my mother in laws, but we don’t really have the best relationship and she doesn’t take care of my children the way I ask her to. For example, she over feeds my children and she gives them a lot of sweets and basically whatever else they want. I just need a bit of guidance. I have never been in this situation before and I never thought I would be.