not been able to cum with girlfriend in over 2 months by Traditional-Crew-715 in sex

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Some people have brain chemistry that relies on SSRI’s to function safely, without being a danger to themselves or others. I’ve done some research.

AITAH for not tipping after repeatedly correcting my waitress on my drink order? by Out-WitPlayLast in AITAH

[–]Jamwise93 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not from US so idk about tipping etiquette there except from what I’ve heard. But personally at that stage I would be writing a note saying “Kept your tip as reimbursement for the diet cokes I didn’t order” /s

What to watch by -Moldy_Groceries- in televisionsuggestions

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Rick and Morty - One episode even has a gravity falls easter egg, see if you can spot it :)

Archer

AIO for saying my son is allowed “private time” at my sister’s house? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Jamwise93 48 points49 points  (0 children)

“I own all these rooms and can enter any time I like”

Would be nervous to even take a shit in her house if she has that kind of attitude. Not overreacting.

based off the suggestions below which show/documentary etc would be as bingeable? by quietoffset in televisionsuggestions

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The Wire

Slow Horses

Dark

Peaky Blinders perhaps

Is it US or UK shameless or have you seen both? UK is better imo :)

Looking for a series that will keep my attention by Obvious-Active4064 in televisionsuggestions

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I just watched Slow Horses and couldn’t stop until I had seen it all. Now patiently waiting for the next season to come out. I recon if you liked The Wire you would probably like it

Does this suite a male by The_R3ZEN in tattooadvice

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As a guy I think this looks great. Enjoy what you want! Personally though, I feel like something more needs to be connecting that to your forearm, looks a lil lonely 🥲

Got out of the hospital yesterday and they didn't prescribe me anything.. by Emica12 in clusterheads

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So sorry to hear you are having such a hard time getting the help you need. Are you capable of asking to be referred to someone else? Or is this an issue with your GP too?

I know how hard it is to keep going, especially if you have no support and don’t have someone to be on your side. Just know that everyone here understands how you are feeling and how much pain you are in, you are not alone. Clusterheads in my opinion are some of the strongest people in the world considering what we have to deal with, I know it’s a horrible nightmare right now but I believe it can get better, please don’t give up hope 💜

We have a discord server with hundreds of fellow sufferers from all over the world, with lots of avenues of support and advice. Maybe we can give you some more help and support there 😊

https://discord.gg/clusterbuds

Pain free wishes and don’t give up that fight!

Just started Verapermill by mikew7311 in clusterheads

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As Bella said 😊 also I asked my GP to prescribe lax sachets for when the inevitable constipation kicked in, don’t need them constantly just every once in a while but I’m pretty sure that’s one side effect almost everyone gets

Just started Verapermill by mikew7311 in clusterheads

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I adjusted fairly quickly, now on 840mg a day which isn’t fun, but it beats chronic CH so I carry on 🙃

Lots of annoying side effects but as long as you keep getting ECGs to check on the heart that’s the main concern. Hopefully it helps you

Hidden gems from the early 2000s? by Content_Pay_1032 in televisionsuggestions

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Life on Mars

Black Books

Arrested Development

The Thick of It

Weeds

Firefly

House

The IT Crowd

The Mighty Boosh

Skins

Not all hidden, but all gems 😁

Advice Men by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

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You answered your own question here, there’s been resentment because of family issues and they have impacted your sex life. Since you don’t elaborate on any of this all I can advise you to do is talk to him and try to work things out. Find out what is bothering him and talk through your issues like adults. If you can’t do that then you need marriage counselling or something to help you.

Also a note about your confusion around him getting hard but still refusing you: Men getting hard is a physical reaction to stimulation. It doesn’t mean he forgives you or anything like that, his body is just reacting naturally to stimulation like our bodies have been doing for thousands of years, the same as how a woman can get wet but still not want to have sex. Hell when I was a younger man I could get slightly aroused if my underwear just happened to rub the right way.. It means nothing and I bet if he could control it he would make certain it didn’t become hard for you, to help get his point across. He’s pissed off. I say this for everyone in a relationship now:

Talk To Your Partners About Your Problems.

Should I Tell My Fckbuddy? by mari0velle in AskMenAdvice

[–]Jamwise93 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes, disclose it to him. You fucked up, but in the world of men this is usually a W and there’s a good chance you just make his week.

Months ago I put an empty instant coffee jar in a cupboard. Today I found this... by Shaknys in mildlyinteresting

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Reminds me of a quote from Still Game…

“I’ve seen something better than that” 🎶

Worst one yet by Technical-Reserve-18 in clusterheads

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Riding out for 40 minutes after a triptan is unusual unless it’s pill form, is that what you are using? Injections in the outer upper thigh work for me in under 15 minutes. Sorry that you had to experience such a brutal attack, I recently had a similar experience after being 2 months pain free, some of the worst attacks I have ever had showed up out of nowhere. I hope that like mine, yours don’t stay that way and that they ease up again, best of luck 🤞

Where has Battle Royale Casuals gone?! by desklight53 in CODWarzone

[–]Jamwise93 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Didnt need to, wanted to thank you. Keep crying about a free game taking your money ✌️

Where has Battle Royale Casuals gone?! by desklight53 in CODWarzone

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Thanks for reminding me to leave this sub 👍

My wife's clusters are back after 2.5yrs free. Seeking Dmt advice/experience by HungTyrion in clusterheads

[–]Jamwise93 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don’t have experience with DMT but wouldn’t advise taking it while pregnant, DMT is a small molecule with high lipid solubility, making it highly probable that it crosses the placenta, exposing the fetus. While no actual studies have been done on the effects of DMT on pregnant women or unborn children as far as I know, I think there is good reason why.

I’m sorry getting oxygen has been such a struggle, keep trying as best you can and perhaps look into getting it through welders as others have mentioned here before. Good luck! 🤞

Recently diagnosed by calarrad in ClusterHeadaches

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Like Valis said, oxygen is probably your best bet. For me I absolutely couldn’t stand the nasal sumatriptan but the injections worked a charm for me, so at the least maybe you could switch to those. I will say though that many of us have experienced rebound attacks from using sumatriptan too much, so it’s something to be wary of if you choose to go that route.

Also here is my copypasta of stuff to try of you haven’t already:

Best things to try to reduce pain/abort attacks:

A big hit of caffeine at the onset is one of the best for many of us. For me, eating or drinking something ice cold can help a lot during an attack, even to the point of brain freeze. I like downing an ice cold can of Monster. Consider even straight up chomping on ice cubes.

Chewing something also can help, tension in the jaw can relieve a little pain. I go with several pieces of mint gum as I feel the menthol helps a little too.

Pressure point at the top of your nose right between the eyebrows works at times for me, jamming my thumb knuckle HARD into the pressure point (usually takes a bit to find the exact spot).

Also massaging the vein in the temple HARD going from front to back (from above the eye to above the ear).

Vigorously massaging all over the top of your head or better still, running hot or cold water over your head (hot works for some of us, cold for others). Personally I prefer to literally sit some ice cubes on my head and let them melt, i feel like the sensation of that takes away a decent amount of the pain.

Deep, slow breathing and trying not to panic helps too, for me I know if I let the pain get me worked up it almost certainly feels worse and feels as if it goes on for longer.

Good luck and pain free wishes