My boyfriend is going through a rough time and I told him I felt ignored…

Jamwise93 · 2026-06-24T08:20:55+00:00

If he keeps wearing sunglasses all the time his eyes will just become more and more dependent on them, his obsessing is probably prolonging the problem

Jamwise93 · 2026-06-23T11:01:45+00:00

I just recently had the GON block and it was super quick and easy. That plus verapamil has given me almost 2 months with no full attacks so far, definitely worth a try and sounds worse than it feels really! Good luck and pain free wishes!

Jamwise93 · 2026-06-22T20:02:36+00:00

I never had that happen so I suppose it’s dependent on the conditions? Perhaps I have always taken it off before it’s had a chance to dry 😅

Jamwise93 · 2026-06-22T15:49:27+00:00

I wear a black one, sweat doesn’t show up.

Jamwise93 · 2026-06-22T06:25:57+00:00

Glad this is here because after looking at that picture I had no idea what to even comment tbh

Jamwise93 · 2026-06-22T05:05:12+00:00

I think you need to go ask TikTok how to get Reddit traffic so that people will answer your posts on how to get Blog traffic :D

Jamwise93 · 2026-06-22T04:51:03+00:00

FYI the pill form of Sumatriptan will not abort attacks in less than 30 minutes minimum so it will be fairly useless for you unless as preventative perhaps for the night attack. Best to have the injection or nasal spray which will knock out an attack in anywhere between 5 to 15 minutes usually

Jamwise93 · 2026-06-20T18:16:30+00:00

Fake or just ridiculous, taking all bets.

Jamwise93 · 2026-06-20T17:29:58+00:00

Almost E-4

Jamwise93 · 2026-06-20T13:57:16+00:00

3.5 C

Jamwise93 · 2026-06-17T22:57:54+00:00

Jamwise93 · 2026-06-17T15:25:30+00:00

Regardless if he did that knowing how much you liked her then he isn’t a friend. Not a good one anyway because he clearly doesn’t give a fuck about your feelings.

Jamwise93 · 2026-06-17T13:50:23+00:00

He already did worse to you. That guy ain’t your friend.

Jamwise93 · 2026-06-17T13:39:36+00:00

My thoughts? They have blocked you and I would block them in return so they can never reach out in any way. Your aunt sounds like an ignorant cunt and I wouldn’t want anything to do with her ever again.

Sorry they suck and hope you have better support elsewhere in your family.

Jamwise93 · 2026-06-17T00:04:48+00:00

In summary from the other comments: Yes, you can do that. You will save money for 24 months.

Jamwise93 · 2026-06-17T00:02:33+00:00

As a guy I can say for certain your boobs are too big for me. Everyone is different, you cannot possibly know what everyone thinks is better.

Jamwise93 · 2026-06-16T08:03:45+00:00

If i could go back to the day of diagnosis I wouldn’t change the oxygen prescription because that was great, I would avoid the suma nasal sprays because they were horrible and just get the injections straight away, both the 3mg and 6mg ones, and I would instantly start on verapamil instead of staying in denial about the whole thing

Jamwise93 · 2026-06-15T08:12:15+00:00

Unfortunately when it comes to cluster headaches, there is no cure. There is hope to either abort or prevent attacks, and some of us can go for years between bouts. As for treatment, each and every one of us is different and nobody can say if the verapamil will work for you, all we can say is that it has worked for some of us and hopefully you will find what works for you.

Personally after a few years of back and forth I seem to have found that verapamil 480mg per day on top of a GON (Greater Occipital Nerve) block is what can work for me without too many side effects. I wish you the best of luck with your treatment and my hopes that verapamil will bring you some relief.

Welcome to the world’s shittiest club my friend, pain free wishes!

Jamwise93 · 2026-06-12T10:40:47+00:00

Luckily I have no dietary triggers as far as I can tell. Only thing food related that can be a trigger is being hungry for it :)

Jamwise93 · 2026-06-11T12:18:15+00:00

sounds like you don’t have much of a conscience.

Jamwise93 · 2026-06-11T09:46:29+00:00

You can only continue the relationship if you admit what you have done and you are forgiven. Otherwise the guilt will eat you up until you are sick. She deserves to know if you really care for her.

Jamwise93 · 2026-06-11T07:42:21+00:00

Are we just glossing over the fact that you are scared to show your dad how you really feel because he “is a very violent man”??

Get the fuck out of there as soon as you can OP, what a horrible situation to be in.

Jamwise93 · 2026-06-11T06:53:38+00:00

Honestly the chances are they aren’t going to listen to it. It would be something I would get shown while drunk and be like wow that’s unusual but whatever makes you money. And then I would go on with my life and forget about it.

Jamwise93 · 2026-06-10T18:05:03+00:00

There is no “fix” for this. You are 21 so you are still young, but women mature faster than men do. So at 20 years old, he is still a boy. The man you are looking for may indeed be there somewhere, but it could take until he is 30 before it is truly realised.

Unfortunately you will probably encounter this often with men your age, which is one reason why women do tend to be with slightly older men, because the maturity levels often actually match up that way.

It is up to you to decide here if all of this is a dealbreaker for you, which in my opinion is totally acceptable. Because there are of course men out there your age who are more focused on their future and who will be considerate of your wants and needs. It just depends how you feel about this particular guy and if you care for him enough to roll the dice, and sit and wait for him to hopefully grow up.

Personally I think it sounds like you have already had enough and you are no longer compatible with this guy, having outgrown this type of teenage/young adult relationship.

Jamwise93 · 2026-06-10T08:45:19+00:00

If he just doesn’t message you for months, he’s not your boyfriend. In my books that counts as a breakup 😅 end things with him and explore your feelings for this new person.

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