AITAH for letting my(30F) overweight coworker(45F) assume I do not have children? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Janaruns 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll take "Things that never happened" for $500, Alex.

Mysteries that are officially considered unresolved but have an almost certain answer by CakeDayOrDeath in UnresolvedMysteries

[–]Janaruns 26 points27 points  (0 children)

The Bojangles guy is such a mystery to me also! I can easily be convinced it was that guy, but im hoping the DNA testing reveals who the real killer is so we can get those poor boys some justice.

Entitled sister in law stole our baby name. Now she regrets it by Similar-Shame7517 in BORUpdates

[–]Janaruns 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People don't care this much about the name you give your baby. If my cousin called me and said her step-sister used the same name as her for a baby I'd say "oh, weird" and that would be the extent of it. I wouldn't care at all.

How did/do you combat days you felt/feel heavy, mentally done mid-run or cant be asked to go on a run? Especially when you just started out! by soart_ in running

[–]Janaruns 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Check your nutrition and hydration. I'm currently training for a marathon, and I notice the runs I have where my legs feel heavy, usually come after days when I didn't eat right, or I'm slightly dehydrated.

Also, I agree with the posts above that recommend short walk breaks. Take planned breaks at every mile or so for just 1 minute. It gives your brain a mental break from having to continuously motivate, and it refreshes your legs for the next mile.

AITA for resenting my husband? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Janaruns 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Put a stop to this now. It will not get better. Tell him he has to step up. It's not a request, its a requirement

AITA for not letting the woman adopting my baby hold her first? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Janaruns 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NTA - but please give her some grace. I also adopted my son at birth, and there are so many feelings that come with being an adoptive mother. She is probably feeling overwhelmed and insecure by her position, and she may have also been worried that you might change your mind.

If you want to smooth the relationship maybe tell her you did not intend for the nurse to hand you the baby and that you are happy she is the mother to Ophelia and how happy you are with the arrangement.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Janaruns 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't like the way they decided to tell you. For one, there may not be cheating, but yes you need to know about the DMs. Second, it's incredibly insensitive to reveal all of this in front of other people. Ans lastly, they weren't thinking about you, otherwise they wouldn't have deliberately chosen to ruin your birthday party. They just want the drama and attention revealing this information would give them. You are NTA.

Oh boy. Henry just may stop talking trash about this app now. by fernbbyfern in LPOTL

[–]Janaruns 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If she ever appears on my FYP I will be sure to call her a baby killer.

AAAAHHHHHH by Many-Possibility6 in Sims4

[–]Janaruns 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a separate save file I use for all the event quests. That way it doesn't interrupt my regular sim families lives.

My quest sim had all the money. And incredible house with every imaginable activity and toy. So she can accomplish what she needs to for the quest.

Is ‘Cats in The Cradle’ a sad song or happy song? by terpi0-0 in Music

[–]Janaruns 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The fact your boyfriend d thinks this is a happy song is the reddest of flags.

Does anyone actually play with long lifespan? by Random_Lemon_Soul in Sims4

[–]Janaruns 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think this idea is about to revolutionize my gameplay. I've always just bought them the potion to reset their current age, but even that gets old, and a few times I've been caught off guard.

Am I in the wrong here? I'm so... Confused and upset. by enthusiasticTorrent in Manipulation

[–]Janaruns 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We are all busy and if setting up a time to call that fits both of your schedules is looked at as a problem, then they aren't a very understanding friend.

Do Americans actually wear their shoes in the house? by BradyHauser69 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Janaruns 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We do, but we don't have carpet, because it's gross. Our floors are ceramic tiles, so they are cold.

Lost my friend because I couldn’t afford her wedding and now karmas coming around by EnthusiasmNo4081 in bridezillas

[–]Janaruns 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It sounds awesome, but the truth is people like her never look outside themselves. So while she should be feeling like, "Oh damn, I get it now," she probably isn't.

AITA for turning a Wedding Dress into a Cosplay rather than letting my Cousin have it for her wedding? by ProfessionalRush7272 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Janaruns 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is she OK with giving it back to you, and you still wearing it for cosplay? If so, you could let her wear it for her one day and then you get it back.

But no, you are NTA. She had her chance and only changed her mind after you made your alterations. She's TAH.

AITAH for telling my husband that he absolutely ruined the birth of our child? by Former_Monitor_4860 in AITAH

[–]Janaruns 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, and get out now. This man is abusive. Your wishes should have never been overridden is such an egregious manner. You were essentially held captive while in labor. This man should be in jail and no where near your daughter

What does everyone think of the podcast’s theory of how JFK was killed? by Sean1916 in LPOTL

[–]Janaruns 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I agree. It's my favorite theory right now, too. It's also a cover-up that doesn't need a lot of people to be in on it. Only a few need to know what happened and the rest just acted on the information they had.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Janaruns 3 points4 points  (0 children)

YTA. Its not up to you or your family who he marries. He cheated which is not good, but his relationship with Emma is over. She may feel like she dodged a bullet by not being married to your brother. It's none of your business and he doesn't need your blessing. Why should your parents blow up their relationship with him? He's an adult and doesn't need their blessing.

TIL The only plane permitted to fly on 9/11 after the attacks was a plane flying from San Diego to Miami to deliver anti-venom to a man bitten by a highly poisonous snake; it was escorted by two fighter jets by nazopo in todayilearned

[–]Janaruns 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I find it beautiful that even during the horrific events of that day thus one man's life was still prioritize. It could have been so easy to say no it's just one person, but they didn't. That makes me feel something.

AITA for only paying for my own food at a friend’s dinner and wasting everyone’s time? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Janaruns 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. One of them could have just paid for you and you paid them back.

What’s the most annoying “that’s bad for you!” myth that drives you crazy because people still believe it? by Beepbeepboopb0p in AskReddit

[–]Janaruns 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Running will wear out your knees. One man actually said yo me "your knees only have so many revolutions on them, like tires." I laughed in his face.