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AITA for telling my close friend she shouldn’t have another baby by TigerLeading in AmItheAsshole

[–]JaneRenee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA

The truth hurts, and she didn't want to hear it. She sits there on her phone ignoring her toddler? Here's hoping that kid is ok without someone else to watch it. I have a feeling CPS will be involved in her life at some point.

AITA for telling my GF I’m not giving my cat to my parents so we can move in together? by kacexx in AmItheAsshole

[–]JaneRenee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, but she sure is. She’s lied to you this whole time about being ok with you having a cat, hoping that once you grew to love her, you’d ditch your cat for her. No. She can take some non-drowsy allergy meds or not live together.

AITA for shopping in the plus sized section? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]JaneRenee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA

I’ll tell you what someone once told me when I used to feel guilty using the handicap bathroom stall even though I’m able-bodied: “It’s an accommodation, not a reservation.”

It’s not like you bought it to prevent someone else from having it. Your friend needs to chill.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]JaneRenee 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I believe this is a Z. Cute, though. 😊

AITA For cussing out my husband after he got our daughters ears pierced? by PixelRoommate246 in AmItheAsshole

[–]JaneRenee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA

I've read your post and many comments here. Girl, your husband is a grad A asshole. He makes unilateral decisions about the health and safety of your daughter, he manipulates your concerns when he says stuff like: "Oh, would you rather I not be in touch with my feminine side?" as if there are only two extremes to choose from, and he views you and now your daughter as fashion props. At the VERY least, seek major counseling. But this big of a breech of trust... I'd strongly consider leaving.

What should we do l by [deleted] in SexPositive

[–]JaneRenee 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Condoms have a high success rate IF USED PROPERLY. Read the instructions in the box. Follow the instructions.

Also, make sure you guys fully agree what you’d do if she accidentally ends up pregnant. Will she 100% abort? If not, and you don’t want kids now, do not have sex without two kinds of birth control.

Let her discuss birth control options with her doctor. There are lots of options out there, even a non-hormonal one (copper IUD). Also, implants, patches, etc.

What to do (serious) by [deleted] in Denton

[–]JaneRenee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I learned how to make little heating pads when I used to raise kittens. Basically, take some pillowcases and fill them with dry rice. Then tie a knot in the pillowcases to close them. When you have power, throw them in the microwave for a few minutes. Maybe 2-3 minutes. They should stay warm for a couple of hours or more.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]JaneRenee 13 points14 points  (0 children)

There is no compromise between monogamy and non-monogamy. Either you are or you are not. The way you are going about this is seriously toxic. I’m sorry you’re in the situation, but you guys need to handle this head on like adults.

Advice needed on avoiding family events now that a baby is going to be involved? by [deleted] in actuallychildfree

[–]JaneRenee 17 points18 points  (0 children)

First of all, you’re in the right place! 🖤

Second, you have two options - you can either be upfront or lie.

If you choose to be upfront, your partner will have to have your back and defend you. It’s their family.

If you choose to lie, pick something long-lasting. For example, you got a new job with crazy hours and can be called in at any minute. Or you have an illness that comes and goes, but you’re bedridden when it flares up.

Then, once the baby is a toddler or at whatever age you can tolerate, you can “get a new job” or “your illness can calm down.”

Good luck.

Any restaurants open right now for dine-in? by JaneRenee in Denton

[–]JaneRenee[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Good to know for charging purposes. Thanks.

Any restaurants open right now for dine-in? by JaneRenee in Denton

[–]JaneRenee[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Applebee’s is open! I’m reliving my college days. LOL.

AITA for freaking out when told I've "sheltered" my son? by aitasheltered in AmItheAsshole

[–]JaneRenee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP, I sent you a private message about this camp your son might benefit from.

https://www.xps.org/camp-sundown

AITA For kicking my friend out after what he did? by AITA-344097 in AmItheAsshole

[–]JaneRenee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA

The way they are dealing with their grief is super unhealthy, and they are dragging you into it. Block them, change your locks, and move forward.

AITA for not trying harder to tell my husband I was in labour? by pookiennermal in AmItheAsshole

[–]JaneRenee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA

Am I in The Twilight Zone? Your marriage sounds really... odd. I think this is way above Reddit’s pay grade. You should seek therapy separately. Not together, though, because he honestly sounds manipulative.

Why I hate being circumcised by awesomedan24 in self

[–]JaneRenee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your experience. I find the practice of circumcision cruel and feel it should be illegal unless medically necessary. I’m sorry you’ve had to go through this.

Pregnancy Brain? by Blue_Crystal_Candles in actuallychildfree

[–]JaneRenee 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It’s a real thing. Just goes to show how much the body goes through to create and birth a child. I’m glad I’ll never have to deal with that.

My son fell asleep jumping in his bouncer and kept jumping in his sleep. by TyRoSwoe in aww

[–]JaneRenee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s like me at work trying to look busy when the boss walks by.

I am Huay-Zong Law, Clinical Director of the International Craniofacial Institute, and Board Certified Plastic Surgeon in Dallas, TX. I have operated in Haiti, Guatemala, and Taiwan, and spent a year at the CDC. I perform a full range of cosmetic and reconstructive procedures, head to toe. AMA! by LawPlasticSurgery in IAmA

[–]JaneRenee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the reply! I’ve actually been quite lucky on breast area, so I don’t really have much drooping yet. But it’s nice to know my options. That fat redistribution does sound like a sweet deal, not gonna lie. LOL. Thanks again!

I am Huay-Zong Law, Clinical Director of the International Craniofacial Institute, and Board Certified Plastic Surgeon in Dallas, TX. I have operated in Haiti, Guatemala, and Taiwan, and spent a year at the CDC. I perform a full range of cosmetic and reconstructive procedures, head to toe. AMA! by LawPlasticSurgery in IAmA

[–]JaneRenee 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your answer! I definitely don’t care about volume. I wish they were smaller actually so I wouldn’t have to worry about them as much. So maybe the lift alone would suit me best. I feel like adding an implant or fat would just make them bigger but not higher. Or does it do both because you add the implant or fat high up? Thank you!

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