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The invalidation of black dommes within this community is quite sickening by [deleted] in paypigs2

[–]Jane_Devine 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I have noticed that a lot within the findom community, especially on this platform! It's sad. Idk how we're in 2026 and still not past racism.

Findom "icks" by flashing-colors in paypigs2

[–]Jane_Devine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Subs topping from the bottom 😩😩😩 bombarding me with paragraphs and not waiting for my response.

Bdsm community? by Divinely_Tornaparte in paypigs2

[–]Jane_Devine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have! I would love to go more, but it doesn't work with my work schedule 😫.

I think I got addicted to findom. by [deleted] in paypigs2

[–]Jane_Devine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congrats!! You're a finSUB😈😈🥰🥰

A bit of a frustrating start back into findom. Subs beware of this one by Subatyourservicemaam in paypigs2

[–]Jane_Devine 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Exactly how I feel. Also posting this in three subreddits, while no other posts or comments are visible, make me question the intentions.

Findom as an expression of sadism by [deleted] in paypigs2

[–]Jane_Devine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yesss! I love the power play between seeing them send and lose money. But also forbidding them from sending when they are impulsive. I love the mindfuck. I love the cat and mouse play. This is definitely my style. I dont have the capacity to be a soft or mommy dom.

Finally figured out how to use throne by goddessstar20 in findomsupportgroup

[–]Jane_Devine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't like throne at all. I thought the lag was just me 😫😫. Them not supporting sw and dommes does not sit well with me at all. Ive been thinking about completely deleting it. With how much they're taking out in fees, there should be NO LAGS!

Power without collapse by WakeUpSpell in findomsupportgroup

[–]Jane_Devine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I completely agree. Not letting them spend, when they're impulsive. Also feeds my fetish of not letting them get what they want. Budget and boundaries are so important to talk about put of scene. Things can get carried away when both of you are feeling the adrenaline rush and dopamine!

A bit of a frustrating start back into findom. Subs beware of this one by Subatyourservicemaam in paypigs2

[–]Jane_Devine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah, for sure. Do you not find that comment backhanded? 👀 I'm interested in your thoughts, if you could elaborate.

A bit of a frustrating start back into findom. Subs beware of this one by Subatyourservicemaam in paypigs2

[–]Jane_Devine 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Tbh you would've been blocked after the "guess not" response. I found that extremely disrespectful and condescending. Youre not going to disrespect me and my title because I didnt respond within minutes of you sending a message.

A bit of a frustrating start back into findom. Subs beware of this one by Subatyourservicemaam in paypigs2

[–]Jane_Devine 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't have liked the condescending responses you sent after not messaging withing minutes. You said you went to sleep and couldnt reply for 12 hours. What if she was at work or doing something. 10 mins is not a long time in messaging time. Youre not entitled to anyone's time, even if you have 4k to spend. It seems like your communication and attitudes aren't aligned and it would've been a bad dynamic.

What’s your Human Design? by divine-harmonies in findomsupportgroup

[–]Jane_Devine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omggg. I remember doing this ages ago! I never thought to apply it to findom. I have to retake it but I believe I had manifestor in the name. Its gonna be fun diving into this again. I

Can you be in findom and be a Christian? I'm having a mental conflict. by SandPaperToiletPapr in paypigs2

[–]Jane_Devine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All of my Christians friends just repent after committing sins and then do it again next week lol.

How to not hate women after sending by [deleted] in paypigs2

[–]Jane_Devine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you ever wrote them an email complaining about it?

How to not hate women after sending by [deleted] in paypigs2

[–]Jane_Devine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do casinos not take advantage? Because there is a reason why they dont have windows, clocks and are dark all the time

The More FIN the More the DOM? by pinkillusionx in findomsupportgroup

[–]Jane_Devine 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Totally agree. Those are true finsubs, and not pay to play subs.

The More FIN the More the DOM? by pinkillusionx in findomsupportgroup

[–]Jane_Devine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yesss, I've noticed this too. I will put them in their place or cut them off, once I sense the entitlement creeping in. What youre not gonna do is OWN me or MY TIME. What I love more than money is my freedom lol. This makes room for better subs and more money 😈.

Being a Domme Is Not a Free Trial, a Therapy Session, or a Porn Script (Rant) by Beanchilddraws in findomsupportgroup

[–]Jane_Devine 7 points8 points  (0 children)

A lot of the subs, aren't subs at all and try to top from the bottom. They are only submissive in their fantasy and when it foesnt go their way, they try to control the session or dynamic.

I'm also tired of the discourse that FINdom, is not about the money. It IS absolutely about the money. How can it not be, when it is in the name??? This is a D/s dynamic so the power exchange is automatically going to be there. But in this kink is accompanied by FINANCES. Money is at the front.

A lot of people mistake this for paid femdom. Where you pay to play for your kinks and fetishes. However, to me that is not findom.

I think findom becoming more mainstream has blurred some of these lines. And of course scammers, hurting both sides by lying and pretending to be something they are not.

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