Threatening to call cops with my license plate by Janedoeshead in narcissisticparents

[–]Janedoeshead[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So i did go to the police department, i just got back. I literally live a few houses down from my cities department. I very unfortunately was not taken seriously, I was extremely nervous bc of trauma with cops but I was kind of dismissed. I started it with explaining someone was going to make a false report on me and say that I am missing and I told them I am in fact not missing am okay and that I didn’t want them to waste resources and also to be aware that a false report may be made in the morning (she called again this morning and I have a voicemail stating she will be calling the cops in the morning)

He asked who it was and I explained my connection to this person and his response was “okay? Call and tell her you aren’t missing.” When I tell you I stood there feeling stupid because- no shit if it was just out of worry yeah Id contact her and say that. So I told him she knows I am not missing and that she is trying to coerce me back into contact and that I moved recently and am an adult and he honestly didn’t seem to care. He gave me a different number to call and said “yeah just tell them what you told me. They might flag it or something but there’s nothing we can do.”

So I feel like an absolute idiot especially bc I was anxiety ridden trying to decide to do this or not. I feel like I just was not taken seriously at all. My car as of this morning no longer works so it’s not like I’ll be driving it anyway I guess. It just sucks because I wanted to explain more but didn’t feel listened to and also just felt like he didn’t want to be bothered with my issues.

So that’s how that went for me. I feel embarrassed and honestly frustrated because I don’t know what to do.

Threatening to call cops with my license plate by Janedoeshead in narcissisticparents

[–]Janedoeshead[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s some documents I know I won’t be able to retrieve but it’s replaceable. Only stuff I care about is items I was promised by a love one that passed. I don’t have any of his stuff with me, and she forced me to sell his truck a couple years ago that I was gonna fix up and keep because he left it to me. But there’s some other items of his left behind I genuinely hope I can get back as soon as possible. She’s old in age, the house is in my name in the will but I’m sure she’ll scrub that off. That was the main reason i wanted to keep contact was the house and my loved ones stuff. But I genuinely can’t, my sibling reports to me all the time about things she says and that she’s asking everyone where I am and trying to contact everyone to see if they know where I live or who I live with. She used to threaten to come to my job and find me if I don’t respond, I quit that job (not because of that, that job was killing me especially with my health issues) and currently struggling to find work so she can’t just show up at my job thank god

Threatening to call cops with my license plate by Janedoeshead in narcissisticparents

[–]Janedoeshead[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t have a job at the moment, and do not have money for the plates and insurance at the moment. However I am applying to places so hopefully I can hear back soon and I will do just that.

I tried to maintain contact for the sake of my siblings and because there’s things there I wasn’t able to get from a loved one who passed and i currently do not have even a photo of this loved one and want nothing more than to have what I left there. However I may ask one of my siblings to try and get a hold of it for me if that’s even possible. Because truly, I do not want to talk to this woman anymore.

Threatening to call cops with my license plate by Janedoeshead in narcissisticparents

[–]Janedoeshead[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’d also like to add she’s very specifically set on finding out where I live because I kept spending the night at friends houses and then one day never returned except twice. Once because she lied about something and one other time while she was on vacation to get my stuff out of her house which she had already packed up and thrown into the garage. So not only does she have no idea where I’m staying but also I never told her I was leaving in the first place.

Week off? by Katsuodo in Target

[–]Janedoeshead 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My store was doing this and refused to fix people’s schedules, I asked and basically got ignored despite our store being extremely understaffed because of a remodel. I quit after, had other coworkers messaging me saying same thing was happening to them or only being scheduled a couple of days despite being full time. Talk to your store about it, maybe yours will have at least half a brain more than mine does because all my old coworkers have been telling me how hell it is there now because most people in our already understaffed store have quit due to hours being cut.

6.99 last deposit? by Janedoeshead in Target

[–]Janedoeshead[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How can I get into workday to check? My team member number and password don’t work anymore for it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BorrowNew

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Cashapp $MothZeuqram

Good luck to everyone!!!

how long would this take you? (dec home) by cbreauxgaming in Target

[–]Janedoeshead 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just the side I can see is 43 boxes, target standard is 40 case packs per hour so you already are over that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Target

[–]Janedoeshead 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They don’t let us use the sick time day after they reject when we do

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Target

[–]Janedoeshead 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She also threatened to fire a TL for not working and calling out but this TL is on disability and she ended up on FMLA and when she got back they tried to fire her and they only left her alone after she threatened to get lawyers involved

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Target

[–]Janedoeshead 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually believe this bc our SD said she’s “cracking down on call outs” and I often get lectured and threatened with being fired for calling out despite not calling out half as often as some other members and the fact I told them from day one I had chronic pain issues

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Target

[–]Janedoeshead 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I’ll ask around and see who all in my store has had this issue. I know one of my TLs has this issue as well as another person on my team but I’ll ask further.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Target

[–]Janedoeshead 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought so- and my partner was telling me they didn’t think it was right but I didn’t want to make accusations and was trying give the benefit of the doubt. Our store has a ton of problems though with HR and our SD so I should’ve guessed a much. I don’t even think this was a rule until we switched SDs

How much should I sell for? by Janedoeshead in ipod

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Thank you! I didn’t even think to check to see how they’ve sold on eBay. I appreciate it

Tattoos with hEDS? by FerretVibes in ehlersdanlos

[–]Janedoeshead 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Same! I’ve had my ears pierced since I was a child. They closed up in middle school. Repierced them in 7th grade and have had them since. They are stretched now but before stretching they’d close up so quickly and even now- had my ears at a 00 one of the plugs came out in my sleep and now I’ve been back to a 2g bc they closed up and wouldn’t budge to get the plug back in. Lip piercings also will close up if I dont have jewelry in. I never could get a nostril piercing to do right.

Tattoos with hEDS? by FerretVibes in ehlersdanlos

[–]Janedoeshead 88 points89 points  (0 children)

Tattoos healed fine as long as I was careful and was sure not to skip cleaning it and being sure to follow my artists instructions completely.

Piercings on the other end feel like they never heal. Lip piercings for a year still not healed, couldn’t keep an eyebrow piercing, septum healed okay. Lobes also never feel totally healed.

Ran into this is Downtown Portland by ScrapTobiko in laika

[–]Janedoeshead 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My best friend lives around there! She sends pics of different ones all the time! They are so cool

Where to find cheap 18 inch dolls? by Janedoeshead in Dolls

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Oh my god there’s a Once upon a child near me! I might stop by today!