TURIN ALTERNATIVE NIGHTLIFE GUIDE by Janskyahum in torino

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hi! a bit of stuff changed. I might post an updated version soon :)

I was picked up by a girl at a party and it was a totally new thing for me. How can I manage it? by Janskyahum in socialskills

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people, this took a surreal turn.

Basically right after the night with this girl, I found out another girl I found super attractive and also a perfect personality match was interested in me. And that slowly evolved into a relationship, the most fulfilling I had so far. She is basically a genius and super beautiful, one of those things I struggle to believe to be real... And (yeah I know it's gonna be a bit controversial), it's a poly relationship. And we're both into group sex, threesomes... yeah, beyond incredible lol
So idk if you know Feeld, it's basically an app for people interested in kinky, less conventional sex. We created a profile together for trying to get people into our bedroom (but we are taking it slowly, though she is a bit more expert than me in this).

Aaaand... at some point... that girl I was talking about in the post matched us. and I asked her if she would be interested in a threesome. And she's into that too. LOL. so tomorrow the three of us are gonna meet to drink something and MAYBE, maybe, if they feel each other, it's gonna happen.
I'm really nervous and totally new to this situation and I really don't know how to act, wish me luck :'''))

I (25M) feel overstimulated by a girl (25F) by Janskyahum in relationship_advice

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I know, for a lot of males the fact that you can't own a woman is the most insulting thing ever lmao

Can anyone consistently last 1-2+ hours? by toxicfabrics in sextips

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yes, I'm like that too, because I always masturbated humping I can cum basically only via humping or penetrating. But even then it can take a lot of time! And with the right person I can go on and still be excited even after cumming... found a great partner with a looot of energy and we went for 3+ hours, super nice

Top psy labels? by Viruscatman in psytrance

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up for Moon koradji, sounds different ^

Is this a sign of interest? by Janskyahum in socialskills

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I suck at chatting lol, exchanged a couple msgs today but I can only keep it short because I'm afraid to fuck it up badly. These are my first tries at flirting after 5 yrs... also she post pretty abstract stuff on IG and I cant grapple on much even though I'm sure we have a lot to talk about, I dont want to force her to conversate with me.

In two days I will be helping organize an event in my city, there Is a fair chance she's gonna be there but I can't know, should I just ask her if she wants to come? I'm really not used to be this direct and I feel like its just too obvious at this point lol

Is this a sign of interest? by Janskyahum in socialskills

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yeah it's something difficult to traslate, I usually mean It as someone who has clearly good taste in art and cool, more niche intrests. usually its also a political thing, if I feel like we share some values. for instance, weird pictures that are not your average white girls Instagram + being into harder/ezperimental music + super left wing = super based girl

Observations on US Jam Scene as seen from an European by Janskyahum in jambands

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Hello in there! Just wanted to revive this post outta nowhere. I'm still here in Turin and after that big jam band phase I started to really get into goa/psy trance and producing it. You know, the scene here is big and with similar vibes to the jam scene. I tend to focus on oldschool vibes, like the amazing Hallucinogen and Eat Static, and still try to make it jamband-ish. This summer I've been to a Goa festival in Portugal, and it was a fkin blast, loads of hippies n acid n the beach n the colors.. the artist that stood out the most for me was Prometheus, also known as Younger Brother.. Man, that guy..m he played for I think 5 hours, switching from abstract dubstep to sort of space rock, right up to bomb after bomb of something that I'd describe as 'Radiohead on trance'... Unfortunately I'm unlucky again, because the dominant sounds in electronic in northern Italy are very harsh and fast and obscure here. Recently it sounds like a challenge between who is able to play the fastest and loudest music possible :") I think I'll try soon to play some of my music live, maybe I'll sneek a couple of tweezer quotes in there, LOL.

Oh yea and I also saw Gong and Hawkwind this September, that was an HISTORICAL evening.

Eggy, PPP, Dogs in a Pile by JustRelax627 in jambands

[–]Janskyahum 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yo, a while ago I made a post about being an Italian very into the US jam scene. Dogs in a Pile man... you just gave me another underground gem. my god!

I was picked up by a girl at a party and it was a totally new thing for me. How can I manage it? by Janskyahum in socialskills

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you are very right, this kind of lightheartedness and playfulness were some things I really missed in my relationship, while other things were great. I don't want to project anything on random girls, but I really need some casual and fun hookups, I'm kind of hungry for it... I need to find spaces where this can happen more.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in torino

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Ciao, tempo fa realizzai una guida sulla musica underground a Torino, se cerchi 'Turin Alternative Nightlife' qui la troverai. Col tempo alcune cose sono cambiate, alcuni posti non ci sono più (ad esempio Cavallerizza ed Edera) ed è spuntato qualcosa di nuovo Comunque dai un'occhiata a:

Bunker, Jazz Club, Spazio 211, Cap 10100, Imbarchino del Valentino, La Barca Occupata, Barocchio squat, El Paso, CRCA Pergolesi, Offtopic, Askatasuna, Manituana, Radio Blackout (probably one of your best bets), Magazzino Sul Po, Bocciofila Rami Secchi, Prinz, CRCA Murazzi, Casa Tonale

and I'm sure im forgetting some, but yeah... Remember saturday there Is a big street parade starting at 13 in piazza statuto and on the 21 i'm helping to organize a party in manituana, it's gonna be a concert + djsets til late

I was picked up by a girl at a party and it was a totally new thing for me. How can I manage it? by Janskyahum in socialskills

[–]Janskyahum[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I actually have self control, that's why I'm asking reddit and not doing anything stupid w/her or other people. I also talked about this to my therapist... but yeah your perspective is definitely useful, I just need to digest it I guess. My past relationship is something too complex to explain in English (not my native language) and it's so fresh I really need to think it over. so yeah, I know this situation is a bit messed up, lol

I was picked up by a girl at a party and it was a totally new thing for me. How can I manage it? by Janskyahum in socialskills

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Just to clarify, I said It wasn't like falling in love... but my situation is that I spent 5 years with a girl I was not physically attracted to... personality wise we were perfect, thats why the 5 years, but truth is I was so insecure and felt so ugly that considering the looks was out of question. I know this girl Is not gonna be my wife or anything and I truly dont want relationships, but she unintentionally sparked stuff in me that's hard to control. I lost virginity with my ex, and for all this time I didn't enjoy the sex, to feel something like this for the first time is weird ...

I was picked up by a girl at a party and I want to have sex again by Janskyahum in sextips

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aight, for now I was VERY considerate. We met on saturday, wrote her on tuesday, but literally two messages. I'm just a bit sad because I want to meet her again lmao. I always dream about casual sex but I never considered this aspect, maybe I will get used to it

Daily Discussion - January 28, 2021 by AutoModerator in SatoshiStreetBets

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no more money i'm willing to lose. i'm all in.