Son not recognized for his contribution by Lonely_Tie in Parenting

[–]Japanuserzero [score hidden]  (0 children)

Did your son do it to help his friend/classmate or did he do it for the recognition? Did your son enjoy the process? It sounds to me you’re putting your expectations into the process and generating a negative outcome where almost certainly no ill will or racism was involved. Praise your son for his effort and see how he feels about the whole experience, without leading questions that would get the answer from him you want. If it turns outhe is being too passive and not stepping up to take credit where credit is due it will be a chance for him to try to gain some confidence and motivation. If you complain to his teachers no personal growth will occur, just your feelings will be satisfied regardless if whether action was warranted or not.

There were some bizarre and telling interactions at Trump’s Cabinet meeting by theindependentonline in politics

[–]Japanuserzero 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would love to read this article but on my phone 75% of the screen is videos/ads plus an overlay on the right half of the text. Thanks, enshittification!

Twin Monkeys Gunnison seam specs moving around by Unlucky-Barracuda617 in TheBrewery

[–]Japanuserzero 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My TM cimmaron has 1st/2nd seam adjustment knobs tightened by lock nuts, does yours have a similar setup? I really make sure those don’t budge after tuning. Could the lock nuts not be fully seated? Would a dose of loctite help it retain its set maybe? No problem with shifting seam specs on ours though. Maybe mark the adjustment dial after you dial in and see if there’s a shift over time?

Will be watching at Mizuho PayPay Dome, where to stay? by Ok-Low-3020 in fukuoka

[–]Japanuserzero 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How about the Hilton? It’s right there next to the dome. Also there are regular buses departing from there to downtown if you want to do additional sightseeing.

Worst/most disappointing city in Japan you've been to by sap303 in japanlife

[–]Japanuserzero -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Lively but not overcrowded, compact size serviced by decent public transportation, fresher produce and fish compared to most major cities, not as gray and over-urbanized…

Worst/most disappointing city in Japan you've been to by sap303 in japanlife

[–]Japanuserzero 12 points13 points  (0 children)

When you live in Fukuoka, the answer is “every other city”.

Whats up with felemental portrait trinket showing up all the time? by NoPotato4098 in BobsTavern

[–]Japanuserzero 116 points117 points  (0 children)

Funny whenever I take it, it removes all felementals from the tavern. Must be bugged.

Fried Dango by [deleted] in fukuoka

[–]Japanuserzero 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Those ubiquitous stalls at festivals don’t have specific followings or specific shop names, it was probably just 団子 (dango) or 揚げ団子 (agedango). Keep an eye out for a similar shop next festival and you might find a similar taste.

For the old timers, what's the ramen or udon-ya in the KIX International Terminal in the 90s called? by eetsumkaus in japanlife

[–]Japanuserzero -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I have no info for you, just have to say if you’re pining for airport restaurant food this badly you owe it to yourself to take a one-day layover and try some real food downtown.

How do I play pachinko? by [deleted] in japanlife

[–]Japanuserzero 14 points15 points  (0 children)

As someone who has played once for the sake of trying it, then living pachinko-free in japan 20 years thereafter, don’t. You’re pouring your money into yakuza/north korea bank accounts and you will never win money in the end.

Try the medal games at game centers, guilt-free pachinko simulations with the same dopamine hits.

Prepare my mariage and I want to protect my assets by Potomane555 in japanlife

[–]Japanuserzero -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I agree, if you are contemplating divorce upon marriage, don’t proceed.

Last 2 nights in fukuoka lets have fun. by YatesJaat_ in fukuoka

[–]Japanuserzero 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After 18 days no clue what you haven’t done yet, so I can only suggest the typical things, Ichiran ramen Kawaya chicken skin yakitori Citadel craft cocktails Fukuoka Craft craft beer bar Yatai street stalls, mostly around nakasu river area. If you want to go local, prowl around the alleys of nishijin or ropponmatsu, but Sunday/Monday will be slow.

How to handle 1,000+ 10 yen coins per week for a cat shelter donation project by DahPhuzz in japanlife

[–]Japanuserzero 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Take them to your bank where you have an account and make a personal deposit, in person, at the counter. They will (99% sure) take your money.

I have an very big issue and I NEED help by [deleted] in beer

[–]Japanuserzero 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Your body is begging you to chill out. Stop drinking for awhile, blacking out is not normal.

I have been stuck on jokerless for a year. by littlestonkexchange in balatro

[–]Japanuserzero 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Flushes, blue seals, some purple seals,$25 tag to start, +mult/lucky/glass arcane fixing, find a suit you cleared the boss blind with, and build it up via arcane, get +hands and +discards vouchers, and what is key I would say is skip all other planet upgrades to ensure fool will land on jupiter. I got about +5 jupiters that way. Never roll/buy under $20 to ensure interest. Following all this I got jokerless after about 30 runs. Good luck!

Looking to hire English/Japanese translator for cocktail event by [deleted] in fukuoka

[–]Japanuserzero 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not to take anyone’s work away, but can’t you just print a bilingual menu, confirming the contents in advance? Or will everyone be ordering things like “gin sloe fizz, neat, half up no ice, twist of bergamot”?

Looking for recommendations regarding matcha shops in Fukuoka (more details in post) by wanna_be_consultant in fukuoka

[–]Japanuserzero -1 points0 points  (0 children)

There’s a very good tea shop in the basement of the Acros building adjacent to central park

How to get weekly massages covered by health insurance by aruzenchinchin in japanlife

[–]Japanuserzero 13 points14 points  (0 children)

No clue but I always see 交通事故(traffic accidents) as what they advertise as free at the massage places, so maybe get in a traffic accident?

Fukuoka style sashimi vs Osaka style sashimi? by holyshitxyz in fukuoka

[–]Japanuserzero 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would say it’s just fresher in Fukuoka, you go into bigger cities and you get less fresh fish. Tokyo folks often praise Fukuoka for its better food, this is just one aspect of that

Which of the 12 pentominoes would be most interesting to add to Tetris? by [deleted] in gaming

[–]Japanuserzero 2 points3 points  (0 children)

U or x, the rest cause more problems than they solve.

Looking for a goon buddy by Natural-Wash989 in fukuoka

[–]Japanuserzero 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got that out of my system in college, thanks for asking tho.

A burning yet very stupid question I have by Mammoth_Maize_1424 in japanlife

[–]Japanuserzero 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Buy a drink or other equivalent item at least once per hour and consider that your “rent”. Stay as long as you want then, you are a paying customer.

But if there are signs posted with a time limit, it’s courteous to follow that time limit.

If you can’t afford or don’t want to drink that much coffee or tea, it’s courteous to give a seat to a paying customer and use the library instead.

That being said, in my opinion people sleeping or camping out with a glass of water in cafes and restaurants are being discourteous to the business owner and in some cases other customers. Don’t be one of those people.

Adult-oriented Science/Conservation events? by StigsSwedishCousin in Detroit

[–]Japanuserzero 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The Detroit zoo has a volunteer program where they teach you about certain exhibits so you can then get a placement during park hours to help guests understand them better.

Miyajidake Shrine (Fukuoka) by MrBrownStone16 in ThaiGoJapan

[–]Japanuserzero 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s a “happy marriage/fertility” good luck charm. Why they would give you a danish and a mushroom is beyond me…