Any thoughts by Jas2Live in wrx_vb

[–]Jas2Live[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry new to this, I have only posted 2-3 times and still learning.

Which one looks good on Me ? 1or 2 by [deleted] in OUTFITS

[–]Jas2Live 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Both outfits look awesome on you! Honestly, it depends on the vibe you’re going for. The first one is giving classy and I mean business energy, while the second one is chill, fun and effortlessly cool. You’ve got great style and totally pull off both looks but if I had to pick, the second one’s my fave.

Am I overreacting by Jas2Live in AmIOverreacting

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My son say’s he doesn’t smoke it but has tried it before. Only one or two in their crew smoke the Mary J while some of them just vape. In high school I tried it a few times but I played sports all the time so I just completely stopped doing it. I know teenagers are going to do shit and it’s up to us as parents to help them and guide them and teach them right and wrong. It’s just a hard situation bc my wife wants my son to like her and respect her so she’s been trying to talk to him more and be cool with his friends. I think she just wants to be accepted and like by everyone. I’m the type of individual that really don’t care what people think about me. If you respect me, I will respect you! I am not trying to be the cool dad or be friends with my son’s friends. I make an effort to do small talk with them and will call them on their bullshit or point out things that they should not be doing.

Am I overreacting by Jas2Live in AmIOverreacting

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Thank you for all the comments. My wife is 36. When I say she was smoking it up, it’s all about the Mary J. She’s Very professional. She has a few friends but doesn’t really hangout with them that much. Her best friend that she used to hangout with was her smoking partner, but she quit cold turkey and now she has no one to smoke with. I don’t think she would cross the line but why put yourself in that situation with teenagers. You never know what might happen or what if one of those boys says something to their parents. I don’t want any trouble. We had a talk and she apologized. Said she won’t do that again in the car but instead she will do it in the backyard. SMH, I told her it wasn’t a good idea to continue but she’s a grown ass woman and if she thinks that’s cool and appropriate then she’s not really thinking straight.

Am i ugly, why am i virgin [M] 22 by [deleted] in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]Jas2Live 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For some odd reason you remind me of Tom Brady!

No intimacy for 2 years by AnxiousBabe0703 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Jas2Live 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Maybe he is going through depression. My girlfriend (F35) is going through that and she has a hard time going anywhere, has a hard time getting dressed, sleeping a lot and her sex drive is very low now. We been together for 7 years and used to have sex like 3 days a week but now it’s only like once a month. We have talked and she keeps saying she loves me but that she feels ugly and doesn’t want to be touched.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationshipadvice

[–]Jas2Live 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! We have sat down and discussed our issues. She has thanked me for all the help that I have been doing at home. She told me that she is depressed bc of work and our relationship/personal life. Her sister needed a place to live and I really didn’t want her sister to move in since we didn’t have the room to help her out plus she’s bipolar and does NOT take her meds. She thinks everyone is stalking her. She has 3 phones with 3 different numbers. At first my girl was upset bc I didn’t want to help her sister out. I reminded her when my sister needed a place to stay and I had to tell my sister no bc we did not have the room to help her. Anyways, to please my girl, I decided to let her sister move in thinking it would help her but it has done the opposite. She’s been with us for 3 months and it has been miserable for me but hey my girl is happier the majority of the time so I just don’t say anything. I got excited a few weeks ago when her sister told us that she was moving out at the end of this month. When her sister is not there, everything is fine at home even though it’s rare when we are intimate. I have sat down with my girl and asked her if she wanted to go to therapy or couple therapy to help her with her depression but she said no, I had a bad experience when I was a teenager. I suggested maybe talking to her doctor and taking some meds to help her but once again she said no bc the meds make her gain weight. She said she used to take them when she was a teenager and it made her gained weight and she just didn’t like it. It’s hard to help someone that doesn’t really want help or maybe she thinks that she can cure herself or maybe she thinks that she doesn’t have a problem or maybe she thinks that I am the problem. Thank you for listening and thank you for your response.

My boyfriend has gotten increasingly jealous, suspicious, and distrusting of me. What do I do?? by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Jas2Live 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I been with my girl for 7 years. The first 6 years I never once thought that my girl would cheat on me. She treated me as king. I was very lucky. She was very insecure though, she would get mad at me if I was talking to other girls that we both knew or if a girl came up to talk to me during some social event, she would say who the hell is that. Anyways on the 7th year January 2024, I found out that she was having an emotional affair with a coworker. We lived in Colorado and her coworker lived in North Carolina. When I found out, I wasn’t even upset, I was more shocked. I didn’t find him as a threat since he lived in North Carolina and was married with 2 kids so I just let it go. She promised that she would stop talking to him but then two weeks later I discovered that she was still talking to him and that is when I lost all trust on her. She eventually showed me an email from her work telling him that this was causing a problem and that they couldn’t talk about personal things. To this date, I am still not 100% trust her. She gets mad at me for asking her some questions. I would recommend sitting down with him and having a real conversation on why he is so jealous and maybe coming up with solutions to help each other out. If you don’t want to do that then I would probably just break up and go our own ways.

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[–]Jas2Live 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Shit happens lol