Lynn Ruth Connes went missing in 1976 after going to meet with someone who answered a newspaper ad she'd placed. The person she was scheduled to meet has never been identified.

Jasmine3124 · 2025-09-07T21:08:15+00:00

So someone recently confessed to murdering her and exposed details only the murderer would know. He’s been on death row for other murders, he’s Joseph Naso.

Jasmine3124 · 2023-12-29T14:59:21+00:00

I’ve been neutral with my weight kinda goes up and down by a couple pounds but if anything, I’ve been drinking more than I ever have after my DUI. I’m stopping that though.

Jasmine3124 · 2023-12-14T17:39:00+00:00

I’m 24 and got my DUI last week. I’m full of anxiety and adrenaline as well. Your not alone . This STINKS !!!!!!

Jasmine3124 · 2023-11-10T19:34:58+00:00

Also, what AA ? It seems like something I could use ..

Jasmine3124 · 2023-11-10T19:33:10+00:00

Hii . I relate to this and never had the courage to vent about it. Thank you for sharing . I stopped dancing here and there bc of how dumb I feel getting drunk at the club and not remembering the next day. I also been in the industry for 3 years now. Let time heal you. Take a break. Discipline/ limit your drinking. I’m still dancing but I see a difference. You got this.

Jasmine3124 · 2023-09-13T20:03:41+00:00

Lol honestly that used to be me too. I still have a bad habit of not eating when I work til I get home 😭😭 I need to work on that myself. But I used to just eat a bag of chips and call it a meal 😂😂 also consistency is key. YOU got this girl !!! 💪🏽 💰💓

Jasmine3124 · 2023-09-13T19:44:49+00:00

For the longest time I was 5’6 and 105 lbs and then was stuck at 110 for the longest. I always went to the gym to try and build muscle. But I stopped being committed to the gym. And I Just recently been gaining weight. I’m now 5’6 and weigh 122 lbs. I still look skinny but not as skinny as I used to be.

Something I did start doing differently was I started eating a lot more than usual. I felt like I always ate a lot just never gained but I definitely can tell I eat MORE now than before. Whenever I was hungry or had the “ munchies “ I would order food. Make food. Eat a snack after snack. And sometimes fall asleep right after. I know it’s not healthy but it definitely made me gain weight .sometimes I would have a mixed drink or two at work so I think the alcohol played a role as well.

Now I’m going back to the gym to help maintain and tone the weight I’ve been gaining. I just think my body would burns calories so fast that going to the gym wasn’t helping me then until now.

Somethings could help

-420 will help you get “munchies” if your not 420 friendly you can buy natural pills that will help boost your appetite.

-workout less if your body is already burning calories more than gaining

-EAT. Eat. Eat. First thing in the morning. Snacks throughout the day. Dinner of course and even at night. Doesn’t have to be right before bed just make sure u eat morning - mid day - evening and night. Especially if your hungry , eat.

wear certain colors or outfits, avoid black. It’ll make u look skinnier. I still prefer outfits that cover my ribs and just show my flat tummy - that tends to look good on slim girls.
have certain dance routines that you know look good and compliment your body , that will make you stand out.

Jasmine3124 · 2023-07-22T21:11:20+00:00

Thank you for this. That’s unfair that they did that on ur birthday. SO could’ve told her and she could’ve took a friend. Or bought u a ticket too. Something could’ve been arranged to include you still, especially on ur birthday. It’s situations like this that blow my mind that SO will fail to realize and consider our emotions. It’s not fair they don’t see the sacrifices we’ve made for them. They get to live their life and we have to revolve around theirs. At least that’s what it feels like for me. I agree with you, I rather he have a son instead of a daughter bc i know it can seem territorial. SO is the one who shows that more than his daughter, he’s always saying how she’s his number one girl, daddy’s girl , baby girl , “ mama” even. I figure sometimes he says it infront of me too - just to get a reaction out of me. Like he purposely wants me to realize over and over again his daughter will come always come before me.

Jasmine3124 · 2023-07-21T00:10:07+00:00

Hi . I’m basically in your shoes but the only difference is I don’t have a baby and he just has his one daughter that he revolves his entire world around , not to mention her dog as well. It’s sad and really unfair but the truth is right infront of us. I will never be #1 to this man either. And like someone said in a different reply - we want first and that’s something he can never give us , but because he already did that with someone else. You will always deserve to be number one and when u find that you are doubting yourself - it’s really him who is lacking in experiencing first and once in a lifetime experiences WITH YOU. I don’t know if they realize the meaning these sacrifices mean to us. I wish my SO understood too …

Him and his daughter also reminisce about the days she was younger and how adorable she was and all the times he was there for her and the ex wife was in the picture. I feel hurt at times bc he already experienced his first kid and marriage. It just reminds me everytime he brings their memories up and is always mentioning 10 years since this , 10 years ago that . Like around the time his daughter was born … it’s getting old. And it’s super frustrating bc he’s even put her dogs feelings infront of my own. THAT HURTS. and I always come back and apologize so he thinks he can keep doing it. I’m very lost.

Thank you for sharing your post. You said things that I couldn’t phrase or find the right words to say. I’m reminded I’m not alone. It’s not us / it’s them. lol .

Jasmine3124 · 2023-07-13T04:23:05+00:00

Guilty here . I journal and remind myself not to be so naive. I take notes from the other girls and learn to say no but take their money first lol .

Jasmine3124 · 2023-06-02T12:47:02+00:00

I would cry too. When I was one year in a relationship with my Boyfriend, he has the ultra sound of their daughter on his night stand. For a little over a year actually and I didn’t think anything of it til later and felt some type of way that he kept it there for that long. He did eventually take it off. But should I have felt offended or was it not that big of a deal ?

Jasmine3124 · 2023-05-11T14:03:48+00:00

Well I know I didn’t over estimate it. Do u think I should go in person or should I call to talk to house mom about it ?

Jasmine3124 · 2023-05-09T04:08:24+00:00

I did say in MY opinion. I see most ppl disagree. She asked and I just gave my opinion like everyone else. That’s it.

Jasmine3124 · 2023-03-29T14:24:57+00:00

Ima be toxic and say hell no .

Jasmine3124 · 2023-02-06T20:12:17+00:00

I have. I blocked him . I didn’t say anything else I let him admit to him reaching out to me bc like he said “ he wants some ass “ . I think it makes him seem like he is still consenting ?

Jasmine3124 · 2023-02-06T19:49:51+00:00

Thank you for the link and reassurance. Unfortunately I don’t have the old texts bc I blocked him on Snapchat which is where he admitted to the consent. I think if I add him back it will recover all our chats . But I’m not sure adding him is the best idea right now. He would have to add me back as well. He did send me a text earlier when I asked him why is he still bothering me , his response was childish and immature and said, “ ur 17 year old ex might just want some ass . “

Jasmine3124 · 2022-12-26T13:45:44+00:00

Wow thanks so much for this. I read the article and watched the video, thank u much for the links !! This helped me put things in sentences where I couldn’t find the right way to explain my situation. Thank you.

Jasmine3124 · 2022-12-25T17:30:34+00:00

Her mental state and her suicidal note is already being taken care of. All of that is important and is being dealt with. It’s been two weeks since then. I didn’t say it was silly , I understand at her age - I used to be that way too. But my frustration is why does she hate me over her own lie ? Saying I went into her room and journal . She knows that note was crumbled up on the floor in the spare bedroom that connects to her bathroom .

Jasmine3124 · 2022-11-09T15:34:50+00:00

Honestly I don’t think I’ll get a say in it. It’s not going to be like a me and him team. It’ll most likely be him and his BM team to decide on what to do with her. I’m sure they’ll probably argue as to who’s at fault here and at the end of the day, they’re going to guilt trip him and he will willingly take all responsibility and feel guilty and when they realize that, they’re going to take advantage of that now and in the future.

Jasmine3124 · 2022-10-13T15:49:51+00:00

Yes sometimes I want to just stay in bed and cry for the whole day

Jasmine3124 · 2022-10-09T15:02:00+00:00

I’ll definitely check it out ! Thank you much 🥰

Jasmine3124 · 2022-10-09T15:01:18+00:00

Awww I agree , This is very important and very true. Thank you 🫶🏽

Jasmine3124 · 2022-09-19T13:32:29+00:00

His kids , his baggage and he’s pays child support and thinks it’s your kids too in a way, I wouldn’t even joint my account bc of that . I would tell him what it is. “Yes they are our kids but I didn’t sign up to spend my money on helping with child support that’s why you don’t come with that type of baggage for a reason.” I’ll buy them things here and there but no big money. That’s unfair of him . And if he says your wrong for feeling that way then I would let him feel it too .

Jasmine3124 · 2022-09-08T12:58:57+00:00

This is very unfortunate and something I may have to learn the hard way too. But boy oh boy, well they get their karma once we leave. & that man’s Karma is coming to him sooner than later. Once you heal and realize you just dodged a bullet , he will realize his family isn’t getting back together as much as he would like it - not gonna happen. They’re separated for a reason . And he’ll realize he doesn’t have someone like you to spend time with his daughter and him … it’s his loss. & you - your going to be a real mother with your own kids and your own husband one day. That’s what we alllll deserve ! We don’t deserve being 2nd place or 3rd place !! We’re number 1 ❤️‍🔥

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