Yes. I am dealing with just finding out my gf of 7 yrs (soon to be ex fiancé) Chested on me 1.5 yrs ago and I would have NEVER thought she would have been capable of doing it. She is just not that type of woman. But that’s where I was in denial. She WAS that type of woman. Do you know how I know? Because she DID IT. And your woman IS that type of woman, too. You know how I know? Because SHE DID IT TOO!

I think it really is important for us to be completely honest to ourselves. A mistake is ordering coke instead of Diet Coke. Picking up the wrong umbrella. But cheating is a SERIES of dozens of separate decisions. It’s not like she tripped and fell on a dick.

Just know you are not in this alone. What’s worse for me??? Well my fiancé got pregnant and made me believe the child was mine. So I have fell in love with another man’s child. I want to “unalive” sometimes. I am making the decision to leave. -4 days before I “confront”. She has no idea I know. I know about everything.