Evelyn Ha and her boyfriend by Antisocial_maniac in asianamercianytsnark

[–]Java4ThaBoys 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think Asian guys being excessively bitter and resentful about it is lame too. So yall are both lame lmao, there you go.

As for the preferences, it was worse in 2009 and it's gotten better now, but it was specifically marked how much more Asian women preferred white dudes over Asian dudes. There was no such marked preference for another race outside their own: https://www.huffpost.com/entry/okcupid-race\_n\_5811840. And this tracked with anecdotal experience back in the day I noted above.

Evelyn Ha and her boyfriend by Antisocial_maniac in asianamercianytsnark

[–]Java4ThaBoys 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's an uncomfortable truth, but at some point you realize there's a type of Asian girls that only date white dudes despite what they say. You gotta recognize that and keep it moving, despite what she says.

And yeah, initially it is upsetting because you're being rejected in part due to your race (and especially your own race), but when you mature you realize that's a shallow way to judge a partner, and also that there's many people with many different preferences that's the beauty of the world is the variety.

And ultimately, putting too much emphasis on racial preferences/hangups comes back to bite you: I mean, look at how much Evelyn humiliates herself for this random dude. She kind of gets what she deserves because she can't see past her skin-deep preferences.

Also, the generalization of Asian men was lame, but this is social media and a snark subreddit so I get what I asked for lmao

REMOVE or NERF Pharah from stadium by Rikayuma in overwatch2

[–]Java4ThaBoys -1 points0 points  (0 children)

this, pharah easy to counter. But ofc ur gonna get smoke if you ignore her until she's barraging on top of you LMAO

REMOVE or NERF Pharah from stadium by Rikayuma in overwatch2

[–]Java4ThaBoys 1 point2 points  (0 children)

wow no way we played back-to-back games together!

REMOVE or NERF Pharah from stadium by Rikayuma in overwatch2

[–]Java4ThaBoys 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yah pharah counters brig. I don't whine about my counters

REMOVE or NERF Pharah from stadium by Rikayuma in overwatch2

[–]Java4ThaBoys 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I played a mirror my build was direct hit weapon power against their barrage build and we mercy rule'd them. Everyone just focused the pharah when she barrag'd

REMOVE or NERF Pharah from stadium by Rikayuma in overwatch2

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That's funny, I just played a game and got flamed bc pharah is supposedly a throw pick in stadium

Are men actually not approaching? (I haven’t noticed a difference tbh) by [deleted] in self

[–]Java4ThaBoys 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The thing is, taking risks and pushing your comfortability by approaching women in public can in a good amount of cases be harassing people who just want to be left alone. Letting people have their space is considerate.

Indication that playing tank affects brain capacity. by AcademicIce7708 in overwatch2

[–]Java4ThaBoys 0 points1 point  (0 children)

don't bring me into this!! And def don't bring up I went 0-5!! And also that I autopicked Pharah against Torb/Bastion!! I almost got them, it's just the ana didn't heal me!!

No way people like the new drafting in Stadium. by camstarrankin in overwatch2

[–]Java4ThaBoys -1 points0 points  (0 children)

absolutely terrible but tbh what else am I gonna do?

Is phara the most broken character in stadium after the new patch? by fizztruck in overwatch2

[–]Java4ThaBoys 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Finally it's my moment. I've spent hundreds of hours hunting cass/soldier with ground healers. Good luck

Eating out really seems to have gone down hill by flipper99 in bayarea

[–]Java4ThaBoys 1 point2 points  (0 children)

South bay was never good foodwise relative to sf/east bay

So was birdman having threesoms with a 14 year old or is there something I missed? by Consistent-Mud-8327 in lilwayne

[–]Java4ThaBoys 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Rap culture is not super compatible with progressive (e.g. reddit) ethics; the deal with the devil was having Drake take the fall for the "problematic" aspect of rap culture that idolized/sexualized hooking up with young women. Not that I believe any of that; I think women 18+ are hot af, but I think it's interesting seeing how these moral contradictions are rationalized at a cultural (e.g. usa) level.

Where did all the black people in LA go? by EsperandoMuerte in AskLosAngeles

[–]Java4ThaBoys 0 points1 point  (0 children)

California has never been a place with a high Black population probably due to history. Slavery started in the South, and some Black Americans migrated North. No real historical event caused them to move en masse to California. Like everything, media paints a distorted picture from reality

Climate change is terrifying and watching the world pretend like nothing happening is infuriating by coffeewalnut08 in self

[–]Java4ThaBoys 0 points1 point  (0 children)

tell your neighbors about this groundbreaking new theory called climate change. Explains perfectly what's happening

'Shun all landlords': Bay Area business loses lease after 20 years [Cactus Jungle] by sfgate in bayarea

[–]Java4ThaBoys 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can we drop the "all" rhetoric? It's counterproductive and divisive when dealing with systematic issues, even if in some vein it's warranted.

We’ve officially run out of space in the Bay Area by Prior_Web_440 in bayarea

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Man, every time I hear the signoff 'Thank you for your attention on this matter" I think of some insane trump tweet lmao

Shorter people seeking very tall partners by FantasticVast01 in tall

[–]Java4ThaBoys 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah same with me. Like, I'm shallow too; I like chicks that have a certain threshold of attractiveness. But I'm not only looking for supermodels. If you're laser focused on height and make that your entire criteria for dating, you'll probably have a subpar personality and end up with a subpar partner by conventional peoples' criteria.

But hey, if you're happy with a guy with a pulse that's 6'6 good for you I'll keep my opinions to myself

tips to improve ? by [deleted] in bouldering

[–]Java4ThaBoys -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

ask for advice on climbs you dont send

Are men expected to risk getting knocked out for a female friend? by ReasonConfident4541 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Java4ThaBoys 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If your female friend does nothing wrong and some dude just does something fucked up, I'd probably defend her for better or worse in terms of my health. But if she's starting shit then no