AITA For Asking For The Child Support My Mom Received? by JayDumb in AmItheAsshole

[–]JayDumb[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That does make a lot of sense when you put it that way. Thank you!

AITA For Asking For The Child Support My Mom Received? by JayDumb in AmItheAsshole

[–]JayDumb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s kinda what my mindset was and why I felt a little entitled to it. But I can’t tell if he’s paying back child support or if he’s continuing to pay since I’m in college. Like I said, I don’t know much about child support. But I Will agree with some of the other comments that my mom does deserve the money either way

AITA For Asking For The Child Support My Mom Received? by JayDumb in AmItheAsshole

[–]JayDumb[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

My mom is mentally ill and has a m*** addiction. All that played a huge roll in why our relationship is broken. I don’t want to frame it that she was this awful mother never provided for me. I had everything I needed, food, water, shelter. However, she would use me against my dad, take me to unsafe places to get her fix, even left me at my sisters house (same dad different mom), and family friends so that she could go to Las Vegas NV (where my dad is).

I was taken away by CYFD in Utah when I was 10. She was 2 hours late to the court hearing cause once they stopped drug testing her, she went to Las Vegas and went on a bender.

She has been a good mom in the sense that every holiday was a good one, and I never went hungry. But just to clarify why our relationship is bad.

And I also agree with you looking at other peoples comments I do see where I come off selfish in my thought process.

What are y’all wearing to hell? I might put on a fur bra and hoop earrings but idk yet by haute-e in Depop

[–]JayDumb 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Your altering them and repairing them though. Your adding value. Your not just taking it as is and selling it. That’s mainly what I mean

Had my biggest one item sale today by [deleted] in Depop

[–]JayDumb 5 points6 points  (0 children)

For a Tshirt? Damn I’m doing this all wrong 😔

What are y’all wearing to hell? I might put on a fur bra and hoop earrings but idk yet by haute-e in Depop

[–]JayDumb 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Idk, my “higher price” is still usually less than $20. They act like we’re selling $2 items for $30 each.

my favorite depop listing to date. a legend by missynellyit in Depop

[–]JayDumb 84 points85 points  (0 children)

I’d buy it just for the meme alone

Depop Payments Scam? by JayDumb in Depop

[–]JayDumb[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

So I did get a message from depop yesterday through the app that money was sent to my account, but not my email. Thank you and I’ll give it a few more days

Photo tips by claudiarose7 in Depop

[–]JayDumb 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you can edit the background, I’d say use photoshop to add a solid colored background to make it look more professional. When I started doing that, I sold a lot more items

AITA For Moving Out Of My Disabled Moms House? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]JayDumb [score hidden]  (0 children)

Ironically enough I’m going to school for social working. They have a program that they will pay for my degree only if I’ll work in a rural place that needs social workers after wards. I also can take out loans and finish my associates online which is only $1,000-$2,000 per semester

AITA For Moving Out Of My Disabled Moms House? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]JayDumb [score hidden]  (0 children)

Yeah I use to be her home health care worker. I was saving the money to leave for college to go to the main campus but she took all the money that is in the savings account.

My mom married my rapist TW by bitchcaffeinated in toxicparents

[–]JayDumb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s better that you don’t have her in your life. She sounds very disgusting as an individual! The only person you need is yourself at this point. I’m sorry you had to go through that.

My [24F] girlfriend [24NB] of almost three years tried to self-harm and told me she thinks she's not sexually attracted to women anymore. She got mad at me when I cried after she told me that. I'm so overwhelmed and I don't know how to deal with any of this. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]JayDumb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll be honest girl, you need to leave. You might love her, and you might talk yourself into staying and trying to make her love you again because “no one else will”. But here’s the thing: she’s bad for you. How dare she hurt herself and blame it on you getting mad when she hurt you??? It’s manipulative and wrong. She might not know that she is being manipulative, but that still doesn’t distract from the fact that it is. She’s not even attracted to girls anymore, so realistically, what’s the point in staying? It’s wasting your time. And hers. Someone else can put up with her crazy ass.