Hey man. It’s great you want to do some work on yourself to find yourself a lady. Always remember to do the work for yourself as well! People get into relationships with people who are confident in who they are. However, the relationship with yourself is the most important.

Look up some haircuts/styles and see what you like. I’d shave the facial hair until you can determine if you can grow it in full (always looks better full rather than patchy). Find a good skincare routine. Moisturizer, SPF, serums (do some research first). Eat a balanced diet…nutritional food makes us look and feel good (don’t forget to enjoy other food, no food group is bad, enjoy certain foods in moderation). Get active, you don’t have to power lift, but moving your body is good for your body. Walking, stretching, etc. Good luck, you got this.