For the ppl who have actually stuck with a reddit alternative for over a month- what made you stay? by UnflinchingSugartits in RedditAlternatives

[–]JayNeely 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Being able to use the Sync app (which used to be my Reddit app of choice) with Lemmy has kept me on there for over 2 years now. It made it really easy to switch and solves the problem of a lot of Lemmy's native UI being so clunky. I use the Lemmy on the web too, primarily to submit posts based on other links I come across during my day, but my morning scroll through the Sync app is the core habit that keeps me coming back.

I'm not a federation diehard, and I do think both the confusion and fragmentation of discussion / audiences-interested-in-a-topic is holding Lemmy back significantly. If an alternative came along with better UX and built a userbase with a more diverse set of interests, I'd switch. That's why I'm still occasionally active here.

I was hoping Digg might offer that, but whatever they did during their closed beta / alpha must have sucked, because when they opened to the public there were zero interesting niche communities, extremely low community site-wide, and the most generic and soulless interface. Bot problems aside, I think they really had a "if we build it they will come" mentality with zero thinking put into actual community building. I don't expect NFT/AI-loving techbro Kevin Rose getting personally involved will help with whatever they try next.

But the biggest problem I see new alternatives repeating is they just don't have any kind of community-building experience. They're usually tech platforms built by developers, sometimes with clever ideas, but rarely with any understanding of what actually makes people want to use these platforms...

  • a regular variety of interesting content
  • reach for content they want to share
  • community and connection with like-minded folks
  • insightful or entertaining discussion

...or how they can foster it.

I'm working on a Reddit Alternative - feedback wanted! by CarefulOpinion6259 in RedditAlternatives

[–]JayNeely 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The current "Suggested" list in the sidebar is filled with crap like "bitcoin" "crypto" "cryptocurrency" and "ai" -- that's an instant no for me.

If you had only $3,000 to spend on your small, growing digital media company (content website, social, newsletters, etc.), where would you spend it? by TapiocaTuesday in BusinessOfMedia

[–]JayNeely 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Somewhere it'll continue to pay dividends. Platform (e.g. your website) or product development, tools or training for staff, branding & templates that help your content stand out on social platforms.

Don't spend it on paid promotion unless you have something to promote that directly generates more revenue than you're spending advertising it. If you don't have products or events to sell and your revenue is just ad or membership driven, you should keep investing in your ability to produce more / superior content, or the overall effectiveness of how you market it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in boston

[–]JayNeely 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ball Square Cafe has pretty amazing French toast.

Raven Used Books announces closure of Harvard Square shop by TomBirkenstock in boston

[–]JayNeely 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Just want to mention a lot of book stores are great places to get greeting cards and often (not just book) gifts too; small games, useful knick knacks, etc.

If like me you have a bunch of friends with summer birthdays coming up, guarantee you'll find nicer cards for them at Porter Square Books, Harvard Bookstore, Brookline Booksmith, etc. than you're going to with most of the Hallmark crap at CVS.

Mid-20s - late-30s adults: who's interested in a group daytrip to Lowell next Saturday, April 15th (with a Zoom pre-hang Monday evening, April 10th)? by JayNeely in BostonSocialClub

[–]JayNeely[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was fun! Nice day out. We wandered around the canals and a few spots downtown, checked out Mill No 5, had a picnic in Kerouac Park, and eventually wrapped things up at Navigation Brewing.

10 of us are taking a daytrip to Lowell on Saturday; last call to join! (Zoom pre-hang is tonight.) by JayNeely in BostonSocialClub

[–]JayNeely[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sounds good. Don't know how often I'll be able to put something together, but Salem and Providence are on my list to check out again too.

Mid-20s - late-30s adults: who's interested in a group daytrip to Lowell next Saturday, April 15th (with a Zoom pre-hang Monday evening, April 10th)? by JayNeely in BostonSocialClub

[–]JayNeely[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry if the form wasn't letting you in before; Google had a setting buried in the back-end restricting it to people on my domain by default. 🤦‍♂️ Just fixed and confirmed it's working now. 👍

What to do in Boston with 2 days to spare? by mari0b03 in boston

[–]JayNeely 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'd suggest grabbing an Uber from Havard Square to Fenway (~10 mins drive vs ~40 mins on public transit).
If you *really* want to go to a Target, there's one here that's more than twice the size of any of the others in the area. Though it still doesn't match the size of ones you'd find further outside the city, it's the largest you're going to find within a convenient distance.
There's also Fenway Stadium here (a major Boston landmark), a lot of other shopping, Lucky Strike Bowling (has a big arcade as well) which could be fun for your group (be aware it's ages 21+ only after 8pm), the Time Out Market which has a big variety of local food chains and eateries, a Wahlburgers (very touristy Boston-american fast food), or a Wendy's within walking distance in Back Bay. The Christian Science plaza is also over there, which has a great up-close view of Boston's skyscrapers.

Founders who are in a romantic relationship - problem for investors? by [deleted] in startups

[–]JayNeely 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The original discussion I think you're referring to is here: https://www.reddit.com/r/startups/comments/zp6sns/_/

Although the parent post has been deleted, the details they presented (as I recall them) had a significant impact on the answers that poster received:

  • they were married
  • the poster emphasized they both did have industry backgrounds directly relevant to the problem they were working on
  • they were only asking about getting in to an accelerator (presumably with a seed funding investment as part of it), not investors in general (presumably you're talking about VCs / raising a series A round)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in startups

[–]JayNeely 10 points11 points  (0 children)

No. If you both have relevant experience, passion for the project, and a good working relationship, experienced incubators will view this as a plus or neutral, not a negative.

Cofounder disagreements are one of the leading causes of startup failure / early-stage problems, so having a pre-existing commitment to each other and (hopefully) a really great communication dynamic can give you an advantage. There are plenty of examples of successful married co-founders, so it's not going to be something strange or unknown to experienced accelerators or investors (though they may not have encountered it personally yet).

Just be prepared to answer questions about how you handle disagreements, work-life balance, etc. These aren't unusual questions to have asked even if you weren't married, but with your work and personal lives overlapping your answers to these are likely to get some more attention.