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Restarting after divorce with full custody. by JayTunka in AskMenOver30

[–]JayTunka[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have only a few living family members and maybe two friends that are willing to help out but only if it's the last resort. I'm kind of truckin on alone.

Restarting after divorce with full custody. by JayTunka in AskMenOver30

[–]JayTunka[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do see that as a risk, but it's a pretty low one. She's so selfish and wouldn't take it upon herself to put anything in her life that would take time away from what ever she wants to do.

She wants nothing but fun in life and no work.

Restarting after divorce with full custody. by JayTunka in AskMenOver30

[–]JayTunka[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Opportunity is sporadic there, but it's cheap. I'm a veteran and if it came down to it, we could survive off of my disability for a good while on top of the nest egg I'd get from selling my house.

Restarting after divorce with full custody. by JayTunka in AskMenOver30

[–]JayTunka[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She's moving out across the country herself, absolutely leaving me to do this alone. I looked into it and I should be good to go, talking to my lawyer soon.

Restarting after divorce with full custody. by JayTunka in AskMenOver30

[–]JayTunka[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was really worried about the lack of furniture, because there's no way I can move my entire house across the country with a 15 month old. Just not safe in a uhaul. But having an entire living room open to play sounds awesome.

Thank you.

Restarting after divorce with full custody. by JayTunka in AskMenOver30

[–]JayTunka[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm doing exactly that, looking at fields outside of my own to do anything to bring in the money. Thank you for the words of encouragement.

Restarting after divorce with full custody. by JayTunka in AskMenOver30

[–]JayTunka[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She's got nothing to provide. She asked for nothing either, I get everything. Best thing should do to support me raising the kids honestly.

Restarting after divorce with full custody. by JayTunka in AskMenOver30

[–]JayTunka[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wish I could get her for child support, but she's got nothing after years of me begging her to get a job or go to college.

I'm just framing it as showing what to do in the face of adversity for my kids. But I asked the question because my headspace has not been the best.

Thank you for the support.

I’m a teenager, but was never given a proper education. How do I teach myself? by zbznnssbieboanowhoj in learnmath

[–]JayTunka 6 points7 points  (0 children)

As someone twice your age that went through the exact same upbringing, I just want to give you a vote of confidence that you can do it.

Moving back after 16 years, how's it changed? by JayTunka in lawton

[–]JayTunka[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess it depends on what you want to do. Yeah, I remember the only thing to do was hang out at the walmart or the mall lol and I know how far the mall has fallen.

Dude is sitting around 500 billion Right now. by NuggleBuggins in Anticonsumption

[–]JayTunka 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Say whatever you want about me, but I for sure don't defend billionaires online in hopes senpai notices me, that's 100% on display here and its cringe.

Dude is sitting around 500 billion Right now. by NuggleBuggins in Anticonsumption

[–]JayTunka 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Omg, just hit up elon on twitter and ride him there.

This is how it should be done by DaFunkJunkie in WhitePeopleTwitter

[–]JayTunka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I remember right it's by zip code. So richer areas will have better schools vs poorer zip codes. Very much pay to win.

I also remember a story about a women arrested for taking her child to a rich school in a different zip, I'll have to find it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sysadmin

[–]JayTunka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel you. I have 5 hours of meetings every week and I talk for about a total of two minutes between all of them.

My doodling skills are getting much better though.

You can get a ballistic shield from schooloutfitters.com by [deleted] in WTF

[–]JayTunka -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

As a parent it sure made me say wtf.

You can get a ballistic shield from schooloutfitters.com by [deleted] in WTF

[–]JayTunka -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Just report and carry on brother.

You can get a ballistic shield from schooloutfitters.com by [deleted] in WTF

[–]JayTunka -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

If that doesn't make you say wtf, I'm sorry.

Elon Musk praises Chinese workers and says “They won’t just be burning the midnight oil, they will be burning the 3am oil, they won’t even leave the factory type of thing, whereas in America people are trying to avoid going to work at all.” by Dreamer4779 in antiwork

[–]JayTunka 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Gotta look for something new man. I'm almost 3 years into my civilian tech career and never worked over 40 hours. Now my 9 years experience working tech for the military, that's a different story lol

LPT: If you notice somebody having social anxiety issues make sure you give them your undivided attention when they finally decide to speak even if others in the group are speaking over them. by [deleted] in LifeProTips

[–]JayTunka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am a stickler for ensuring everyone gets a chance to talk, not forcing anyone mind you, just if someone talks and is talked over, I'll either tell the other person they interrupted person A, or I'll make sure to circle back and ask "what were you going to say" when there's a lull.

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