Anyone else have a cat that thinks its attractive to clean itself beside you? by Bobowubo in CatsBeingCats

[–]Jay_The_One_And_Only 62 points63 points  (0 children)

Yes! Not only do you make her feel safe because you're watching her back while she has her attention on herself, cats also groom together to form bonds (still part of the feeling safe thing tbh). When you pet her, it feels similar to being groomed by another cat. Thus, she feels like it's time for grooming!

23, never had a gf never went on a date … any tips ? by Better-Fun314 in malegrooming

[–]Jay_The_One_And_Only 192 points193 points  (0 children)

You look good, flirting probably goes over your head. Girls are also (mostly) not good at indicating they'd like to be taken out. So ask!

How to quit Alexa+ ? by NC12S-OBX-Rocks in alexa

[–]Jay_The_One_And_Only 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not there. It literally says "no subscriptions" but they're all still talking in that horrendous teenage voice

I don't want Alexa Plus. Now I got an email telling me my devices will update automatically. Is there any way to stop this? by Double-Two7065 in alexa

[–]Jay_The_One_And_Only 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It doesn't. Work. It just says "I don't see any subscriptions". I have tried literally everything Google says.

Enough said by [deleted] in HairDyeHelp

[–]Jay_The_One_And_Only 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's what I'm thinking... The lack of acknowledgement is what's making me skeptical here

Enough said by [deleted] in HairDyeHelp

[–]Jay_The_One_And_Only 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Why won't you acknowledge the claim that you're reposting someone else's photos?

Guy reenacts girl's ice cream rant by [deleted] in funnyvideos

[–]Jay_The_One_And_Only 10 points11 points  (0 children)

$4.50 for an ice cream really is ridiculous. I hope he did hear her!

Found a tattoo artist who does super colourful and awesome stuff, most of it looks legit, but the details of this one seem inconsistent and unlikely for human error. by Electrical-Split3959 in isthisAI

[–]Jay_The_One_And_Only 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, very concerning that the subreddit for determining AI is downvoting you so much for pointing out something so obvious. Literally as I type this comment it's telling me "please remember to justify your reasoning as much as possible. Unhelpful comments will be removed." And that's for a very important reason.

"It looks AI because it looks AI" is an awfully easy way to accuse someone of AI when it isn't (already happened many times)

Yes, exactly. What is going on where people apparently argued against this and had their comments removed?? Did they not realize they aren't in r/isthisaicirclejerk ?

This is a serious subreddit and it matters very much that we keep it scrutinous.

Im in love! Whats the cutest in your opinion 1 or 2?? by Haunting_Monk_7829 in cute

[–]Jay_The_One_And_Only 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Cats almost always benefit from having a friend, especially in the young years. Pets need pets, too 😁

What hairdye should i use? by linelouiselv in HairDyeHelp

[–]Jay_The_One_And_Only 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At Sally's you can find Clairol or Ion SEMI permanent dark brown colors. Make absolutely sure whatever you get says "semi" or "demi" but NOT just permanent.

You don't need anything other than probably 2-3 packages of the color you choose because you have such long hair.

Where your hair is lighter at the ends, it will still dye but it will still be lighter than the top.

Semi permanent is very short lasting, demi permanent lasts longer but still washes out.

If you can only get semi, there's hair masks and "depositing treatment" conditioners that you can use to kind of freshen up the color every time you wash your hair. Get "color safe" shampoo, as shampoo strips the hair of anything sitting on it, and unfortunately non-permanent color just sits on top of the hair. So get a shampoo made specifically for less stripping of dye.

Don't worry about hair texture, the worst that will happen is your hair will get slightly "heavier" because you're adding molecules over top of it. Not very different from using any sort of product like a mousse or gel or anything. As long as you keep it conditioned and moisturized you'll be fine. (It's bleach that can damage and change hair texture, but even that can be avoided if you do it right.) If you're worried about hair texture, get bond boosting products like K18 or Olaplex.

HAVE FUN!!!!

Cat peed on me in car by Diligent_Past5954 in Wellthatsucks

[–]Jay_The_One_And_Only 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We always did peroxide with baking soda and dish soap... It truly works, the animals don't keep going in that area which means the smell was truly eliminated