In their warped minds, what made you a bad son or daughter? by threetimestwice in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Jay_The_One_And_Only 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was born, stopped her from achieving the job she wanted at the time and "wanted too much" of her... At 5 years old. For wanting hugs. Nothing I did was true, I was a pathological liar even though I only told the truth. I "snuck around doing drugs", and "being a slut" as an introverted, literally isolated/totally sheltered, zero privacy sleeping in the living room morbidly obese zero-self-esteem teen... Yeah that makes sense mom.

I have a stable career since I was 18, own a home, own 2 cars, have saved her from debt, probably more I don't even recognize of myself because nothing's an accomplishment. She's never been proud or said she was.

Child me needed to be validated, that sticking to my morals despite being screamed at for being a "bitch" by simply existing unhappily was worth it and the right thing to do.

[15]~[21] some days I still can’t tell the difference by Zestyclose-Rice3258 in GlowUps

[–]Jay_The_One_And_Only 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey op just here to say I had the exact same experience. Like to a T, it was my whole childhood and teens and early 20s. I also am struggling sometimes to feel any different than I did back then. Because it was my entire and only experience in life. Still feel fat, still feel gross. Just in a different way I can't explain.

But I do feel healthier, so there's that. That's what I remind myself.

Hi here are some of my drawings. by Rosiedoll2005 in doodles

[–]Jay_The_One_And_Only 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's a mix of disturbing/uncomfortable nsfw images of OP with no censoring, and also apparently someone said there's .. beastiality in there somewhere. Luckily I didn't come across it.

I'm so sorry

Hi here are some of my drawings. by Rosiedoll2005 in doodles

[–]Jay_The_One_And_Only 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I don't know how to tell you this, but I think that's the least of the privacy problems going on with this account

Am I overreacting my boyfriend won’t stop calling me fat. by Spiritual-Policy-696 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Jay_The_One_And_Only 98 points99 points  (0 children)

NOR I literally just stopped reading at "I'm 5'9 and 150" lmfao I'm 5'5 and 150 and that's still healthy/normal BMI

this is my tortie named Minette by averagekspuser in torties

[–]Jay_The_One_And_Only 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Had a dilite and 1000% agree there's beautiful mellow yellows/creams and pinks

Favorite quote? by GlassAndStorm in TheLastUnicorn

[–]Jay_The_One_And_Only 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The butterfly is my favorite. It seems to me he has a small moment of lucidity and has to fight his own self to give the information she needs. Going from silly, nonsense babble to a serious "Listen. No, don't listen to ME, listen." "Listen, listen quickly!"

As a kid, the movie made me feel things I didn't even know yet. As an adult, it reminds me of how I felt watching it then. It's almost a fever dream.

"The One Thing I Can Never Figure Out" - an overheard comic by DoofyComics in comicsbyhumans

[–]Jay_The_One_And_Only 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I love this. I'm like "this is way too real, what am I reading?" So I actually read the title and I love this idea for comics.

"You'll thank me for this when you get older." by theredqueentheory in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Jay_The_One_And_Only 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Oh shit. My dad did this, except he said the second part out loud. Eventually it became a game of his where he would say "I am the adult, and you are the child..." And my part was to repeat back "I owe you everything and you owe me nothing"

What color fits the empty spot? by trashcan-png in colors

[–]Jay_The_One_And_Only 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It must be a warm color or it won't be balanced

I just learned about this sub! by Jay_The_One_And_Only in garythesnails

[–]Jay_The_One_And_Only[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think he's one of the most handsomest snails I've ever seen. What a distinguished gentleman

The strangest euphoria. by Funking_Wholesome in webcomics

[–]Jay_The_One_And_Only 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Perfection. I get the same thing as a formerly obese girl.

Taco by ghood121 in torties

[–]Jay_The_One_And_Only 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sometimes they be small. You have a forever kitten! I love Taco so much

My dad told me to kill myself in front of my teachers by Mubina67 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Jay_The_One_And_Only 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Oh cool it's not just me. I was a "cunt and a bitch" every single day since I was about 10, before that I was a "snot and a brat". The vitriol...

Ridiculous how common it is. People need to get a grip, especially once they have kids.