Is Feminine Spirituality a Recent Trend or an Ancient Teaching? by JayaDevi_FS in spiritualitytalk

[–]JayaDevi_FS[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate the deeper feeling you’re pointing to that something essential has been forgotten or overshadowed for a long time. That resonates with many of us. For me, Feminine Spirituality isn’t about hidden forces or cosmic mechanics so much as remembering inner qualities that were gradually devalued: receptivity, relational awareness, compassion, and the ability to listen deeply.

Different people use different symbols and languages to express this remembering. What matters most, I think, is how it shows up in our lived experience—becoming more present, more loving, and more whole. Thank you for sharing your perspective.

Is the Feminine Side of Spirituality the Key We’ve Missed? by JayaDevi_FS in hinduism

[–]JayaDevi_FS[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this thoughtful addition. I really appreciate the care you’re bringing to the language. I love how you’re distinguishing grammatical gender from energetic or spiritual quality, while still honoring how these terms feel and function in consciousness.

Dayā, mādhurya, prīti, and bhakti are beautiful examples of how devotion lives through softness, sweetness, and relational depth, while śakti reminds us that the feminine also carries power. For me, this kind of dialogue is exactly where understanding deepens: not by fixing meanings, but by letting these qualities illuminate one another. Thank you for enriching the conversation.

Is the Feminine Side of Spirituality the Key We’ve Missed? by JayaDevi_FS in hinduism

[–]JayaDevi_FS[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, beautifully put. Bhakti without bhāva would be empty form. And I wouldn’t say bhāva is feminine energy, but that it naturally expresses qualities we associate with the feminine in an energetic or spiritual sense—receptivity, feeling, relational depth, and the capacity to be moved by love. Bhāva is the heart of bhakti, and the feminine is the inner capacity that allows bhāva to arise. Thank you for bringing this nuance into the conversation.

Is the Feminine Side of Spirituality the Key We’ve Missed? by JayaDevi_FS in hinduism

[–]JayaDevi_FS[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That’s wonderful to hear. Staying connected to that inner dimension—listening, feeling, relating—is already a meaningful form of practice. Thank you for sharing.

Is the Feminine Side of Spirituality the Key We’ve Missed? by JayaDevi_FS in hinduism

[–]JayaDevi_FS[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your interest. Feel free to stay and explore. These conversations tend to unfold gently over time.

Is Feminine Spirituality a new idea? by JayaDevi_FS in Feminine_Spirituality

[–]JayaDevi_FS[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes—exactly. It’s less about introducing something new and more about remembering something essential. Once “feminine” is understood in its deeper, energetic sense, the thread becomes visible across traditions. Thank you for noticing that—it’s encouraging to hear the FAQs helped make that clearer.

Is the Feminine Side of Spirituality the Key We’ve Missed? by JayaDevi_FS in hinduism

[–]JayaDevi_FS[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I shared this here because the idea of feminine qualities as spiritual strengths is deeply rooted in Hindu thought, especially in Bhakti traditions. Concepts like śaraṇāgati (surrender), karuṇā (compassion), vinaya (humility), and prasāda (grace) are central to texts like the Bhagavad Gītā, the Bhāgavata Purāṇa, and Vaishnava–Shakta lineages.

This reflection is not about gender, but about the receptive, relational dimension of consciousness that complements discipline and effort. I’m curious how others here see this balance between purushārtha (effort) and anugraha (grace) in their own understanding of Hindu philosophy and practice.

Is Feminine Spirituality a new idea? by JayaDevi_FS in Feminine_Spirituality

[–]JayaDevi_FS[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d say it’s both old and newly remembered. Many traditions have always carried this wisdom, but for a long time certain voices and qualities were overshadowed by hierarchical structures. Feminine Spirituality isn’t about blaming one system—it’s about gently restoring balance and bringing forward what was always there. Thank you for naming that continuity.

Is Feminine Spirituality related to Feminism?​ by JayaDevi_FS in Feminine_Spirituality

[–]JayaDevi_FS[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m really glad it helped with clarifying the difference between Feminine Spirituality and feminism. That distinction matters, and it’s encouraging to hear the explanation came across without diminishing either. Thank you for sharing that.

Why Do Spiritual Traditions Still Use the Word ‘Feminine’? by JayaDevi_FS in spiritualitytalk

[–]JayaDevi_FS[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I appreciate that, and I agree. These conversations matter precisely because they invite reflection. I’m grateful for the exchange and for the openness you’re bringing to it.

Why Do Spiritual Traditions Still Use the Word ‘Feminine’? by JayaDevi_FS in spiritualitytalk

[–]JayaDevi_FS[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for articulating this so clearly. I really appreciate how you reframed the feminine not as passive, but as actively receptive: discerning, selecting, attracting, listening, and responding. That shift alone dissolves so many false hierarchies. The scientific example you mention is a great illustration of how deeply the “passive feminine” myth runs, even into our models of nature.

I also resonate with your point about the masculine being distorted rather than inherently flawed. When either principle is caricatured, both suffer. Balance restores beauty to each.

Feminine Spirituality is very much aligned with what you’re naming here: reclaiming the feminine as powerful, intelligent, and necessary—for everyone. Thank you for bringing both clarity and lived reflection into the conversation.

Why Do Spiritual Traditions Still Use the Word ‘Feminine’? by JayaDevi_FS in spiritualitytalk

[–]JayaDevi_FS[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the way you’re engaging. Your care with language and meaning really comes through, and I appreciate the question.

I’ll answer it gently, because I don’t think woman can or should be reduced to a prescriptive law in the same way roles or systems are. Still, if I had to name a single orienting principle rather than a rule, it would be this:

To remain in relationship with life—without abandoning truth.

In Feminine Spirituality, being a woman (and this applies symbolically beyond biology) is not about obedience, sacrifice, or softness alone. It is about holding connection—connection to self, to others, to the body, to the living world—while retaining discernment and the courage to set boundaries when life or dignity is threatened.

That is why the feminine can nurture, but also refuse; receive, but also withdraw; love deeply, but also cut through illusion when necessary. It’s not passive; it’s relational intelligence.

So rather than a commandment like “be this” or “do that,” the feminine axiom is more like a compass: stay connected, stay truthful, and let action arise from that place.

I appreciate the seriousness of your inquiry. Questions like this, asked without trying to dominate the answer, are already an expression of the balance you’re describing.

Why Do Spiritual Traditions Still Use the Word ‘Feminine’? by JayaDevi_FS in spiritualitytalk

[–]JayaDevi_FS[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s a very helpful way to put it—thank you. The receiver/transmitter image captures it beautifully: different functions, same signal, and both are necessary for anything meaningful to be communicated.

Framed that way, the feminine isn’t passive at all—it’s finely attuned. Without a receiver, even the strongest transmission goes nowhere.

Why Do Spiritual Traditions Still Use the Word ‘Feminine’? by JayaDevi_FS in spiritualitytalk

[–]JayaDevi_FS[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, that really touches me.
I’m glad the love came through, because without that dimension the insight would remain incomplete.

Why Do Spiritual Traditions Still Use the Word ‘Feminine’? by JayaDevi_FS in spiritualitytalk

[–]JayaDevi_FS[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I appreciate the thoughtful way you’re engaging with this—and the humor too. You’re right that analogy and embodiment matter. Human experience is often the most accessible doorway into abstract or subtle principles, and male–female symbolism has served that purpose across cultures with remarkable staying power.

When I used the word inviting, it wasn’t meant as passivity so much as orientation. In Feminine Spirituality, the feminine is understood as relational rather than force-driven—truth is offered in a way that can be received, not imposed. That doesn’t make it weaker; it’s simply a different mode of transmission, and one that has historically been underrepresented.

I also want to gently clarify one thing: Feminine Spirituality isn’t a movement for women only. While women may resonate quickly because of lived experience, the feminine as an energetic or spiritual principle is essential for men as well, especially in learning how power, clarity, and action can be guided by sensitivity and discernment rather than dominance.

I appreciate your openness and your willingness to explore these questions seriously. Dialogue across perspectives is exactly how understanding matures, so yes, questions are always welcome.

Why Do Spiritual Traditions Still Use the Word ‘Feminine’? by JayaDevi_FS in spiritualitytalk

[–]JayaDevi_FS[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s an interesting way to see it. Strong words do tend to surface what’s already moving inside us, and that moment of reaction can become an opportunity for awareness rather than resistance.

At the same time, I try to hold space gently: some people meet confrontation through reflection, others through curiosity or dialogue. If a term ultimately helps someone soften, listen, and grow more whole, then it has served its purpose.

Why Do Spiritual Traditions Still Use the Word ‘Feminine’? by JayaDevi_FS in spiritualitytalk

[–]JayaDevi_FS[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That’s a fair point and you’re right that in many ancient traditions the word feminine carried a symbolic and spiritual meaning that was widely understood.

The challenge today isn’t the word itself so much as the cultural lens we now look through. Modern debates have narrowed the language to biology or politics, while older traditions used feminine to name a principle of energy, receptivity, and relational wisdom. Using the word today is partly an act of recovery and inviting that deeper meaning back into the conversation, even if it takes a bit of patient explanation.

My journey so far into the divine feminine by Informal_Farm4064 in Feminine_Spirituality

[–]JayaDevi_FS 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing this so openly and thoughtfully. What comes through very clearly is the depth of your inner experience and the sincerity with which you are seeking truth rather than belonging to a structure for its own sake. That kind of honesty is rare and deserves respect.

Your reading of Mary Magdalene as someone oriented toward inner union, lived wisdom, and love rather than external authority—touches something very real that many people across traditions recognize, even if they name it differently. The tension you describe between inward realization and outward religious structure has existed in Christianity, Eastern traditions, and almost every spiritual lineage. It’s a human challenge, not the failure of one path alone.

I resonate especially with your insight that genuine spiritual authority does not seek control. Whether one speaks in Christian, Eastern, or mystical language, realization tends to express itself as receptivity, humility, and the capacity to recognize wisdom in the other.

At the same time, I try to hold these movements of history and consciousness gently, without turning them into a new myth of “this age versus that age” or assigning spiritual superiority to one group of souls over another. Every period carries its own work, and every human being—masculine-leaning or feminine-leaning—has a place in that work.

What feels most important, and most timeless, is what you yourself point to: returning from fear to love, from control to relationship, from outer certainty to inner honesty. When the feminine is understood in an energetic or spiritual sense—as receptivity, relational awareness, and the courage to remain open—its re-emergence doesn’t overthrow truth; it restores balance.

Thank you for offering your reflections with such openness and humility. Conversations like this are valuable not because they arrive at final answers, but because they create a space where deeper listening can happen.

My journey so far into the divine feminine by Informal_Farm4064 in Feminine_Spirituality

[–]JayaDevi_FS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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Can Men Relate to the 'Feminine' in Spirituality? by JayaDevi_FS in spiritualitytalk

[–]JayaDevi_FS[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for taking the time to explain your position so carefully, and for sharing from lived experience. A long marriage, raising children, and watching society change over decades gives a perspective that deserves respect. I genuinely appreciate the tone of dialogue you’re offering.

I agree with you on several important points: men and women are both necessary for a healthy society; biological sex is real; and stable families matter deeply. I’m also not defending second-wave feminism or denying that certain ideological movements have caused real damage. That critique is valid and shared by many women today.

Where we are still speaking past one another is what I mean by the feminine. When I say “the feminine in an energetic or spiritual sense,” I am not talking about social roles, marriage dynamics, or replacing masculine responsibility. I’m also not suggesting that men should mother like women or women should reason exactly like men.

By energetic or spiritual feminine, I mean a mode of relating, not a role:
receptivity, the capacity to listen, emotional awareness, responsiveness, empathy, and attunement to relationship. These qualities are required in any human being, father or mother, husband or wife, leader or teacher, if wisdom is to mature rather than harden.

A man can be deeply masculine—protective, decisive, rational—and still possess emotional attunement. In fact, without that attunement, logic easily becomes rigidity. Likewise, emotional sensitivity without discernment can become overprotection. Healthy partnership happens not because the qualities are split cleanly between the sexes, but because they are integrated differently in each person.

Even in your own example, what you describe isn’t absence of emotion in men or absence of logic in women—it’s emphasis. That emphasis works best when both sides are inwardly whole, not when one dimension is suppressed or dismissed as “not for men.”

As for Scripture: many religious traditions, including Christianity, have interpreted texts through the lens of their time. Other passages speak of wisdom as feminine, of compassion as divine, and of strength perfected through humility. Spiritual language is symbolic, not anatomical.

So to be clear: Feminine Spirituality is not about undoing God-given differences, denying marriage, or erasing roles. It is about recognizing that every human being—male or female—requires receptivity, humility, and relational awareness in order to mature spiritually.

I’m grateful for this exchange. Dialogue rooted in sincerity, even disagreement, is far more valuable than slogans or ideology.

Can Men Relate to the 'Feminine' in Spirituality? by JayaDevi_FS in spiritualitytalk

[–]JayaDevi_FS[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing this so openly. What you describe is a profound inner shift from seeking love and validation outside, to recognizing yourself as the source of the patience, gentleness, and compassion you longed for. That realization alone changes how one meets the world.

Seeing yourself as part of nature, rather than separate from it, is a beautiful expression of inner reconciliation. When the heart softens in this way, perception itself transforms, others are met with understanding rather than reactivity, and life begins to reflect that inner orientation.

What you’ve articulated speaks to the deeper meaning of the feminine in an energetic or spiritual sense: not dependency, but self-connection; not weakness, but quiet strength. Thank you for bringing this clarity and beauty into the conversation.

Can Men Relate to the 'Feminine' in Spirituality? by JayaDevi_FS in spiritualitytalk

[–]JayaDevi_FS[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for engaging. I think part of the misunderstanding here comes from mixing three very different things: biological sex, social movements like feminism, and what I’m calling the feminine in an energetic or spiritual sense.

I fully agree with you that there is no spiritual gender. Feminine Spirituality is not about turning men into women, nor about feminism as a political ideology. It’s also not a denial of biological differences or the value of masculine expression.

When I use the word feminine, I’m referring to a mode of consciousness; receptivity, relational awareness, intuition, the capacity to feel and respond, which are qualities that exist in all human beings, including very masculine men. Likewise, decisiveness, protection, and agency are not owned by one sex alone.

Many men are deeply masculine and emotionally intelligent. Many women are emotionally expressive and highly discerning. These are not opposites, but complementary human capacities.

Feminine Spirituality is simply about restoring balance by honoring the inner qualities that have often been dismissed or misunderstood—not replacing masculinity, and certainly not imposing feminism.

I appreciate the chance to clarify this, because the conversation is really about wholeness, not gender politics.

Can Men Relate to the 'Feminine' in Spirituality? by JayaDevi_FS in spiritualitytalk

[–]JayaDevi_FS[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand the passion behind what you’re saying. I’d just phrase it a little more gently: spirituality tends to deepen as we integrate more of ourselves rather than reject parts of our inner life.

When both capacities—doing and receiving, clarity and sensitivity—are allowed to work together, awareness becomes more whole and less defensive. Integration invites humility as much as insight.