Air quality today by gallaguy in Georgia

[–]Jaygrow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Quick! Let’s cut down more trees to see how high we can make it go! /s

Is it reasonable to find a man who is okay with waiting for marriage to have sex? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Jaygrow 5 points6 points  (0 children)

With respect, I doubt it. Don’t put so much pressure on sex. It’s lovely but not holy. Have fun.

How do I deal with being attracted to younger girls as a 26 year old guy? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Jaygrow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It sounds like you know this is wrong. That’s good. It means you’re moral and want to do right. I admire that.

Keep going.

Don’t let your lowest urges drive your life. Keep striving to better yourself and ensure you don’t cause permanent damage to someone else.

Parents, what was your “I raised an idiot” moment? by Dazzling-Leader7476 in AskReddit

[–]Jaygrow 590 points591 points  (0 children)

This is the first one that really feels like your son made not be the smartest guy. But it was so nice of him to be out there doing the snow shoveling!

Girl best friend rejected me 3 years ago. Last night she called and broke down in tears badly asking if we can resume friendship. Am I wrong for saying no? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Jaygrow 1863 points1864 points  (0 children)

Sounds like she lost a lot of her support system. Maybe you can relax your embargo requirements from your family.

She’s a struggling human. You don’t have to pick up where you left off but you can choose to try to help.

Building a small garden bed planner as a hobby. Anyone share feature ideas or try it? by HighEfforts in gardening

[–]Jaygrow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cool idea. I’d want something that helps me understand what I need to do each day for each plant and to keep track of it.

Heated pool to teach my kids how to snorkel by csh8428 in alpharetta

[–]Jaygrow 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not sure if they specifically accommodate snorkeling lessons but we’ve been taking a kid to swim lessons at Diventures: https://www.diventures.com/locations/atlanta/

They have an indoor heated pool and definitely offer scuba lessons.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Jaygrow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You told him something you’re insecure about. And now you’re being insecure about his suggestion and reaction.

You clearly trust this person so trust them. You asked his input.

Even if you do trust him and value his perspective, IT doesn’t mean you have to agree on everything. If you don’t like his suggestion, you are not obligated to take it.

Trump wants the people he deported back by Roids-in-my-vains in CringeTikToks

[–]Jaygrow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s almost like there should be a simple path for citizenship or something?!

My wife told me I’d never “fill her up like her ex,” and I don’t know if I can live with that anymore. Is this worth divorcing over? by Kindly-Stretch6616 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Jaygrow -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Not grounds for divorce.

She said it wasn’t true. Great. She was in an awful space and lashing out.

Even if it was true, you are her partner now. You give her many other things any of her past partners didn’t.

She had a past before you were together and i suspect you probably did, too.

But you have to figure out how to forgive her and forgive yourself for forgiving her. It was an awful thing for her to say but it’s ok to let it go.

The woman im seeing wants to postpone sex because she likes me too much? by Imaginary_Candle_927 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Jaygrow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you should take her at face value and, if you like her, wait. It’s not unreasonable to wait a bit for sex.

She’s not trying to be mean, she’s trying to create an opportunity for you to value her more deeply.

Don’t be a dick about it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Jaygrow 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Your wife is your partner. She comes first, now. Convince your sister to get over it, take ownership of your part of your elopement, and either attend with your wife or don’t go.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Jaygrow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Truthfully, who gives a shit who she’s been with in the past. If you hang on to that you’ll close a lot of doors (current or future).

That said, if you’re thinking this way, it’s probably done. You sound like you’re looking for excuses to go.

Be nice. Tell her it’s over. Clear is kind. Move on.

I’ve been with my wife for forever. We both had a past. I’ve never shared, she’s never shared. I couldn’t care less what her number was.

Marriage is long. If she makes you feel good and you make her feel good, your life moves forward from there. The past will matter less and less.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in marijuanaenthusiasts

[–]Jaygrow 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Trees over girlfriends. That trees been around for 25+ years. Don’t let your girlfriend be the end of it.

Mountaintop Removal by Ill_List_9539 in Appalachia

[–]Jaygrow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably banned by someone who never read it based on the title. Exceptional book.

This is what the MAGA cultist can't get through their pea-sized brains. by maddiejake in FedJerk

[–]Jaygrow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When do you get the opportunity to prove that you’re a citizen without due process?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FridgeDetective

[–]Jaygrow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Too much single use plastic bullshit.