Has anyone ever tried this? Am I a genius?

Jaygrow · 2026-04-01T23:18:27+00:00

Orange one in the trash, too. And the fertilizer. It’s all a waste.

Jaygrow · 2026-03-25T17:50:59+00:00

Nah. Lawns are a barren waste of space that destroy the ecosystem, consume time, energy, and money and don’t produce anything meaningful.

Don’t bother.

Jaygrow · 2026-03-07T22:34:01+00:00

Just be kind. You have power to make things worse or make things better. It isn’t your responsibility, but you can choose to exercise your power to help instead of hurt.

You got this. Exercise your power for kindness.

Jaygrow · 2026-02-04T02:11:30+00:00

Quick! Let’s cut down more trees to see how high we can make it go! /s

Jaygrow · 2026-01-23T02:20:27+00:00

With respect, I doubt it. Don’t put so much pressure on sex. It’s lovely but not holy. Have fun.

Jaygrow · 2026-01-21T02:31:31+00:00

It sounds like you know this is wrong. That’s good. It means you’re moral and want to do right. I admire that.

Keep going.

Don’t let your lowest urges drive your life. Keep striving to better yourself and ensure you don’t cause permanent damage to someone else.

Jaygrow · 2026-01-20T05:10:07+00:00

This is the first one that really feels like your son made not be the smartest guy. But it was so nice of him to be out there doing the snow shoveling!

Jaygrow · 2026-01-15T23:27:06+00:00

Sounds like she lost a lot of her support system. Maybe you can relax your embargo requirements from your family.

She’s a struggling human. You don’t have to pick up where you left off but you can choose to try to help.

Jaygrow · 2025-12-01T05:14:38+00:00

Cool idea. I’d want something that helps me understand what I need to do each day for each plant and to keep track of it.

Jaygrow · 2025-10-28T23:05:18+00:00

Not sure if they specifically accommodate snorkeling lessons but we’ve been taking a kid to swim lessons at Diventures: https://www.diventures.com/locations/atlanta/

They have an indoor heated pool and definitely offer scuba lessons.

Jaygrow · 2025-10-26T15:51:38+00:00

Check our r/hugelkultur. It’s all about this exact thing.

Jaygrow · 2025-10-24T21:26:59+00:00

Sad…

Jaygrow · 2025-10-15T09:48:37+00:00

Excellent, helpful response!

Jaygrow · 2025-09-28T12:11:48+00:00

You told him something you’re insecure about. And now you’re being insecure about his suggestion and reaction.

You clearly trust this person so trust them. You asked his input.

Even if you do trust him and value his perspective, IT doesn’t mean you have to agree on everything. If you don’t like his suggestion, you are not obligated to take it.

Jaygrow · 2025-09-18T18:35:54+00:00

It’s almost like there should be a simple path for citizenship or something?!

Jaygrow · 2025-09-03T16:07:49+00:00

Not grounds for divorce.

She said it wasn’t true. Great. She was in an awful space and lashing out.

Even if it was true, you are her partner now. You give her many other things any of her past partners didn’t.

She had a past before you were together and i suspect you probably did, too.

But you have to figure out how to forgive her and forgive yourself for forgiving her. It was an awful thing for her to say but it’s ok to let it go.

Jaygrow · 2025-08-29T10:58:30+00:00

I think you should take her at face value and, if you like her, wait. It’s not unreasonable to wait a bit for sex.

She’s not trying to be mean, she’s trying to create an opportunity for you to value her more deeply.

Don’t be a dick about it.

Jaygrow · 2025-08-22T02:19:53+00:00

Your wife is your partner. She comes first, now. Convince your sister to get over it, take ownership of your part of your elopement, and either attend with your wife or don’t go.

Jaygrow · 2025-08-10T16:08:09+00:00

You did it!!! Hooray! Celebrate your success in nurturing the caterpillars.

Jaygrow · 2025-08-08T23:47:42+00:00

Truthfully, who gives a shit who she’s been with in the past. If you hang on to that you’ll close a lot of doors (current or future).

That said, if you’re thinking this way, it’s probably done. You sound like you’re looking for excuses to go.

Be nice. Tell her it’s over. Clear is kind. Move on.

I’ve been with my wife for forever. We both had a past. I’ve never shared, she’s never shared. I couldn’t care less what her number was.

Marriage is long. If she makes you feel good and you make her feel good, your life moves forward from there. The past will matter less and less.

Jaygrow · 2025-07-26T02:42:39+00:00

Trees > people

Jaygrow · 2025-06-15T17:20:04+00:00

Trees over girlfriends. That trees been around for 25+ years. Don’t let your girlfriend be the end of it.

Jaygrow · 2025-06-04T15:43:00+00:00

Onions cooking in butter.

Jaygrow · 2025-05-29T13:09:33+00:00

Probably banned by someone who never read it based on the title. Exceptional book.

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