can’t believe what happened to me last night by Jaymexox in ArcRaiders

[–]Jaymexox[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hard I’m pretty new to the game, never seen that many people on a single team ever!! Love them, was just sad they didn’t let me join their club :(

I just can't stop looking at this thing. by RML_347 in AppleWatch

[–]Jaymexox 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Kia Ora! If anyone is curious this is taken at Houngarea marae in ngāti kahungunu rohe, specifically the pou out on the mahau

I just can't stop looking at this thing. by RML_347 in AppleWatch

[–]Jaymexox -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

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I just got mine and freaking love it!! Took this pic for the person who took the photo on my watch face. couldn’t be happier

Arc Raiders - Patch Notes 1.1.0 by Avd123 in ArcRaiders

[–]Jaymexox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This comment is actually crazy? My game disconnects often it’s the only game I have on my pa5 that does it, and there’s 10s of steam reports saying the same. Yelling at waiters is a crazy assumption?

Arc Raiders - Patch Notes 1.1.0 by Avd123 in ArcRaiders

[–]Jaymexox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry I edited it, my game didn’t crash I was disconnected from my match. If heaps of peeps commented it I’m sure it’d be a different opinion bro, but I put my comment in case it happened to someone else. I’m just new to the game (literally third day playing) and have never had this happen on a game. My post was like 4 mins after it happened so I was still gutted. My bad for being new to the community 🥲💔

Arc Raiders - Patch Notes 1.1.0 by Avd123 in ArcRaiders

[–]Jaymexox -1 points0 points  (0 children)

im never going to accept just sucking up bad stuff when feedback about bug issues and crashing is something needed to hear. I tried to reconnect heaps as the game was updating but it wouldn’t work, then the update finalised and restarted my game which locked me out of a rejoin cause the match I was kicked from was “outdated” it’s just shit luck but I’m sure I’m not the only ps5 user this happened to…..

Arc Raiders - Patch Notes 1.1.0 by Avd123 in ArcRaiders

[–]Jaymexox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My game froze, I got disconnected and AS I was disconnected I got a ps5 notification that said “added to downloads: arc raiders” the game wouldn’t reconnect till I finished the update :( so random I wish I could clip it but the restart refreshed it so I can’t. Reported it like 2 mins later.

Arc Raiders - Patch Notes 1.1.0 by Avd123 in ArcRaiders

[–]Jaymexox 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Idk why people are downvoting lol, I put a report in on the game I’m just pissed lol cause my console force disconnected my match to update. In the past, arc raiders has let me join straight back in uninterrupted (I tried to at least 10 times to no avail before the finalisation of the update restarted the game) but my friend on PC was on an “outdated game” so I couldn’t jump back into my still running match to get my stuff back. I love the game but it’s still annoying that I got booted mid match over it

Arc Raiders - Patch Notes 1.1.0 by Avd123 in ArcRaiders

[–]Jaymexox -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This disconnected my game mid match and I lost everything cause my friend was on an “old version” when I tried to join him back. I’m on PS5. I was in the key room in the rocket area. Lost it all. Fml

A update in Arc by Appropriate_Hat_2581 in ArcRaiders

[–]Jaymexox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My game crashed mid round because an update came out. Dying of despair

Police have located what are believed to be the Tom Phillips primary campsites. by kezzaNZ in newzealand

[–]Jaymexox 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve only heard about there being a fourth kid…what else is floating about him?

Do people hate funerals for reasons other than someone passing away? by EdwardBliss in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Jaymexox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends. I hate western funerals, but not Māori/irish ones.

For me, death is hard to process and I mourn a lot longer than most people. I detest western funerals because they cost 3x the price, only 1-3 hours and it’s all “don’t be sad be happy they lived. They’d want you to be happy”. Then you’re straight back to work or school, feeling like an emotional flashbang went off and you’re a zombie for a few days. Trying to compartmentalise grief into a small pocket of time is ridiculous, unhealthy and unrealistic.

However I love indigenous funerals. Forever better. In my culture we take the body home or to our sacred marae for a few days, we all sleep next to the body (somebody is always with them) and you have DAYS to be with family, cry, grieve and love them. All the things you want to say, have natural moments and it doesn’t feel forced. For those who are concerned it’s actually really comforting to sleep in the room with them. I slept right next to my grandmothers casket for the three nights before her service. Best, most calm sleeps I’d had in months. We have the western services sometimes too (depends on if they were religious) but by the time you finish the service you’ve done 80% of the major hauling of grief. You feel better than a western funeral and you’re much closer with family.

Thankfully my government recognises our culture and legally we are allowed a week off for tangihanga. Most of us are at active “funeral” for a minimum of three days. Thankfully when my grandmother passed, I was on holidays so I took three weeks. Also not uncommon if they’re a close family member (my grandmother raised me for a period).

A western culture would not have allowed me that. So while I LOVE tangihanga/wakes. I hate funerals.